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AIBU?

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Original poster

To absolutely hate my DP...

131 replies

MrsLouisTheroux · 15/02/2013 20:29

for at least one week every month?
Ok, I suppose I know IAVU but I can't stand him.
The way he talks, what he says, his mannerisms.
Everything gets on my nerves.
Am I on my own? probably :(
Rant over.

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mrsjay · 15/02/2013 20:31

no im hating mine at the moment he is breathing funny Hmm I will be fine in a few days just ATM i could poke him in the eye with a hot needle

DameFanny · 15/02/2013 20:31

Once a month you say. Hmm.

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MrsLouisTheroux · 15/02/2013 20:33

Dame My beard is particularly luxurious ATM. :(

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BlackholesAndRevelations · 15/02/2013 20:34

Fanny beard?

YA kind of U to hate your dearly beloved.... I suggest you just stay away in case you actually kill him as later on in the month you might decide you quite like him after all.

Jacksmania · 15/02/2013 20:35

YANBU.

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MrsLouisTheroux · 15/02/2013 20:35

Mrsjay I'm suppressing the same feelings. Hmm a hot needle you say...

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LunaticFringe · 15/02/2013 20:37

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MrsLouisTheroux · 15/02/2013 20:37

blackholes There lies the problem, a few days ago I loved him a lot. Today I could happily kill him do without him. Next week, I will find I love him after all and would regret it terribly.

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mrsjay · 15/02/2013 20:39

tis all the hormones innit bastard things

Fairylea · 15/02/2013 20:40

I hate mine whenever he puts his cold feet on me or takes the duvet in the night.

I need a taser gun under my pillow.

WhereMyMilk · 15/02/2013 20:41

Mrsjay, my DH breathes funny-and worse at night. Gah!

And at the moment, he has a cough, which he then clears like a 90yr old, asthmatic who smokes and has a chest infection Makes me want to slap him. Stop fucking doing it!

mrsjay · 15/02/2013 20:42

mine wants to see if there is a film on sky that we both could watch Id rather not tbh

mrsjay · 15/02/2013 20:43

see how Unreasonable that is he wants to do something nice id rather stick pins in my own eyes Grin

IvorHughJangova · 15/02/2013 20:44

You're not alone.

Original poster
MrsLouisTheroux · 15/02/2013 20:47

Feeling slightly better thanks to getting it all out here! Glad I'm not alone Ivor!!
mrsjay DP has given up talking to me tonight, must be the scowl on my face every time he opens his stupid mouth :(

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MrsLouisTheroux · 15/02/2013 20:48

wheresmymilk DP's eating/breathing is going through me, it's awful.

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discrete · 15/02/2013 20:51

I am the same. But only since I've had the dc.

He usually apologises for existing and thanks me for having his children and is very sorry for the hormonal side effects.

Makes me want to punch him.

mrsjay · 15/02/2013 20:53

well he is just being feeble discrete he needs slapped with a wet fish for that Grin

Original poster
MrsLouisTheroux · 15/02/2013 20:54

discrete : He usually apologises for existing Grin
My DP needs to do that today. Grrr.

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MikeOxardAndWellard · 15/02/2013 20:55

Hmm, depends which week really. If it's the week after payday, and you want him to leave the money and piss off for a week then YABU. If it's your fertile week, that's a bit U but understandable! If it's period week, I really wouldn't worry about it, he probably hates you back. ;)

Punkatheart · 15/02/2013 20:55

Yes I really don't like your DP either.

He keeps coming around here and I tell him - no Steve/Dave/Pete/Harry/Clive - Mrs Louis Theroux needs you.

Bloomin' nuisance.

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FryOneFatManic · 15/02/2013 20:55

Thank god I don't get PMT

ledkr · 15/02/2013 20:56

I get this too. Just coming out of this months hatred and love him again now. It's awful isn't it? I can barely look at him.

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MrsLouisTheroux · 15/02/2013 20:56

OH JESUS WEPT. He's eating bl**dy CRISPS now :(

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MrsCosmopilite · 15/02/2013 20:56

I felt like that earlier. And DD was really winding me up. I had PMT, she is teething. We were a pair of miserable buggers.

DH has gone to get curry. I think I like him more now than I did earlier! :)

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