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Original poster

To absolutely hate my DP...

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MrsLouisTheroux · 15/02/2013 20:29

for at least one week every month?
Ok, I suppose I know IAVU but I can't stand him.
The way he talks, what he says, his mannerisms.
Everything gets on my nerves.
Am I on my own? probably :(
Rant over.

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Branleuse · 15/02/2013 21:35

a friend of mine actually set a reminder on her phone for a week before she was due on her period every month, to remind her not to leave her dh

FeistyLass · 15/02/2013 21:35

Aw, Flojo Thanks

chickensarmpit · 15/02/2013 21:36

He picks his nose and eats it too. Sometimes he rolls it into a ball. He's Wayne slob!

aldiwhore · 15/02/2013 21:36

I think I may have ranted at DH the other night while watching a film... he was only breathing but it was winding me up.

IWBU.

He's rather nice and I love him, but sometimes I need to control my environment, I could feel his body heat and it was affecting my comfort... he was on the other side of the room minding his own business. I politely asked him to leave.

*Alright, I know you're feeling ill dh, there's no need to stagger along holding the edge of the table like you've been shot. Just get the bloody lemsip. God.

  • Perfect!!

He's got sciatica, I know it hurts, I've had it, but it wasn't MY fault I stood on him he was lying spreadeagled on the floor like he'd been crucified on the carpet and I just didn't see him... he was in the middle of my well travelled route.

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MrsLouisTheroux · 15/02/2013 21:37

Flo Oh, I feel for you :( Don't feel bad.
Being serious for a moment, it's a horrible feeling, I hate feeling like this.

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FeistyLass · 15/02/2013 21:37

Branleuse I think I need to do that. I had lunch with dsis yesterday and was ranting so much about dp (eg having the cheek to ask if I wanted to get a babysitter and go out Hmm ), that she must think a divorce is imminent Blush .

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MrsLouisTheroux · 15/02/2013 21:38

aldi Grin Did you tread on him?! Grin

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DontstepontheMomeRaths · 15/02/2013 21:39

I've taken extra strong Vit B6 and evening primrose oil for the last 7 days, I'm due today and I think it's helped. I haven't gone defcom 5 at the kids this month. I'll try again next month, it could be a fluke?

This was the first time I've tried it. I haven't shouted or cried at them this time unheard of

I'm a lone parent too.

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MrsLouisTheroux · 15/02/2013 21:39

DP has gone to bed. GOOD.

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chickensarmpit · 15/02/2013 21:40

He catches his trumps in his hands, throws it at me and shouts cup of hoop! I don't know why he's not under the patio yet. One day though...

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MrsLouisTheroux · 15/02/2013 21:41

Dontstep Have you taken them all month? Do you feel like they have worked? I need to try something!

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MrsLouisTheroux · 15/02/2013 21:41

chicken I don't like your DH either!

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StuntGirl · 15/02/2013 21:42

Aw mrs I don't think I've ever had it that bad :(

happybubblebrain · 15/02/2013 21:43

YANBU
Nearly all men annoy me.

Which is why I'm very glad I don't have to live with one.

Iggly · 15/02/2013 21:44

chicken your DH sounds like a 12 year old boy.

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MrsLouisTheroux · 15/02/2013 21:45

stunt I know :( Feeling a bit better that others go a 'bit' mad too :)
Poor DP.
(Did I just say that?!)

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MrsLouisTheroux · 15/02/2013 21:45

happy :)

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DontstepontheMomeRaths · 15/02/2013 21:46

No, not all month. Just the week leading up to it. I probably could take them all month but as I have to go into town to the H&B to buy them at the higher dosage, I try and make them last Grin

I did used to take Seven Seas Super Vitamin B6 as a teen. It did help but they stopped selling it at that dosage a long time ago and I forgot all about it until last month, when I really went off the deep end with pmt Blush It's helped, or is it placebo? That's why I need to do it again next month.

ginmakesitallok · 15/02/2013 21:46

And the worst fucking bit?? Just when you are convinced that THAT IS IT!! HE CAN'T LOVE ME - HE'S WATCHING FOOTBALL FFS!!!,you suddenly become rational again and realise that it really isn't him, it's you...Sad

Branleuse · 15/02/2013 21:50

evening primrose oil thing really does work but you need to take 3000mg a day, all month long.

I have gone from feeling like leaving every month and sobbing, to just going off sex a bit, but everything serious.

sherbetpips · 15/02/2013 21:50

Mother nature is one screwed up lady. The week before my period I can't stand him... Breathing, eating, talking....
In middle of heavy as hell flow a week later and want to rip his clothes off.

Biatch.

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MrsLouisTheroux · 15/02/2013 21:52

dont I think I'll try them. Placebo or not, it can do no harm! :)
gin I know. He's gone up to read and I feel quite happy now. I think I just need to be on my own when I feel like this!

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mrsjay · 15/02/2013 21:54

Itake vit b complex i cant swallow evening primrose they are bloody hooge

DontstepontheMomeRaths · 15/02/2013 21:54

I know that it's not good to take a very high dose of Vitamin B6. I think that's why they stopped selling it at the high dosage but they both help. I'm certain of it. Get thee to H&B, Boots or similar.

captainmummy · 15/02/2013 21:58

Chicken - take a needle with you everywhere you go and stick his sorry arse wih it. Guaranteed results, i bet!

I hate you.