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to understand why newbies feel unwelcome when there's a certain group of people on here that think mumsnet is all about them?

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truthful · 23/05/2012 10:47

I really do understand why there is a 'flouncers corner' on this site and I understand why people feel the need to go to it!
Six months ago I joined this site and on my first ever thread there was about 10 people who all clearly knew eachother and started their own conversation and completely ignored me! I felt really unwelcome but just thought it was a one off. Ever since then I've begun to realise that its like school on here and theres the 'popular' group who seem to think that everyone should know who they are and so they just hijack everyone elses thread and talk amongst themselves ignoring other people in the process! I was even in a thread yesterday and there was a discussion and one of the popular ones said something along the lines of ' oh its jack, havent seen you for a while, hows your dad?'
To me that was rude and if you know eachother that well then shouldn't you be emailing or private messaging instead of being so rude? I can honestly say I have said something regarding to what the OP was asking and been completely ignored by what send like the usual lot talking about scones or something Hmm
Another thing which I hate is all the private jokes flying around which is between the usual lot and no one else. Fanjo??? Grow up!
The only time people seem to get noticed is when they have changed their name to something like one of the popular peoples names! Remember the whole 'whos impersonating sue's thing yesterday??? seems like thats all people cared about as yiu are sooo popular so

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YourFanjoIsNotAHandbag · 24/05/2012 10:16

I had to do a cartwheel last night to show my 14 yo dd that I could do it, she thought I was too old!

Im quite proud of that!!

I'm also proud of being a mum and I have rl friends and a full time job, I actually get to talk to rl people all day :)

I don't see what's wrong with having a chat and a joke with people on mn as well and if you are going to get all offended cos people like each other, then maybe relax a little bit and join in ??

Ive never felt offended or persecuted by the "mumsnet royalty*

I think I might start now though....

Hullygully · 24/05/2012 10:17

I'm not "proud" of being a mum, I just am one.

BupcakesandCunting · 24/05/2012 10:18

Up your fucking bum.

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Get0rfMoiLand · 24/05/2012 10:19

Lol you twats Grin

OracleInACoracleocus · 24/05/2012 10:21

I can still put my foot on my head. and fit my fist in my mouth.

LeQueen · 24/05/2012 10:21

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BupcakesandCunting · 24/05/2012 10:21

"LIke opening a window and fucking the night" LeQueen That's what your husband says.

Get0rfMoiLand · 24/05/2012 10:21

Shock at albert hall inference!

Buppy - hope your finger stinks

Hullygully · 24/05/2012 10:22

hey bups

up whose bum?

TobyLerone · 24/05/2012 10:22

Toby you are my collection of circa 1978 Sindy dolls...

I did a LOL.

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TobyLerone · 24/05/2012 10:24

Ooooh, LeQ, it seems that we may be in the same-ish business...

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BupcakesandCunting · 24/05/2012 10:24

Up ALL ur bums. All of you. You cliquey ne'er-do-wells.

LeQueen · 24/05/2012 10:25

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TobyLerone · 24/05/2012 10:27
OracleInACoracleocus · 24/05/2012 10:29

LeQueen, and he loved it Wink

KatieMiddleton · 24/05/2012 10:29
Shock
my2centsis · 24/05/2012 10:29

I luff lequeen her posts always make me :)

I am also proud to be a mum even when 4yo dd has just devaloped a no it all attitude that I hate and 5mo ds is sick, I would like to run away

I can't do anything cool

Altho I can make the top if my middle finger bend so it looks like a 7 ... Let's all pretend that it cool so I too can feel special

Hullygully · 24/05/2012 10:31

I can't do that my2. That IS cool.

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