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to understand why newbies feel unwelcome when there's a certain group of people on here that think mumsnet is all about them?

822 replies

truthful · 23/05/2012 10:47

I really do understand why there is a 'flouncers corner' on this site and I understand why people feel the need to go to it!
Six months ago I joined this site and on my first ever thread there was about 10 people who all clearly knew eachother and started their own conversation and completely ignored me! I felt really unwelcome but just thought it was a one off. Ever since then I've begun to realise that its like school on here and theres the 'popular' group who seem to think that everyone should know who they are and so they just hijack everyone elses thread and talk amongst themselves ignoring other people in the process! I was even in a thread yesterday and there was a discussion and one of the popular ones said something along the lines of ' oh its jack, havent seen you for a while, hows your dad?'
To me that was rude and if you know eachother that well then shouldn't you be emailing or private messaging instead of being so rude? I can honestly say I have said something regarding to what the OP was asking and been completely ignored by what send like the usual lot talking about scones or something Hmm
Another thing which I hate is all the private jokes flying around which is between the usual lot and no one else. Fanjo??? Grow up!
The only time people seem to get noticed is when they have changed their name to something like one of the popular peoples names! Remember the whole 'whos impersonating sue's thing yesterday??? seems like thats all people cared about as yiu are sooo popular so

OP posts:
tethersend · 23/05/2012 12:49

Ooooh, just seen this.

Have I been mentioned?

Moominsarescary · 23/05/2012 12:49

Good luck Mary

Pinot · 23/05/2012 12:51

tethers!

How are you and baby? squeee!

Moominsarescary · 23/05/2012 12:51

As for being ignored, who cares. The children do it to me all the time

threetequilafloor · 23/05/2012 12:53

YANBU

Smellslikecatspee · 23/05/2012 12:59

pops in to offer fresh from the oven cinnamon scones with melty butter

runs away again

tethersend · 23/05/2012 13:00

We are well Pinot Smile

Well, I still feel like I've been hit by a truck, but am happy. Baby is sleepy and tiny. It's all going well, although I'll be in a puddle of hormonal tears by teatime, I'm sure. Will try and put a photo up.

Of the baby, not the sobbing.

ShirleyKnot · 23/05/2012 13:02

Have you had the baby Tethers!!!!!! How did I miss this FAFS.

Awwwwwwwww, BABIES! What's the name? When did it occur?

CONGRATULATIONS!

lunar1 · 23/05/2012 13:02

Im not really bothered by the 'in crowd' whoever they are. I have to admit though i find it really upsetting when someone comes on desperate for help and several posters start arguing between themselves. It can go on for pages and pages, then someone points out that the OP hasn't returned after an hour. next you get loads of posts saying it was made up, and obviously then the OP doesn't come back as the thread has become completely out of hand.

I really wish in these cases mumsnet would just delete from when the thread went off track

TobyLerone · 23/05/2012 13:02

I did not know about this baby development.

Congratulations!

Pinot · 23/05/2012 13:05

Congratulation lovely tethers! Thanks Brew [new fanjo]

Really really pleased for you x

catgirl1976 · 23/05/2012 13:17

Oh congratulations! How lovely :)

tethersend · 23/05/2012 13:18

Shirley!

Thanks Smile

She's called, er... Shirley. My. This could be awkward.

She was born on Friday. She's ace.

tethersend · 23/05/2012 13:19

Don't worry Pinot, fanjo intact- another one through the sunroof Wink

tethersend · 23/05/2012 13:20

Sorry for the horrible irony, OP.

tethersend · 23/05/2012 13:21

Thanks Cat and Toby Smile

LemarchandsBox · 23/05/2012 13:24

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Pinot · 23/05/2012 13:25

Ahhh all mine came through the sunroof too!

In that case I offer a [cushion to hold against your scar for when you laugh, cough or fart]

shine0ncrazydiamond · 23/05/2012 13:27

Is it worth me trawling through 12 pages?

No?

nickelbarapasaurus · 23/05/2012 13:29

no,. shiny.
the important bit is choosing your dinosaur name ...

nickelbarapasaurus · 23/05/2012 13:30

shiney, not shiny! Shock

Peachy · 23/05/2012 13:32

Can anyone on here who was never new pleae leave now.

Sorted.

StepAwayFromTheEcclesCakes · 23/05/2012 13:32

I only have one pair of non-VPL-but-also-nude-colour pants LadyBE. And I'm wearing white linen trews. get thee to M&S Pinot

Congrats to tethers Thanks

shine0ncrazydiamond · 23/05/2012 13:33

shineonstegasaurus

nickelbarapasaurus · 23/05/2012 13:38

well done Grin

now you have to namechange
Grin

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