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105 replies

StuckinTheMiddlewithYou · 13/04/2011 23:29

My partner is on this site.

Just found out. shaking.

AIBU to chuck him out over this? Four years, no kids, TTC Grin Sad

Happened before.

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EvenLessNarkyPuffin · 13/04/2011 23:30

You really need to ask?

BoysAreLikeDogs · 13/04/2011 23:30

toss him out

I v rarely say LTB but really, don't waste any more of your life on this waster

MaisyMooCow · 13/04/2011 23:31

How did you find out?

Eurostar · 13/04/2011 23:31

Do you want to spend your life with a serial adulterer?
You could make a list of advantages and disadvantages...

Booandpops · 13/04/2011 23:32

If u have no kids then I'd say go. You deserve better!!
No kids no ties. Sorry you are having a crap time

StuckinTheMiddlewithYou · 13/04/2011 23:32

Can't beleieve this. Third time he's done this.

I have two bloody degrees - how have I fallen for it?

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igetmorelovefromthecat · 13/04/2011 23:34

Sack. Him. Off.

How horrible for you. I would definitely get out and be thankful you found out before you conceived.

StuckinTheMiddlewithYou · 13/04/2011 23:34

I'm a wimp.

Somebody crack me over the head.

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MaisyMooCow · 13/04/2011 23:34

OP, how did you find out ???????

StuckinTheMiddlewithYou · 13/04/2011 23:36

He left his email account open on my laptop.

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lubeybooby · 13/04/2011 23:36

Cracks StuckinTheMiddlewithYou over the head

GET RID!

Once, maybe forgiveale if you had been together 15 years and got bored. But thirs time caught in 4 years? Um.... no way.

Have some respect for yourself. He is laughing his arse off at you

lubeybooby · 13/04/2011 23:37

forgiveable even.

lubeybooby · 13/04/2011 23:37

and third!!! sorry, sausage fingers tonight.

poochela · 13/04/2011 23:39

Sad for you. But, in a big sisterly MN way - grow a pair and black bag him.

You are bending over for more if you let him stay.

Be brave and get him out of your life.

Sargesaweyes · 13/04/2011 23:40

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MaisyMooCow · 13/04/2011 23:40

The cheeky lowlife b'stard. I would want revenge before I binned him but that's just me!

Does he know you know? You should set the git up. Join yourself and get him to meet you. When he turns up to the venue you should have friends and family with you (tell them it's for another occasion to get them there in the first place) and then watch his face. Let all your friends and family see what a shit he is.

Onetoomanycornettos · 13/04/2011 23:41

Is there any need to ask?! Third time?! Look on the bright side, at least you have found out now. Sorry you are married to an idiot, but now you know you can do something about it.

poochela · 13/04/2011 23:42
StuckinTheMiddlewithYou · 13/04/2011 23:42

Tempted to post the contents of his profile to his facebook account. right now.

He's out at the moment.

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SkinittingFluffyBunnyBonnets · 13/04/2011 23:43

So sorry. Sad

Pack his bags and have them on the doorstep tomorrow when he arrives home from work.

Or better still send it all to his friends house or his Mothers house.

That is truly awful.

YouaretooniceNOT · 13/04/2011 23:44

You will leave him eventually, but you are not ready yet IMO. You believe you can change him.

MaisyMooCow · 13/04/2011 23:44

Do you think he's left his account open purposely so you would find it?

StuckinTheMiddlewithYou · 13/04/2011 23:46

He's a dozy git, he probably forgot to log out. Quite, quite spectacular.

He broke his laptop so was lending mine for awhile.

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