maritalaffair.co.uk

[StuckinTheMiddlewithYou]

My partner is on this site.

Just found out. shaking.

AIBU to chuck him out over this? Four years, no kids, TTC

Happened before.

Thats horrible! I'm so sorry, would have been shaken to the core to see something like that too. Hope you are ok OP.

I reported the trollhunters this morning but HQ have't responded!

what are you going to do, Op ?

OP

I am sorry , but you must get rid, he has no respect for you if he keeps doing this, how can he claim to love you at all. No excuses. he knows it upset you last time and he's done it again.

how many times are you going to let him kick you like this? Thank goodness you dont have the complication of kids with him - find someone wonderful who thinks YOu are wonderful and who deserves you, and live happily ever after instead.

No idea. Thank you for reporting them. The support is very much appreciated.

I'm sorry that you have been savaged like this. It takes a lot to open yourself up and ask for support and kindness - even on an anonymous internet site! you still feel vulnerable.

I am sorry that time has been spent crying troll at you when what you really need is some support and someone to talk things through with.

Dump him now. I didn't have the balls to dump my cheating twat of a husband until he was on tramp number 4, wish I'd done it much sooner. It will be hard going, but you will be OK in the end - please don't let yourself be treated like shit by this loser, you will regret the time you waste on him and you are worth so much more. Good luck.

He's a bastard. Leave him before you have children. Do you really want to spend your life with him?

Thing is.. He suffers from depression and I don't actually want him out on the street.

Urgh.

He's treating you appallingly and has lost the right for you to be concerned for his welfare IMO. Pack him a bag and boot his cheating arse out the door. You deserve better.

Don't you?

I know many people would say that someone who does that to them, forfeits the privilege of them giving a flying fuck where that person sleeps.

What do you intend to do? What do you want to do?

Awful. Not even a singles site, one that specifically references marriage. He is well-deserving a solicitor's letter.

yep, it must really depress him, shagging all these women

fgs, OP, don't feel sorry for him

that is just what he wants you to do

step away from the manipulation, seriously

he shags around

do you want to stay with a shagger ?

do you realise how much of an object of pity you must be? Do you realise how many people in the locality will talk, and how they will view you as a doormat ?

I would not stand for pity, from anyone

you are not a doormat

take your life, and your self respect back

you don't even have dc with this inadequate fucker

just bin him

your self esteem will thank you for it

I have no proof of him actually shagging anyone.

But then that's not the point is it? The intention was there. He denied it all too.

Get rid. You poor thing. What a twat?!

what is proof ?

you walk in on Laughing Boy with his cock buried in "MrsBoredFromHull" ?

think about it

StuckinTheMiddlewithYou

Please ignor all these stupid infantile posts. Its scary how many on here are so quick to give up on a relationship. Could it not be just idle curiousity that he was looking at that site? Just because he visits a lap dancing club, doesn't necessarily mean he's about to run off the lap dancer!!

Yes Einstein it's the old Mumsnet "ONE strike and he's out"

Mkes me wonder how many of the people on here who are so quick to say "Leave him" have had a succesful reltionship to begin with!

I am not sayig it's ok for a married man to look on these sites....but it needs more thoght and perhaps councelling.

There are those who would consider visiting a lap dancing club to be a deal breaker, even if he wasn't bollock deep in one.

Oh, and it's not the first time is it? It's the third time. Third time he's actually been caught, at any rate.

And messages such as "Here's one of my face, taken by my girlfriend. Let me know if you're interested and drop me some pics of you guys, sorry I've not got any of my cock"

Scarier than people who give up on relationships are people who lie down, write "welcome" on their arse and invite their partner to scrape the shit off their shoes on them.

stuck - please ignore the one stupid infantile post above. You seem to be trying to convince yourself that he hasn't really done anything that bad. Why? He's a cheat! Deliberately, consciously and with intent. Why would you want a life with someone like that?

Skinit did you not read the earlier posts? He's done this before more than once!

EricNorthmansMistress

Your're single then. Lol.

Well I'm not single, Einstein. I adore my husband and my family is my very life, but I can tell you'd he'd be out on his arse the second I found this. I believe in second chances, but not third or fourth!

Marriage and partnership work when both participants have the other's best interest at heart. And the OPs DP clearly doesn't.

Life is too short to be treated like this, darling.

EricNorthmansMistress

Your're single then. Lol.

Nope, married, thanks. You're a twat though.