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105 replies

StuckinTheMiddlewithYou · 13/04/2011 23:29

My partner is on this site.

Just found out. shaking.

AIBU to chuck him out over this? Four years, no kids, TTC Grin Sad

Happened before.

OP posts:
bringmesunshine2009 · 14/04/2011 10:44

Agree with GiddyPickle, she is exactly right.

You will find a way to have babies. x

JimmyChooChoo · 14/04/2011 10:52

I've just looked at that link.Now my DH might think I'm having an affair!
Gives me the creeps this awful cheating sites.Some right feckers out there.

I don't think OP is a troll but she didn't have to write the web address.Then she would sound more real.

OP have you told your DH that you've discovered this?I'm sorry.You must feel awful.What are you going to do next?
Maybe you should post on relationships.

Please let us all know how you get on.

JimmyChooChoo · 14/04/2011 11:11

OP I've just seen a comment of yours on another thread where you say your DP has depression and has panic attacks walking down the street and is unemployed.
Do you think he's capable of an affair?I think he's living in a dream land.

EricNorthmansMistress · 14/04/2011 11:16

You can't nick a username by changing the caps to lower case. StuckInTheMiddleWithYou belongs to StuckInTheMiddleWithYou however the letters are capitalised or not. So stop suggesting she's a troll - it's unkind.

SkinittingFluffyBunnyBonnets · 14/04/2011 11:18

Sorry! I never knew that Eric...my instinct was not one of trollery....but searching the name made the caps thing evident....and I thought it was some indication.

Blush
GypsyMoth · 14/04/2011 11:19

if its advertising why do it with such a negative slant???

surely more likely to be 'look at this gorgeous fella i have found!'

ffs!! amateur troll hunters,its not even lunchtime!

Flowerpotmummy · 14/04/2011 11:26

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EricNorthmansMistress · 14/04/2011 11:32

Yep - try seacrhing for skiniTtingfluffybunnyBonnets it should still show your posts.

EricNorthmansMistress · 14/04/2011 11:34

I have two versions of my name saved on my computer because I changed to ericnorthmansmistress w/o caps first, so when I come to log in I have to pick which one I want, easy to click the wrong one which might be why it's slightly different in the OP but it's def still her!

ladysybil · 14/04/2011 11:51

make all the excuses you like, I still think op is a troll advertising for the site, and i think its a good one. not the site that is, but the trolling.

having other posts on the site doesnt mean a poster isnt a troll. it just means they have been here before.

EricNorthmansMistress · 14/04/2011 11:53
Hmm
GypsyMoth · 14/04/2011 12:29

so by that reasoning,you ladysybil,couls also be trolling?

Shimmerysilverglitter · 14/04/2011 12:45

ladysybil are you the MN resident Troll Catcher? I noticed you accusing someone in relationships too on a thread that didn't seem at all suspicious.

AccioPinotGrigio · 14/04/2011 12:59

What kind of morally bankrupt shithead would decide to set up this kind of website. I've never heard of such a thing but then I am usually behind the times when it comes to the internet. If the OP is genuine then dump the fucker. If the OP is an employee or the owner of this website then fuck the fuck off, how do you sleep at night making money out of people's fucking miserable relationships. Twat. Ahem. As you were ladies.

JimmyChooChoo · 14/04/2011 13:05

Agree AccioPinotGrigio.Creates pure misery.Remember an interview recently with a guy who owns www.ashleymadison.com.He's made fortunes.

Will never understand how people can live with themselves who go out of their way to cheat on their loved ones.

EricNorthmansMistress · 14/04/2011 13:07

OP is a proper member of mumsnet! Fuck me, no wonder the poor woman hasn't come back. This is troll hunting and it's nasty.

namechange100 · 14/04/2011 13:24

You never really do know people on here.

heliumballoons · 14/04/2011 13:34

stuck Sad I know its hard, I was with ex-p for 4 years and we had DS. I heard rumours of his cheating but with no evidence didn't want to accept it. Had to though when it became apparent and I kicked him out that night. DS was 13months old. Sad Please don't wait until your PG, it was having my baby to protect that gave me the balls to do it.

CheekyLittleSox · 14/04/2011 17:04

Im smelling a troll - shes not come back and probably wont come back.

MichaelaS · 14/04/2011 17:33

Grrr, i actually complained to the ASA a year or so ago - they were handing out flyers for this at liverpool st station in london. boo. if you are into swinging or open relationships then that's your business, but to promote deception between marriage partners - my goodness, its the sort of dream partner we all sign up for, right up there with the big white dress and the country cottage.

right, enough troll hunting, there is more interesting quarry to hunt. I propose a MN campaign against this evil website and the horrible people who use it. Here's the plan....

  1. find a friend or two
  2. set up a profile on the site, something tempty looking
  3. lure affair seekers into chatting, get lots of details (rough location of where they live, fb page ideal, names of wife / gf / kids)
  4. set up a meeting in a public place
  5. turn up, take pictures, hand them a marriage guidance leaflet and post the lot on the internet.

oh, and 6) make sure you discuss it with your OH first otherwise they might think you're looking for an affair!

MichaelaS · 14/04/2011 17:34

(they said they want more women on the site right?)

HecateQueenOfTheNight · 14/04/2011 19:32

Would YOU come back after you post something so devastating, hoping for support from the site you have been a member of under the same name since May 2010 and very possibly under a different name before that, who knows? and you get bloody troll troll troll cries because you dared to put the name of the ruddy website in your post?

I wouldn't.

StuckinTheMiddlewithYou · 14/04/2011 19:36

fruit shoots, nice ham, raven meeting cameron over nappies, invasion of the huns, darwkins webchat......

Credentials proved yet? Hmm

Yes, displaying the human misery which this site causes is a great advert for it...

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StuckinTheMiddlewithYou · 14/04/2011 19:37

oh and thank you Hecate and Ericnorthmensmistress.

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GypsyMoth · 14/04/2011 19:38

dont worry,its the trollhunters who look stupid.......bloody stupid actually!!hows things stuckinthemiddle??

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