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105 replies

StuckinTheMiddlewithYou · 13/04/2011 23:29

My partner is on this site.

Just found out. shaking.

AIBU to chuck him out over this? Four years, no kids, TTC Grin Sad

Happened before.

OP posts:
StuckinTheMiddlewithYou · 13/04/2011 23:48

There's a message with photos, to somebody saying:

Here's one of my face, taken by my girlfriend. Let me know if you're interested and drop me some pics of you guys, sorry I've not got any of my cock

OP posts:
EggyFucker · 13/04/2011 23:49

"dozy"

is that the worst descriptive word you can dredge up to call him ?

Allalone0 · 13/04/2011 23:49

OP, having a degree won't somehow make you better at 'KNOWING if your partner is or isn't cheating on you'.....you love them and so you trust them!!!

Sorry for what your going through, though. :(

StuckinTheMiddlewithYou · 13/04/2011 23:50

Shit he's back.

Cheers ladies.

OP posts:
EggyFucker · 13/04/2011 23:50

sorry love, once is a mistake

twice is foolish

3 times.. you are the fool

sticking around for the 4th ?

MaisyMooCow · 13/04/2011 23:50

OP, I really feel for you. I know how shocked and upset you must be by this.

You should screen print that page, photocopy it and circulate it around his office! (I'm such a bitch!)

YouaretooniceNOT · 13/04/2011 23:50

Sorry i have a hunch this is a troll thread,..so far....

EggyFucker · 13/04/2011 23:51

yes, I believe she is

Sad
EggyFucker · 13/04/2011 23:52

I am always suspicious of the ones who log off as the Boy Wonder suddenly "arrives home"

MaisyMooCow · 13/04/2011 23:59

Maybe this is the owner of the website doing a bit of advertising!!!

EmmaBemma · 14/04/2011 06:40

that's what I thought, Maisy... it's advertising.

FanjOeuForTheMammaries · 14/04/2011 06:55

AFAIK she is a regular poster and not a troll

HecateQueenOfTheNight · 14/04/2011 07:04

stuckinthemiddlewithyou is a regular poster.

love, you have no real ties to this bloke. He's putting it about. Either you stay with him and accept he will not be faithful or you split.

It's your choice.

Perhaps he wants to start swinging, maybe he wants an open relationship, maybe HE wants to dip his wick as he feels like it but wants YOU to be faithful to him (that's more often the bloody case!), I don't know. Maybe you should confront him.

But you get what you choose to accept. I'm sorry. That sounds very uncaring. But it's the reality. He's done it before more than once and no doubt made all sorts of promises, and you stayed. He's doing it again.

Choose.

merrywidow · 14/04/2011 07:07

after my H passed away i found his membership to this particular site on his computer. His profile in no way matched the man I knew.

he had obviously met at least one woman.

EricNorthmansMistress · 14/04/2011 07:51

He will always be looking for ways to find and meet other women to have sex with. Do you want to live like that? Do you want to have your routine tests when you get pregnant to find he's givem you chlamydia? Do you want to always be paranoid and wondering where he is when he's late home? Do you want a man who thinks so little of you?

plupedantic · 14/04/2011 10:15

Print it off! Gather evidence. If you work things out, you won't need it, but you will kick yourself if you do need it.

And log off MN so he can't see you on here.

ineedagoodsolicitor · 14/04/2011 10:25

No, this must be a troll post.

OP says she has 2 degrees but doesn't know that her dp is "borrowing" her laptop not "lending" it for a while.

FanjOeuForTheMammaries · 14/04/2011 10:26

It's called a colloquialism

FanjOeuForTheMammaries · 14/04/2011 10:27

Probably a regional one.

plupedantic · 14/04/2011 10:27

I thought the "lending" thing must be a regionalism? Or perhaps she's not a native speaker of English. I have been surprised sometimes to discover a poster is not writing in her first tongue, as the idiom has always seemed spot on.

MooMooFarm · 14/04/2011 10:32

So sorry for you.

Leave him, leave him, leave him.

What possible reason could there be to stay?

ladysybil · 14/04/2011 10:33

okie, I have just googled this (coz ive nothing better to do) :D

I think this is the website trying to drum up business from women. thats it. :) quite a well thought out way actually. lol

iskra · 14/04/2011 10:34

merrywidow, that must have been really hard.

ladysybil · 14/04/2011 10:35

review

ignore the actual article and scroll down to the comments. they need female members coz they havent got any.

SkinittingFluffyBunnyBonnets · 14/04/2011 10:44

*StuckInTheMiddleWithYou" is a real poster...but StuckinThemiddleWithYou is a variant...not written the same...use of caps.