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What are you up to today if you have a Chronic Illness. Thread 11 🧵Last of the Summer

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MewithME · 21/08/2026 18:20

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martha79 · 07/09/2026 17:08

Sorry you're having such a hard time with the pain @TodayIsabetterone

Funny afternoon - I was meant to have one meeting which I got ready for at 4pm... then realised it was at 4.30... then they didn't turn up 🙄

Then my landlady had texted earlier to ask if I could show someone round the remaining empty flat as they could only do 5pm today and she couldn't get anyone there for it. So I have had a nosey at next door (nice but very small), and done my best sales patter (because he seemed like a decent person).

Other excitement is that I ordered some ankle-length wellies for pottering down to the park on wet days and they've just arrived. Seem very comfy. And they're leopard print!

martha79 · 07/09/2026 19:30

Warning if anyone else is watching Professor T - you may need your tissues at the ready for the final episode 🥲

Oioiqueen · 07/09/2026 19:45

@TodayIsabetterone sorry to hear that you are having so much pain and nobody is willing to help.

MewithME · 07/09/2026 20:02

Ohhh liking the sound of your wellies @martha79 😄

The electrician didn't turn up 😭

Got to go into office tomorrow too and I'm exhausted. Gone over my budget. Pace points on my visible gadget have been binned through this afternoon.

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martha79 · 07/09/2026 20:45

Wellies (and new slippers)!

What are you up to today if you have a Chronic Illness. Thread 11 🧵Last of the Summer
CoffeeBeansGalore · 07/09/2026 20:50

@martha79 love them!

@TodayIsabetterone sorry you are struggling. Sounds very unfair treatment.

MewithME · 07/09/2026 21:38

So cheerful @martha79 ❤️

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Swanhilde · 08/09/2026 08:43

It's wet and windy here so a good day to rest again ☕

Really want to finish the jumper I started earlier in the year. It was just too hot to knit over the summer so I'll dig it out and carry on 🧶

Have a peaceful day all 💕

martha79 · 08/09/2026 09:05

Morning all, wet and windy here too although I don't think it's quite welly weather.

Curses to your electrician @MewithME. I hope it's not too bad being in the office today.

I've started knitting a scarf - I haven't got the concentration for patterns, but straight knitting is quite relaxing. Found a huge ball of fluffy wool in one of my boxes, although not sure if it's enough, so I may end up with just a big rectangle/ mini blanket 😂

CoffeeBeansGalore · 08/09/2026 09:21

Morning all.
Nice & bright here at the moment.

TeaAndStrumpets · 08/09/2026 09:24

Morning all,

I've had a few off days and everything is inflamed. I know things will calm down eventually so trying to be patient in the meantime.

DH still packing. Things are coming out of cupboards into boxes, lot and lots of boxes. Most of it belonging to DH who never gets rid of ANYTHING. i am simultaneously glad he's doing the heavy stuff and pissed off that he is hanging on to so much. Can only say that here! Can't mention it in real life 😟 We literally can't spare two hours to have an argument about it, so I'm standing by while he packs everything!

We have some friends who moved back to England from South Africa years ago, leaving the removals people to pack everything. When they eventually got their shipping container back here they discovered that the packing people had carefully wrapped a boiled egg! It had been forgotten on the kitchen worktop so it just got packed.

TodayIsabetterone · 08/09/2026 09:32

Morning 👋
A very rainy one here too so had to put my raincoat over pjs and lure dippy dog outside with treats where she dashed underneath the parasol, did the speediest wee ever and ran back inside pronto and back up to bed 😂 Both still chilling in bed with a cuppa ☕️

Enjoy a rest day @Swanhilde and definitely a knitting type of weather!

I can only do straight knitting too @martha79 though not with current shoulder/arm issues 🙄 I do have a scarf I started last winter and never finished but my knitting projects tend to go like that! I’ll get back to it one day.
Maybe you could turn yours into a fluffy cat blanket?

No rain for you @CoffeeBeansGalore Enjoy that!

I feel your pain @TeaAndStrumpets so hard having to stand by and just watch but I think it’s the best approach to just let him get on with it. Frustrating for you though, so vent to us instead. We don’t mind!
Oh the boiled egg story is priceless! I can just imagine unwrapping it at the other end 😂

TeaAndStrumpets · 08/09/2026 09:57

TodayIsabetterone · 08/09/2026 09:32

Morning 👋
A very rainy one here too so had to put my raincoat over pjs and lure dippy dog outside with treats where she dashed underneath the parasol, did the speediest wee ever and ran back inside pronto and back up to bed 😂 Both still chilling in bed with a cuppa ☕️

Enjoy a rest day @Swanhilde and definitely a knitting type of weather!

I can only do straight knitting too @martha79 though not with current shoulder/arm issues 🙄 I do have a scarf I started last winter and never finished but my knitting projects tend to go like that! I’ll get back to it one day.
Maybe you could turn yours into a fluffy cat blanket?

No rain for you @CoffeeBeansGalore Enjoy that!

I feel your pain @TeaAndStrumpets so hard having to stand by and just watch but I think it’s the best approach to just let him get on with it. Frustrating for you though, so vent to us instead. We don’t mind!
Oh the boiled egg story is priceless! I can just imagine unwrapping it at the other end 😂

Yes I've decided to let it all roll over me! I think a lot of the boxes will stay unpacked for years but at least they are all clearly labelled for posterity 😏

TeaAndStrumpets · 08/09/2026 10:10

I mean they will stay packed, not unpacked. Brain not working.

TeaAndStrumpets · 08/09/2026 10:22

martha79 · 07/09/2026 19:30

Warning if anyone else is watching Professor T - you may need your tissues at the ready for the final episode 🥲

Thanks for the warning! Will watch when I am feeling better. I have been banned from exciting/emotional TV this week as my adrenaline levels are going mad.....heart rate etc.

We are partway through Legends with Steve Coogan but it's getting a bit violent so it's on hold for a bit. I was really enjoying it - it's from the makers of The Gold and really gripping.

martha79 · 08/09/2026 10:38

I'm surprised the cats haven't got more involved in the knitting, they usually like to chase the wool. But yes, they might like a blanket, they'll probably adopt the scarf anyway if I leave it anywhere!

😂at the egg story. At least it was hard boiled. A relative of mine once sent me a parcel of Easter goodies, things like a knitted egg cosy. And an egg to go in it. An uncooked egg. In the post.

TeaAndStrumpets · 08/09/2026 11:22

martha79 · 08/09/2026 10:38

I'm surprised the cats haven't got more involved in the knitting, they usually like to chase the wool. But yes, they might like a blanket, they'll probably adopt the scarf anyway if I leave it anywhere!

😂at the egg story. At least it was hard boiled. A relative of mine once sent me a parcel of Easter goodies, things like a knitted egg cosy. And an egg to go in it. An uncooked egg. In the post.

That's amazing! Did they have a previous life as a Pickfords employee?

I've just packed up DD2's birthday presents to post, no eggs involved! I am running out of smutty bodice rippers to send, so she's got a normal book with a pretty cover. It's a long-running joke to find the paperback with the most objectified half naked nobleman depicted on the cover - a nice change from her day job in Proper Literature.

Also cash of course and a nice insulated mug for wfh days. It's a struggle buying for adults, money is always useful but I try to find something to unwrap.

TodayIsabetterone · 08/09/2026 12:26

Those gifts sound great @TeaAndStrumpets It definitely gets trickier to choose presents as they get older as I tend to think ‘ Oh I bought that last year or the year before!’

I found my mum ( 86) hard to buy for this time as I’ve bought her most things over the years. I had a brainstorm on our recent cruise to get a nice perfume as I was scooting by the store most days and it’s a nice change to buy from an actual shop, not my usual online. DH was very patient as the decision process involved multiple trips and multiple sprays! In the end I remembered an old one she used to love so played safe with that. She was thrilled!

TodayIsabetterone · 08/09/2026 12:30

lol at the uncooked egg @martha79 😂😂 I can’t believe it survived the post!

TeaAndStrumpets · 08/09/2026 12:37

TodayIsabetterone · 08/09/2026 12:26

Those gifts sound great @TeaAndStrumpets It definitely gets trickier to choose presents as they get older as I tend to think ‘ Oh I bought that last year or the year before!’

I found my mum ( 86) hard to buy for this time as I’ve bought her most things over the years. I had a brainstorm on our recent cruise to get a nice perfume as I was scooting by the store most days and it’s a nice change to buy from an actual shop, not my usual online. DH was very patient as the decision process involved multiple trips and multiple sprays! In the end I remembered an old one she used to love so played safe with that. She was thrilled!

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Oh that is a very nice gift!

I sometimes browse the Fragrantica website looking for perfume tips. They analyse what "notes" feature in each perfume and tell you what other perfume is most similar. I suppose it's a bit like wine tasting.

Sadly I don't drink wine or wear perfume these days!

martha79 · 08/09/2026 13:28

TeaAndStrumpets · 08/09/2026 11:22

That's amazing! Did they have a previous life as a Pickfords employee?

I've just packed up DD2's birthday presents to post, no eggs involved! I am running out of smutty bodice rippers to send, so she's got a normal book with a pretty cover. It's a long-running joke to find the paperback with the most objectified half naked nobleman depicted on the cover - a nice change from her day job in Proper Literature.

Also cash of course and a nice insulated mug for wfh days. It's a struggle buying for adults, money is always useful but I try to find something to unwrap.

Not that I know of! The egg was slightly cracked but intact.

Oh I love Fragrantica @TeaAndStrumpets. I have quite a perfume collection (not generally expensive, just ones I like) and I'm so glad COVID didn't steal my sense of smell, but I am a lot more sensitive these days. Some I can no longer wear and just have to sniff the bottle.

TeaAndStrumpets · 08/09/2026 14:10

martha79 · 08/09/2026 13:28

Not that I know of! The egg was slightly cracked but intact.

Oh I love Fragrantica @TeaAndStrumpets. I have quite a perfume collection (not generally expensive, just ones I like) and I'm so glad COVID didn't steal my sense of smell, but I am a lot more sensitive these days. Some I can no longer wear and just have to sniff the bottle.

It's fab isn't it! Lots of rabbit holes to go down. DD1 loves Kelly Caleche, but also buys vintage half bottles of other ones she'll probably like, guided by Fragrantica. There are some gems out there.

danglethedingle · 08/09/2026 15:02

@martha79 I love those wellies, I find the ankle or mid shin length much more comfortable than the long ones.

I've had a good couple of days, I've managed to manage my energy and rest up before I'm really tired. I hate being sensible, but I know I can get more done if I go slower. Its against my nature though.

TodayIsabetterone · 08/09/2026 15:05

Oh I must look at that website thanks. I don’t wear perfume often either as like most of us here don’t go out much but sometimes I just wear it because I feel like it!
I’m lucky as I’m not overly sensitive to fragrances like many with ME although strong smelling flowers like Lilies always give me a headache and it took me ages to make the connection. I removed the lilies from a bunch one time and bingo the headache went!

FuzzyPuffling · 08/09/2026 15:08

Today I did a load of washing, cleaned a window and polished my double bass.
Random selection of jobs there.