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50 and old going to bed as early as possible - anyone else resonate ?

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Fomfue · 13/04/2026 04:17

I get up at 5.30-6am week days. I even like being in bed for 9.30pm on a weekend night too.

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Confessionsofa40yrold · 13/04/2026 17:28

50 and in bed by 8 at the very latest. Up at 4.30-4.45 every day. Mornings are the best part of the day 😊

Moveyourbleedingarse · 13/04/2026 17:40

Confessionsofa40yrold · 13/04/2026 17:28

50 and in bed by 8 at the very latest. Up at 4.30-4.45 every day. Mornings are the best part of the day 😊

Yes!!!!! So agree with this.

This morning I was walking around the farm next to our village, thick mist, sun coming through, frosty but the overwhelming smell of spring. Just glorious.

whatisforteamum · 13/04/2026 18:19

Glad it's not just me.
Pj's by 6 pm.I get up before 5 for work so I'm asleep by 10.lie on my bed watching TV and doomscrolling between 6 and 10 though.

mushmallow · 13/04/2026 18:21

im 37. In bed between 7.30-8.30, asleep within five mins of head on pillow. Up at 5.30.

paddyclampofthethirdkind · 13/04/2026 18:27

Nope. I’m an owl! I love my evenings! I’m up at 630 for work and maybe 830/9 at the weekend. Rarely in bed before 1130!

Fomfue · 13/04/2026 18:30

Confessionsofa40yrold · 13/04/2026 17:28

50 and in bed by 8 at the very latest. Up at 4.30-4.45 every day. Mornings are the best part of the day 😊

TOTALLY AGREE 😍

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Fomfue · 13/04/2026 18:31

Moveyourbleedingarse · 13/04/2026 17:40

Yes!!!!! So agree with this.

This morning I was walking around the farm next to our village, thick mist, sun coming through, frosty but the overwhelming smell of spring. Just glorious.

LOVE THIS

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Mumto2at · 13/04/2026 18:39

9:30 early? Really?
that's a late night for me and I'm 30 lol

Cricketashes · 13/04/2026 18:52

mushmallow · 13/04/2026 18:21

im 37. In bed between 7.30-8.30, asleep within five mins of head on pillow. Up at 5.30.

Wow, have you always been like that? Needing 10 hours sleep is unusual.

AgnesMcDoo · 13/04/2026 18:57

I love an early night. 930pm for me. 10pm if I’m feeling wild. Hot water bottle. Audiobook. Happy days. 🤣

Age 52

Q2C4 · 13/04/2026 19:02

Left to my own devices I’d have lights out at midnight and get up at 8am. Sadly life doesn’t easily cater for night owls so whilst I often meet the first target I rarely meet the second!

Iamthemoom · 13/04/2026 19:07

That’s a late night for me OP! Bed 8.30pm to read for an hour, awake 4am without fail, try to go back to sleep until 5am then up! If I go to bed later I still wake at 4 and feel exhausted!

mushmallow · 13/04/2026 19:13

Cricketashes · 13/04/2026 18:52

Wow, have you always been like that? Needing 10 hours sleep is unusual.

Yep. 10 hours a night. Love my sleep.

Bluebellsandwishingwells · 13/04/2026 19:52

I’m 61 and now retired. Have various health issues including a chronic cancer so do get tired. I’m in bed at 8.30 at the latest but like to go earlier, especially in winter. Read for a bit, chamomile tea, lights out by 10.30. If im in a good sleep phase will get up about 6, that’s ideal, otherwise 8. DP goes to bed about 1am or later 😵 We have separate bedrooms.

CallmePaul · 13/04/2026 19:59

Just past 50. Never bed before midnight if up at 6-7. Bed 2am yesterday, sprog slept till 8am very unusual usually up at 6am felt nicely rested this morning.

Don't think I've gone to bed at 9pm since I was 10 yrs old tbh.

Donttellhim · 13/04/2026 20:26

Totally relate. I don’t even really get up that early. Just love going to bed early. Not necessarily to sleep, but to chill. My bed is the place I feel 100% comfortable, a little haven.

Orchidhelp · 13/04/2026 20:48

No not for me, age 50. I am not a morning person and I don’t like waking up early though. I get up between 7-7:30am in the week but I’d stay in bed until 8:30am or later if I could. I go to bed between 10-10:30pm in the week, sometimes a little later on the weekend. If I go to bed too early I struggle to fall asleep.

LittleMi55Nobody · 13/04/2026 20:55

ME !!...im all snuggly in bed , got my pot of herbal tea and surrounded by puzzle books and garden magazines for summer inspiration

RampantIvy · 13/04/2026 23:00

Confessionsofa40yrold · 13/04/2026 17:28

50 and in bed by 8 at the very latest. Up at 4.30-4.45 every day. Mornings are the best part of the day 😊

Even in the middle of winter?

Rafting2022 · 13/04/2026 23:04

MikeRafone · 13/04/2026 05:21

I’m in my pjs by 5.30 and going to bed anywhere between 8-9

really need to work on my sleep atm

reading about front loading liquid, having salt and honey drink before bed to prevent upping for the loo at 4am

Could you tell me more about front loading liquid please or send a link? When I googled it, it came up with laundry liquids!

Moveyourbleedingarse · 14/04/2026 03:25

RampantIvy · 13/04/2026 23:00

Even in the middle of winter?

Yep. I walk with a headtorch and work out in the garage with a headtorch. (open frame garage away from the house).

BlueEyedBogWitch · 14/04/2026 03:42

We’re upstairs by nine, I read/doomscroll till about ten, then straight to sleep until about three, when I wake, Mumsnet, have a wee, doomscroll/go down an internet rabbit hole until I’m tired again, then it’s on with the Bluetooth sleep band for my Medieval second sleep.

Works for me!

Confessionsofa40yrold · 14/04/2026 06:42

Absolutely! Can get so much done when no one else is around. Pitch dark dog walks aren’t my favourite part but swings and roundabouts.

MildlyAnnoyed · 14/04/2026 08:47

Yes, absolutely! I get up at 5.30 / 6 & more often than not spend a couple of hours awake in the middle of the night. I’m usually in bed about 8.30 & watch TV for a bit & I’ll be asleep by 10. Even if I go to sleep later, I still wake up in the night so that doesn’t make any difference.

Casperroonie · 16/04/2026 22:27

Fomfue · 13/04/2026 04:17

I get up at 5.30-6am week days. I even like being in bed for 9.30pm on a weekend night too.

Yep. Not 50 yet but being in bed by 9.30pm sounds like heaven to me.