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Dying and the NHS

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TheAmusedQuail · 05/03/2026 23:43

This week, my elderly neighbour (history of heart problems) needed an ambulance. His wife called 999 and they told him the wait was 5 hours. The operator advised him to go to the local GP surgery which is a 5 minute walk away (2 min drive).

He died in the waiting room. The horror of the lack of help available to us in emergencies is like that of an undeveloped country. Today, I read about a man having a heart attack in A&E in the UK. He was left, rolling on the floor in agony, turning blue in the face and frothing at the mouth, in front of his family.

I'm not young, although not yet elderly. I'm terrified that there will be no help available, given that I'm getting older. I know it isn't just my neighbour, or the man I read about, or me. It's all of us. But I'm very scared.

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ParmaVioletTea · 07/03/2026 18:02

CraftyNavySeal · 06/03/2026 10:33

I’m in the same situation.

It’s always been very obvious to me that this is what the assisted dying bill is for. There is going to be an every increasing number of elderly people with no resources to care for them so the option will be to die.

Yup.

Look at the way elderly people - particularly women - are ignored or devalued. It's why I am absolutely opposed to the assisted dying bill.

Freysimo · 08/03/2026 06:55

user1497787065 · 07/03/2026 13:05

I think the problem lies with the fact that there are only three routes to treatment: GP, 101 or A and E. GPs here are Monday to Friday, the last time I called 101 and was told I would receive a call back within three hours I rang them after six hours and was then sent to A and E.

The NHS most certainly needs reorganisation but no political party will be brave enough to undertake it.

I agree, but what about a cross party committee?

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