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KatieA12B3C · 11/10/2025 00:53

Hi I am being hassled by a buyer over a £3 top I sold her. She wants a refund as it's too small. She's sent me a photo of the sleeves up her arm. The top is a 3/4 sleeve top and it says that in the description. Which I showed her and she said it doesn't fit anyway. She has asked Vinted to step in too. I have sent photos and of the description to Vinted. Now waiting for them to get back to me. I told the buyer to just resell it as it would cost her as much as the top to return. But she's insisting she doesn't want it as it doesn't fit and it would have to go in the bin otherwise. This is stressing me out!

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ThejoyofNC · 11/10/2025 08:15

This is a common scam with cheap items. She's trying to get you to refund her and let her keep it because cost of return isn't worth it. Basically she wants it for free.

Autumn1990 · 11/10/2025 08:18

I’d accept the return with her paying the postage. She probably won’t return it but it sets a deadline for it to be returned or you to get paid
I agree though she’s one of those chancers

JulesGeebee · 11/10/2025 08:42

I counted 15 white stripes on the sleeve in your photo but only 5 are visible in the image she took claiming she has had to stretch the sleeve. So what has she done with other two thirds of the sleeve? Very dodgy buyer

Rosecoffeecup · 11/10/2025 08:54

What a fucking loon, do people really have this much time on their hands?

Hohumdedum · 11/10/2025 09:09

Is the cuff meant to be wiggly? Or has she actually cut the sleeves shorter?

I sell on Vinted, I would let Vinted decide. Not fitting isn't a reason to refund or return, it's the risk you take.

NinePoppadomsAndASaagAloo · 11/10/2025 09:43

Do let us know the outcome @KatieA12B3C, I’d be really interested in how this pans out as a Vinted seller myself

ThirdStorm · 11/10/2025 10:13

I thought the same @Hohumdedum it looks like she’s cut the sleeve in the last image! What a nightmare over £3. I’ve had plenty of things that don’t fit but that’s on me if you clearly displayed the brand/size and I didn’t ask for additional measurements. I hope Vinted sort this out but definitely block her after this is resolved. Don’t want her coming back!

KatieA12B3C · 11/10/2025 10:30

Hohumdedum · 11/10/2025 09:09

Is the cuff meant to be wiggly? Or has she actually cut the sleeves shorter?

I sell on Vinted, I would let Vinted decide. Not fitting isn't a reason to refund or return, it's the risk you take.

Yes there was a frill edge to the sleeves and hem. The top was in excellent condition. Looking at the marks on it in her first photo I wouldn't even want it back. The 2nd photo she sent of the sleeves being shorter again, she has deleted. But I took a copy before she did that. Plus as another poster said above the body seems to fit her in that photo.

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KatieA12B3C · 11/10/2025 10:31

NinePoppadomsAndASaagAloo · 11/10/2025 09:43

Do let us know the outcome @KatieA12B3C, I’d be really interested in how this pans out as a Vinted seller myself

I will do. Thank you .

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Zempy · 11/10/2025 10:37

If I get a nutter like this, thankfully rare, I just agree the return and refund but AT THEIR EXPENSE.

If you do this, you look perfectly reasonable and she can’t leave you a bad review. Sure, you have to sell it again, but I wouldn’t give her the satisfaction.

She can’t leave return it, paying postage, or keep it. Only options.

slightlyoverbaked · 11/10/2025 11:12

I had similar and Vinted found in my favour. It was correctly labeled and advertised but the sizing was small. I’d done my bit, so it was tough luck on the buyer - one of the risks of buying on Vinted

Silverbirchleaf · 11/10/2025 11:16

I’d get her to send it back, at her expense. If it’s ruined, you’ve only lost £3, but she’s lost her £3 as well. As others have said, don’t fall into the trap of letting her keep it, and getting a free top.

beaniebabby · 11/10/2025 11:17

I had this & Vinted found in my favour. It's a risk that stuff doesn't fit

Throwitawayagain · 11/10/2025 11:23

There are six white lines on the sleeve in her picture. Lots more on yours . She's bunching the sleeve up. She's trying to get a free top. A chancer.

stopringingme · 11/10/2025 11:59

You could ask for a return - at the buyers expense it will then give her 5 days to start the return.

If she returns the item and it is not in the same condition that you sent it you can then raise an issue.

Make sure you take screenshots of everything - especially of messages with her saying it does not fit as that is not a reason for a return, unless the seller agrees.

I would not engage any further if you are waiting for vinted to decide, let her carry on sending messages, just don't respond.

If vinted say no return they will complete the transaction and she can leave feedback, you can respond underneath to any she leaves and also leave your own on her account.

If you decide to accept a return no feedback can be left on either side.

KatieA12B3C · 12/10/2025 16:18

I finally had a reply today ..........

Thank you for your reply.
We are currently in contact with the buyer and are waiting on additional proof.
Soon as we hear from them, we will make sure to contact you.
Thank you for your patience.
Talk soon!

Hi .... Thank you for getting back to me. I don't know what proof you need from the buyer. She is saying it is too small for her. There is nothing wrong with the top. It was in excellent condition when I posted it. The correct size was shown on the description, it matches the label. Plus the top was under the category 3/4 sleeve tops. Plus I added this to the description. Thank you

Thanks for reaching back.
After carefully looking into this case again, we have decided that the description of the item in your listing was correct.
For this reason, we will complete the transaction and release the payment of £3.0 to you. It will appear in your Vinted wallet within a few hours.

Nevertheless, we encourage you to contact your buyer to find an amicable solution.

If you have other questions, do not hesitate to get back to me.

See you soon on Vinted,

Thank you all so much for your replies. I read every one.

I don't know what they meant by 'Nevertheless, we encourage you to contact your buyer to find an amicable solution' though.

I will be interested to know what feedback I will receive now!!!

Watch this space!

Katie x

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KatieA12B3C · 12/10/2025 16:21

@NinePoppadomsAndASaagAloo

I have just added the outcome above. 🙂

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NinePoppadomsAndASaagAloo · 12/10/2025 16:28

Thanks for tagging me! I’m glad they’ve sided with you. I would take the money and block her immediately. If you’re able to, please PM me her username so I can make sure she never buys from me 🤣

“Amicable solution” indeed!! 🤣🤣

EstherGreenwood63 · 12/10/2025 16:42

Omg OP what a dickhead! Happily you get your money. She needs to pay to return! 😂

KatieA12B3C · 12/10/2025 16:53

EstherGreenwood63 · 12/10/2025 16:42

Omg OP what a dickhead! Happily you get your money. She needs to pay to return! 😂

You are so right!!! 😂 ..... I have received my money.

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beaniebabby · 12/10/2025 16:58

she will likely leave you negative feedback but you can do the same.

KatieA12B3C · 12/10/2025 17:09

beaniebabby · 12/10/2025 16:58

she will likely leave you negative feedback but you can do the same.

I'm expecting it!!!

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MoominMai · 12/10/2025 17:14

KatieA12B3C · 11/10/2025 01:53

Eh? How's she got the sleeve from that length to this length? Exactly my thoughts!!!

She’s gathered it right up into her armpit 🤦🏻‍♀️. You can see the numerous creases which isn’t normal if the sleeve was properly pulled down as far as it could go.

KatieA12B3C · 12/10/2025 17:23

Well she's already left her feedback. My first ONE star ever!

don't like leaving bad reviews but i'd like to say she refused to let me return a 3 pound top since 3 pounds are a lot of money for her clearly. the top doesn't even fit me and now will be thrown away as it's sad as i don't have space for clothes. beware,she doesn't allow people to return even if the item doesn't fit.

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FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 12/10/2025 17:24

She’s fucking mental.