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Why is no-one talking about the d4vd situation?

138 replies

Costarjack · 21/09/2025 21:27

Every update I see makes me feel physically sick.

Even if he’s innocent there’s no coming back from this.

OP posts:
ExhaustedPigeon37 · 22/09/2025 07:51

I have no idea who this is or what this post is about, but a quick google revealed D4vd wrote a song called Romantic Homicide and the lyrics are…

I'm scared (ooh-ooh-ooh)
It feels like you don't care (ooh-ooh)
Enlighten me, my dear (ooh-ooh-ooh)
Why am I still here? Mm (ooh-ooh)
I don't mean to be
Complacent with the decisions you made
But why? Mm
In the back of my mind, you died
And I didn't even cry
No, not a single tear
And I'm sick of waiting patiently
For someone that won't even arrive
Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh
In the back of my mind, I killed you
And I didn't even regret it
I can't believe I said it
But it's true
I hate you

I would suggest that there is no coming back from being found in a car with a decomposing body at all. RIP to the young girl who has sadly lost her life 💔

HerewardtheSleepy · 22/09/2025 08:03

I suspect:

  1. because very few people have actually heard of him (I had to google him),
  2. because, so far, a body has been found in a car registered to him, nothing more,
  3. because the LAPD, while investigating him, have said nothing about him being a "suspect" or even a "person of interest",
  4. because a person (even under Trump) is innocent until proven guilty, and
  5. because people don't like shit-stirring.

HTH.

[edited for typo]

HerewardtheSleepy · 22/09/2025 08:11

Costarjack · 21/09/2025 22:05

He has 37 million monthly listeners on Spotify, was doing a tour of the US, Europe and Australia, was on ad campaigns for Crocs and Hollister (now removed), I could go on … I’m not saying he’s Taylor Swift but saying he’s not that widely known is an absolute reach,

And clearly none of these 37 million (or not many) are on MN.

Being on an ad campaign does not necessarily mean people know who you are. You could just be just some random actor.

He is no where near as famous as you seem to think he is OP.

Tiredofwhataboutery · 22/09/2025 08:15

I don’t think he’s famous enough for it to a headline in the U.K. Poor girl such an awful way to go. At least now the family will be able to say their goodbyes.

MajesticWhine · 22/09/2025 08:16

I had never heard of him until my kids mentioned the case the other day. Thanks @WelliesandWashingfor posting a link.

Pharazon · 22/09/2025 08:19

Costarjack · 21/09/2025 22:57

I guess the name…

It wouldn’t have occurred to me that d4vd is an individual’s name. I would have assumed it was a typo.

The reason no one is talking about it is because this is a UK site and the vast majority of people will have not heard of him and it has not been mentioned in UK news.

limescale · 22/09/2025 08:20

FlutterShite · 21/09/2025 21:32

Why are people acting like a crusty old High Court judge without access to a (checks notes) 'search engine'?

Cos I don't want my search engine to have a record of something possibly very weird or inappropriate.

CharlotteStreetW1 · 22/09/2025 08:22

FlutterShite · 21/09/2025 21:32

Why are people acting like a crusty old High Court judge without access to a (checks notes) 'search engine'?

Well I thought it was a massive typo so wouldn't have known what to search for 🤷‍♀️

AnyoneWhoHasAHeart · 22/09/2025 08:23

Most people have never heard of him. Not here anyway.

And to the posters asking why people post here rather than google, maybe because posting about some little known singer as if he’s a major headliner and all this should be widely known when actually nobody knows what the hell you’re on about is a bit stupid really.

RampantIvy · 22/09/2025 08:26

Irritatediron · 21/09/2025 23:04

I have absolutely no idea who robert redford is and most of his films came out before I was born ! Im assuming this is a generation gap...D4vid has over 36 MILLION listeners across the world per month according to Spotify (more than the beatles) He absolutely is famous

Yes, you are right. I won't see 60 again and have seen loads of Robert Redford films. I assumed the name in the OP was a typo for DVD as I have never heard of him either.

I loathe rap. To me it is just noise not music, so it's no wonder I had no idea who he is.

nellietheellie75 · 22/09/2025 08:52

Never heard of him

HouseHangover · 22/09/2025 09:23

Answer to why more people aren't talking about it: General UK public over age of 27 probably have no idea who this person is.

HTH

But really....I'm mid 30s. Never heard of him before and its not like I don't use Spotify or have knowledge of current music. I don't have teen kids yet so they don't know these sort of YouTube stars or listen to this sort of music.

Costarjack · 22/09/2025 09:26

RampantIvy · 22/09/2025 08:26

Yes, you are right. I won't see 60 again and have seen loads of Robert Redford films. I assumed the name in the OP was a typo for DVD as I have never heard of him either.

I loathe rap. To me it is just noise not music, so it's no wonder I had no idea who he is.

Well his music isn’t rap - why have you assumed it was?

OP posts:
stillhiding1990 · 22/09/2025 09:27

People are talking about it? It’s all over YouTube true crime channels.

WildCherryBlossom · 22/09/2025 09:28

He has a massive fan base amongst tweens and young teens. My younger kids knew exactly who he was. The shock when this story broke was enormous. The more details that emerge the more distressing the whole story is.

stillhiding1990 · 22/09/2025 09:28

CharlotteStreetW1 · 22/09/2025 08:22

Well I thought it was a massive typo so wouldn't have known what to search for 🤷‍♀️

You could have tried to search for it as it was, just because you didn’t recognise the name doesn’t mean google wouldn’t.

FallingIntoAutumn · 22/09/2025 09:31

This is how algorithms and echo chambers work. You think the whole world knows about something. When in fact it’s just your little corner of the internet

Costarjack · 22/09/2025 09:32

mamagogo1 · 22/09/2025 07:35

No one is talking about it because we’ve never heard of him, not seen a single thing in British media. He’s not famous here so nobody will have picked up on any stories

Well it’s been reported on the BBC, The Independent, Sky News, Daily Mail, Metro, The Guardian, The Times …

And fame is subjective

OP posts:
Pharazon · 22/09/2025 09:33

stillhiding1990 · 22/09/2025 09:27

People are talking about it? It’s all over YouTube true crime channels.

I must be very old, because something being in the news and being talked about to me means being reported in the newspapers, on the Today programme, on the News at Ten etc.

stillhiding1990 · 22/09/2025 09:34

Pharazon · 22/09/2025 09:33

I must be very old, because something being in the news and being talked about to me means being reported in the newspapers, on the Today programme, on the News at Ten etc.

See op post below mine

AmpleLilacQuail · 22/09/2025 09:34

RampantIvy · 22/09/2025 08:26

Yes, you are right. I won't see 60 again and have seen loads of Robert Redford films. I assumed the name in the OP was a typo for DVD as I have never heard of him either.

I loathe rap. To me it is just noise not music, so it's no wonder I had no idea who he is.

Surely you could have inferred from the actual post that the OP was talking about a person and hadn’t made a typo in spelling DVD..?

I’d not heard of Robert Redford either, definitely not seen any of his films. For that reason I didn’t comment on any of the threads about his death.

OhNoNotSusan · 22/09/2025 09:35

gosh he is very young

Pharazon · 22/09/2025 09:36

AmpleLilacQuail · 22/09/2025 09:34

Surely you could have inferred from the actual post that the OP was talking about a person and hadn’t made a typo in spelling DVD..?

I’d not heard of Robert Redford either, definitely not seen any of his films. For that reason I didn’t comment on any of the threads about his death.

It was clear that OP was talking about a person. It would not have occurred to me that d4vd was that person's name. It doesn't look anything like a name, or even a typo of a name.

OhNoNotSusan · 22/09/2025 09:38

he is not a suspect
all pretty awful for him though, and of course the girl and her family

AmpleLilacQuail · 22/09/2025 09:42

Pharazon · 22/09/2025 09:36

It was clear that OP was talking about a person. It would not have occurred to me that d4vd was that person's name. It doesn't look anything like a name, or even a typo of a name.

Well, you could have googled anyway. It’s 2025, any spelling goes!

It’s a shame that a young girl has died and posters are fixated on spelling and whether or not the alleged killer is a celebrity.

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