Bonnie Blue documentary

[Pedallleur]

https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2025/jul/29/1000-men-and-me-the-bonnie-blue-story-review-channel-4-documentar
Dont know what to say really. reading that review made me shudder

Suicide and drug abuse is rife in the porn industry. All this will catch up with her. Hope the money will be worth it 🙄🥴

Sure, she will adapt. She hasn't broken any laws though yeah?

But this is quite clearly not a case of a heroin addict getting into porn to feed the habit. She was doing well in her previous role in recruitment according to people who worked with her. She wanted more money so she set up an OF account. She also documents her life outside porn on TikTok where it’s clear for all to see that she is not a drug addict (the few videos I’ve watched are her flaunting her wealth - expensive dresses and handbags, jewellery that costs more than my apartment etc.)

She is money driven and knows what buttons to push to get attention and drive traffic to her ‘content’. The trauma / drug addiction / victim narrative just doesn’t hold up.

I meant if you weren't already a drug addict,this lifestyle would turn you to drugs. Should have made it clearer.

100%

I think she’ll be another Katie Price.

It is an advertisement.

Her publicity strategy is to outrage women and feminists into talking about her on social media and media media.

She's a savvy mover because it's working.🤷♀️

ETA, unlike my emoticons who have replaced my shoulder shrugging female with a male and a female symbol.

Yeah, she’s smart in that it’s a sly and clever marketing ploy. The less air-time we give her, the better in my opinion.

Watching the doc this evening and I find it so disturbing how accepting her family are of it. At one point she said she was filming porn in the room next to her family while they waited for her… !

Also, surely this is damaging to her body?

She’s completely disassociating, it’s sad 😔 there’s no way you could be feeling anything and do that

I may not have the most extensive vocabulary to fully express my thoughts, but she articulated exactly what I had in mind. I find her entire situation deeply concerning — not just on a personal level, but also in terms of its wider social implications.

Thinking more on this I judge the men in this situation far more than I judge her. Rightly or wrongly she is doing this for money, the men are gross.. Standing in line to have 40 seconds on a woman probably young enough to be their daughter, grim.

Same. Sleazy men create this demand, this over sexualised society.

She doesn’t need the money. She is rolling in it. Not like she is desperate. She is mentally ill and if she is not then I judge her and the men.

I meant she is rolling in it because of the sex with 1000 men ect… The men get nothing from this apart from getting their dick wet, they’re disgusting.

Thank you for providing the link @BlueEyedBogWitch, really interesting. I have struggled to articulate even to myself what I feel about Bonnie Blue and this has helped me find the language.

Yeah and only for 40 seconds or so.. while brushing up against other mens dicks and cum, they really are animals. How is it worth it.

Yep, If the best looking man offered up his body to over 1000 women I can’t imagine he’d get any takers, let alone the line down the street Bonnie Blue got.

I think parents are part of the problem. She was sexually active at 13 and normalised it in the conversation but it’s not healthy psychosexual development to
be having sex at 13. There’s no Dad on the scene. Mum was terribly blasé and just talking about the money aspect, suggesting that anyone would do this for that amount of cash.’Er, nope. Has Mum ever said no to Bonnie? Has she ever disagreed or disapproved of her? I see friend’s kids doing crazy shit with the approval and affirmation of their parents and I also see where
parents push back and kids respect/need boundaries.

When I was in school in the 2000s quite a few girls in my class were sexually active at 14. 13 was considered too young even back then. BB was born in 1999, so was a sexually active 13 year-old in the 2010s - shockingly young for the time.

the girls who were sexually active at 13/14 in my secondary school in the 80’s were, looking back, from neglected homes, living in care and almost all were underage having sex with men 18+, so being sexually abused and groomed.

She uses shock value and rage bait to make money, amongst a sea of women on OF hardly any actually make much money at all. I actually dont think her act is as bad as her not caring about the wider implications of her behaviour.

Agree that the men are sickening. Some of them are even married, absolutely shameful and disgusting.

I agree with the poster upthread who says she is a sociopath/psychopath. The shallow emotional affect, complete lack of any empathy and complete lack of boundaries point in that for me.

Even the other porn worker said he could never do what she did so clearly even with in her own demographic she is wired differently. The problem with PDs is they do not come with neon sign and obviously psychopaths operate outside of the social rules.

The men horrify me but don’t surprise me the thin veneer where sex is concerned is a visible human pattern for anyone with the stomach to scratch the surface.