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SoonBeChristmasJingleBells · 02/08/2025 15:43

Zanoni · 02/08/2025 12:53

The whole barely legal phrase she uses all the time is ridiculous, she’s talking about 18 year olds who by uk law have been legal for 2 years.
I’m not saying what she’s doing isn’t an issue, The crap I’ve heard her say like… I hope rapists choose me over someone else like she’s safeguarding women is much more damaging to certain people listening then the sex is.
When talking to someone the other day about this documentary they said.. She’s practically a sex offender sleeping with barely legal boys, I disagree with that, 25 year old guys go out with 18 year old girls all of the time and nobody seems to care.

She uses the term ‘barely legal’ constantly to keep the fantasy (of perverts) alive. If she were a bloke she would be arrested.

SoonBeChristmasJingleBells · 02/08/2025 15:48

Babybirdmum · 02/08/2025 08:15

Me and my husband watched it last night we are 29 and 31 and have 2 young daughters and we’re in despair afterwards. What concerns me is the young people who see her videos on tiktok and think it’s a normal attitude to have not realising it’s “rage bait” or whatever. They might think “on no unless I give my BF a BJ every day he’ll leave me for Bonnie blue” and that’s the least of our worries. If we become like India or somewhere we’re gang rapes are common because women are seen as pieces of meat. I worked with a nurse from India who told me about her neighbour who was dragged out of her house and raped/murdered in India and how common it was. I’m not saying all men from India are like this it’s just a thing that happens rape is quite prevalent there.
I am a Christian so I think we need to really get on board with those values again but people will disagree- I just think without some solid values “anything goes” in society which isn’t good. I know some will disagree which is fine. They’ve currently got it their way at the moment as most people in this country aren’t religious.
as for Bonnie herself she seems more concerned with money than her health which is a very short sighted way to live. All the money in the world can’t fix a broken body. Not saying the sec will get her but some infectious disease might. It comes across as a bit self-harmy to me.

It’s self harm. Not ‘self harmy’.

goudacheese · 02/08/2025 18:45

Shocking that her parents are on the payroll. Makes me wonder about her upbringing, maybe not as good as she makes out. She probably had no boundaries, emotionally neglected maybe.

Disturbia81 · 02/08/2025 20:19

ThankYouNigel · 02/08/2025 07:26

I’d rather be penniless than be here.
No it isn’t- the average woman wouldn’t dream of behaving like this. Plenty of acts still absolutely deserve to be judged and steered clear of, hence why we have prisons! I judge both Bonnie, the men who joined in and those profiting of it/filming it- all vile people!!!

Well said. We have to judge dangerous, disgusting things that harm society, harm women as a whole.

On some level I feel sorry for her. Most prostitutes, porn stars, promiscuous people are because of past trauma and/or sexual abuse. Men lap it up as they love how wild these women are.. one man I used to know said he loved the mentally ill women for sex as he could do anything. But it’s probably because of being fucked up as children and teens. These are the times I hate men..

ThankYouNigel · 02/08/2025 20:31

Disturbia81 · 02/08/2025 20:19

Well said. We have to judge dangerous, disgusting things that harm society, harm women as a whole.

On some level I feel sorry for her. Most prostitutes, porn stars, promiscuous people are because of past trauma and/or sexual abuse. Men lap it up as they love how wild these women are.. one man I used to know said he loved the mentally ill women for sex as he could do anything. But it’s probably because of being fucked up as children and teens. These are the times I hate men..

That’s really sad and shocking you know a man who actively wanted to have sex with mentally ill women. Genuinely so sad to read that.

Disturbia81 · 02/08/2025 20:35

ThankYouNigel · 02/08/2025 20:31

That’s really sad and shocking you know a man who actively wanted to have sex with mentally ill women. Genuinely so sad to read that.

I know, and he came across as one of the “good ones” in every other way, that’s what is scary. I stopped the friendship after that. He didn’t target them and dated other women too, but was very happy with the sexually unhealthy ones. I just see men now as wanting to empty their balls in degrading ways with no thought for anything else.

SatsumaDog · 02/08/2025 20:36

The whole thing makes me feel physically sick. The idea of 1000 strange men having sex with a woman one after the other, lining up for their ‘turn’. It’s revolting. It’s not a documentary I’ll be watching. I don’t want that stuff in my head.

Zanoni · 02/08/2025 21:31

ThankYouNigel · 02/08/2025 20:31

That’s really sad and shocking you know a man who actively wanted to have sex with mentally ill women. Genuinely so sad to read that.

I don’t find it shocking, I was so messed up as a teen/young adult after surviving horrific child abuse, I did so much degrading shit when I was younger because so many men (normally professionals who were old enough to be my dad) spotted a weakness in me and used it to there advantage, the amount of men that get off on exploiting women is disturbing, I’m not surprised at all that they were lined up around the block for this.

ThankYouNigel · 02/08/2025 22:00

Zanoni · 02/08/2025 21:31

I don’t find it shocking, I was so messed up as a teen/young adult after surviving horrific child abuse, I did so much degrading shit when I was younger because so many men (normally professionals who were old enough to be my dad) spotted a weakness in me and used it to there advantage, the amount of men that get off on exploiting women is disturbing, I’m not surprised at all that they were lined up around the block for this.

I am very sorry to hear what you have been through. I hope you are doing OK now. Sending you my best wishes.

Trumpthecant · 02/08/2025 22:35

I wonder if she has any friends?

Zanoni · 02/08/2025 22:45

ThankYouNigel · 02/08/2025 22:00

I am very sorry to hear what you have been through. I hope you are doing OK now. Sending you my best wishes.

Thankyou, I had a lot of therapy, cut off my entire family and stayed celibate for years. I’m Married to a lovely man who would do anything for me, so very happy.

Abasin · 02/08/2025 22:47

As a public figure, she's an inevitable product of the society we have created - where misogyny's answer to feminist demands was to create an internet saturated in violent degrading porn, let children have free access to it, and tell women that stripping and prostitution was empowering for them.

As a person - well who knows who she is as a person. She certainly isn't going to let on.

Sweetpea333 · 02/08/2025 23:05

I think she's laser focused on money and is possibly a sociopath. She was very ambitious and did well for herself before the porn. She'll keep doing it until she gets overshadowed by younger women then will probably start an agency and recruit young women to grow her empire. The deliberately very young and vulnerable looking girls she chose for the 'school' video made me feel quite ill.

She's grotesque and incredibly hard faced. Her family are rough and happy to play a part in this, which makes me cringe. Her parents watch all of her videos!

The men were disgusting, obviously, with beer bellies and their socks on, slapping her arse during the gangbang.

She's going to be very very rich but at what cost? I was a sex worker when I was longer and had a great time making money, but given the choice, I wouldn't do it again. It made me hate men, and to be honest, I find them grotesque and would never trust them.

itsnotalwaysthateasy · 02/08/2025 23:36

She is doing what she wants with her own body. She is allowed to do that. Whether you disagree or not she will do what she wants.
I'm still under the you sleep with the man on your honeymoon vibe from the 70's
But this her equality, whether you agree with it not. she's made a ridiculous amount of money from it. She is a business woman who, in her own words. likes to p1ss you off..

Popfarts1 · 03/08/2025 07:41

Trumpthecant · 02/08/2025 22:35

I wonder if she has any friends?

The documentary covers this. Did you watch it?

Bluecrystal2 · 03/08/2025 08:04

The photographer said the smell in that room was gross and he had to keep going outside for air.

She made millions for a few hours work so I'm sure it will encourage some girls to do the same.

legolegoeverywhereandnotadroptodrink · 03/08/2025 15:51

Yes, female Andrew Tate: totally sums her up

dangerous times

she thought it was ‘bad timing’ that she got the worst flu of her life a few days after the event

duh 🙄

legolegoeverywhereandnotadroptodrink · 03/08/2025 16:11

i wonder if she suffers with UTIs?

and surely condoms don’t protect from everything

AutumnLover1989 · 03/08/2025 18:33

legolegoeverywhereandnotadroptodrink · 03/08/2025 15:51

Yes, female Andrew Tate: totally sums her up

dangerous times

she thought it was ‘bad timing’ that she got the worst flu of her life a few days after the event

duh 🙄

I bet she's absolutely riddled. HIV can represent as bad flu when you're first infected too.

Disturbia81 · 03/08/2025 19:10

legolegoeverywhereandnotadroptodrink · 03/08/2025 16:11

i wonder if she suffers with UTIs?

and surely condoms don’t protect from everything

I get a UTI after 1 encounter, her bladder must be so sore.

I think this is just another way to self harm.

LeaAndDer · 03/08/2025 19:50

What a trollop, no self respect. We’re I her mother I’d be ashamed of her. Does she know the chances of getting cervical cancer increase the more sexual partners you have.

BeMellowAquaSquid · 03/08/2025 20:08

I watched this and was actually really intrigued. I imagined her to be an idiot, a bimbo and really assumed she would have something wrong with her. But… she isn’t an idiot, isn’t a bimbo and for all intents and purposes is a bloody clever business woman. I did say to my friend who was watching with me, would you do ANYTHING for a million quid in one day, and whilst we both agreed we couldn’t take 1000 men as we can barely cope with our husbands we did throw around some hypothetical boundaries that we would or wouldn’t cross. I was suprised by her Mum, she’s very supportive, her family have all earned well out of it. I think the only person in the documentary that bothered me and baffled me is her husband!!

I don’t think she will be around long and I think I got from her own words that she doesn’t intend to be. I’d be really interested to see the interview she did with Andrew Tate as well.

Can’t say I’ll ever be a fan or understand it myself, I felt sorry for her at one point when she said she could no longer go out on her own and was fearful of acid attacks. I don’t think any human being should live their life with that threat. I know some may say she brings it on herself but to agree someone should be harmed because of their choices for me is just awful.

Crushed23 · 03/08/2025 20:15

Disturbia81 · 03/08/2025 19:10

I get a UTI after 1 encounter, her bladder must be so sore.

I think this is just another way to self harm.

I just don’t buy the mental health / self harm angle at all, from any interview I’ve seen with her. She’s a business woman cashing in, and all her “supportive” family are also cashing in. Morals go out the window when there’s an opportunity to make £1m+ per month for a few hours’ work in your 20s. It just doesn’t strike me as a case of ‘poor vulnerable woman being exploited’ at all. She set up her OF page off her own accord to get out of her 9to5 in recruitment, and built a huge following with her attention-seeking ‘stunts’. She’s not a victim, nothing traumatic has happened to her, and we shouldn’t be feeling sorry for her.

Disturbia81 · 03/08/2025 20:23

Crushed23 · 03/08/2025 20:15

I just don’t buy the mental health / self harm angle at all, from any interview I’ve seen with her. She’s a business woman cashing in, and all her “supportive” family are also cashing in. Morals go out the window when there’s an opportunity to make £1m+ per month for a few hours’ work in your 20s. It just doesn’t strike me as a case of ‘poor vulnerable woman being exploited’ at all. She set up her OF page off her own accord to get out of her 9to5 in recruitment, and built a huge following with her attention-seeking ‘stunts’. She’s not a victim, nothing traumatic has happened to her, and we shouldn’t be feeling sorry for her.

I get what you’re saying, and yeah maybe she is one of the few sexually promiscuous people who aren’t damaged from past events. But who in their right mind would do this.
It’s when she says she doesn’t feel emotions.. that sounds like something is wrong somewhere.
It’s sick what she’s done though, and the men are disgusting.

Astleyxyz · 03/08/2025 20:27

The husband’s not daft, the longer they stay married, the more money he can get in the divorce

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