BB clearly has many layers of issues. I don’t know her full background, but it’s obvious there are serious matters regarding her well-being that need attention. That said, nothing can really be done unless she’s willing to come forward and seek help.
People often say, “It’s her body, it’s her choice,” and to a certain extent, that’s true. It’s not necessarily about how many people she sleeps with — especially if done discreetly. But what I find deeply problematic are her views and the way she chooses to market herself. She uses controversial and harmful ideas as tools for self-promotion. I believe she knows very well that what she says can hurt others, yet she intentionally leverages that to gain more attention and grow her platform.
In the documentary, she admits to living in fear — afraid to even go outside because she worries about being attacked. That’s no way to live. Yet, she continues pursuing fame and profit from this very lifestyle, claiming she’s a successful businesswoman and that people are simply jealous. That’s not normal — it’s concerning and ethically wrong.
The impact of her actions is undeniably harmful. She openly talks about sleeping with barely-legal young men, believing she’s offering them a “great experience.” Whether or not she understands the emotional toll this might take on those boys in the long run, she chooses to monetize it — and that’s unacceptable. An 18-year-old losing his virginity to a professional porn star is not a typical or healthy coming-of-age story. Yet she frames herself as doing community service. That’s delusional.
She even says things like “when a woman is on her period, her throat is fine,” implying that women are still obligated to perform sexual acts even when they’re menstruating. That’s outrageous. In reality, no woman owes anyone sex in any form — especially when she’s not feeling well or simply doesn’t want to. But she tries to normalize this distorted view of sex, claiming men deserve it and that wives are failing them.
She goes as far as saying that women who sleep with 100 men for free are “stupid,” while she is “smart” for making money off it. In her eyes, women who don’t meet men’s sexual fantasies are worthless, and she positions herself as superior for profiting off what others do for love or intimacy.
Do we not see how dangerous this narrative is?
At some point, this will catch up with her. The way things are escalating — the stunts, the rhetoric, the glorification of toxic behavior — there will be a downfall. And quite frankly, it will be deserved. This cannot continue unchecked.