@Disturbia81 Men don’t need much persuading to do terrible things.
Look at what porn has done, men think women want those degrading things doing to them.
First, it's not just online pornography that has created this false perception. It also doesn't help that books like 50 Shades of Grey sold 150 million copies worldwide, and mostly to women.
Second, virtually all men know better and do not believe women want those degrading things done to them. Men generally learn this through contact with women. 18 year old me wrongly thought that women were just the same as men, and wanted to have sex with just about any men that they met. I quickly discovered that isn't true (it's a pity I didn't learn that when younger). I think by the time I was 20 or so, I had spoken to enough women and had had enough conversations with them to understood that men and women are completely different when it comes to sex.