Do you want to be buried/cremated with a Bra on

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I for one rarely wear one as they are so darn uncomfortable and I never gave the undertaker one for my mum but I never realised this was such a bone of contention, excuse the pun.

Are you a with or without or simply don’t care?

My daughter says she will haunt anyone who puts her eternally in a Bra.

Nope, I’ve told my family, I want to be cremated with my jammies and woolly socks on.

I h ave never given it a thought!

I've never thought about it! But like a PP, I want to be in nice jammies, so I guess it makes sense not to have a bra.

I have never given it any consideration but I would assume yes.

But then I've never found bras uncomfortable and never recognised the trope of women removing them as soon as they get home.

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I like the thought of being sexy in eternity

Id hate to die (and be cremated) like I am now, pre breast lift 😭😭 with my boobs just flopping to the side

So maybe, if i died before I get my mummy makeover - with a bra

After - no bra, creamed and smelling of burberry goddess, fully waxed 🥰 then into the fire, before being spread across the Atlantic

(Fingers crossed I don't die until I'm close to 100 though)

When my mum died I carefully ironed all her clothes, including tights, knickers and her bra. She was a stickler for not being creased and was obsessed I would be run over with unironed underwear.
It didn't cross my mind not to send her off in a bra. Maybe a generational thing.
Eternity in a bra? No thanks.

Not really thought about it, but as a 34JJ chest, I might need a wider coffin if they’re flopping to the side!

😂 I had not thought of it until you asked. Not sure they’d cremate you in one, or at least not a wired one.

I will have to go and pick out an outfit to stipulate in my wishes. Probably dog walking clothes with a pocket of treats as I fully expect my lovely, late , labrador will want a walk and a lot of treats, by the time I get there.

Absolutely not. I want my bras cremating. I want fluffy pjs and socks and a good pillow

It’s never occurred to me before but u quite fancy the idea of super comfy pjs and socks although I always fancy that idea and don’t often have any that fit nicely 🤔

Absolutely hate socks. Would rather spend eternity in a bra than in socks.

Just indifferent! Cremate me with or without a bra, don’t care what my body wears once’s I’m long gone!

I met a funeral director at a party a few weeks ago and I asked her so many questions ... I think she was a bit creeped out by me tbh!!! But it never occurred to me to ask your question, op, such an interesting one!!

Had literally never thought of this. But we did drop one off at the undertakers with the outfit for my beloved gran. I hate the idea that she died without underwear on, she was so dignified and she would have hated that she just had a nappy and a scruffy top on :(

I bought my late MIL a beaded and diamanté top to wear in the funeral home, cos that was her style

I wonder if your ghost outfit is the outfit you die in, or the outfit you’re cremated/buried in?

Unless it's one of the rare days when I leave the house, when I do wear a bra (about 12/15 times a year) I'd pity the poor funeral director who had to put my uneven boobs into a bra and make them life like.

Given I've opted for a straight from wherever I am when I die to an incinerator, I'm fairly confident no bras will be involved in my death or my funeral.

But if it happens, that I die on these rare occasions I actually leave home wearing a bra, I'm confident I won't care.

I have actually never considered this. In my mind there wouldn't be any clothing needed when going to the furnace.

No way! I will haunt the person who made the decision to put a bra on me. 🤣

amazing username!

Death would finally bring a use for the Lemonade Dolls bra I bought, and which is virtually useless for real life.

they remove all metal before cremation so not an underwired one!

I will check for you all tomorrow what the rules are as I’m having cake and coffee with the local funeral directors (I host funerals!)

I have never found bras to be uncomfortable, so don't care. Oh and also I will be DEAD.

What a thing to think about.
I would want to be cremated with whatever I had on at time of death. I wouldn’t want someone dressing me up in a fancy bra or anything else to be cremated. Would you want wired or none wired bra. Yuck, metal wire burning into your flesh during cremation.