It's so sad. There was an awful thread about Starmer's Christmas message on here - he must have recorded that knowing he was about to lose his brother. Many of the sisters on there should now be deeply ashamed but probably aren't.
The 28th is our tough day - this year it will be 7 years since my late husband threatened to kill me and was taken away by the police. It never goes away.
My deepest sympathy to anyone living with sad anniversaries at this time of year.