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Intense celebrity crush: menopause or madness

118 replies

Timeandtidy · 12/01/2024 17:26

I previously considered myself a pretty sensible 40 year old. I went, as is tradition, with my DH & DCs to the Christmas panto.
I was really not expecting to develop the most intense weak-at-the knees teenage-style crush on the panto baddie (who was the most amazing actor and extremely attractive, but probably a decade younger than me and wearing a really bad wig). I keep obsessively googling to see photos of him and I’m starting to feel that I’m going mad.
Has anyone else every experienced this? Is it my age, will it pass?

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Mrsjayy · 12/01/2024 19:29

I am invested now op you will need to tell us.

JaneJeffer · 12/01/2024 19:30

Finbrek · 12/01/2024 19:18

Is that the Wagner fella off the X factor?

🤣

Elderflower14 · 12/01/2024 19:30

Kevin Clifton???

CornedBeef451 · 12/01/2024 19:32

I hit 40 and went a bit mad. Huuuge crush on a celebrity. It seems to be wearing off now as I'm approaching 46. I can only assume it's my hormones!

Mrsjayy · 12/01/2024 19:34

Elderflower14 · 12/01/2024 19:30

Kevin Clifton???

he's in his 40s maybe 42? I think the op said the mystery baddie is younger.

hogmanayhoolie · 12/01/2024 19:35

UglyBetty82 · 12/01/2024 19:16

Not alone in intense celebrity crushes! I'm currently obsessed with Taika Waititi as Blackbeard in Our Flag Means Death. I actually want to bite him.

Oh yes.

Silmar · 12/01/2024 19:36

I bet OP’s crush is Gareth Gates. He is looking fine nowadays!

If we’re talking about fanny gallops, I am obsessed with Stuart Martin who looks like a younger Hugh Jackman.

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UglyBetty82 · 12/01/2024 19:41

Mrsjayy · 12/01/2024 19:26

mygod😳

I don't really have anything to contribute was just reading but my god he is Damn handsome

Edited

I would ride him to the moon for his arms alone.

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Mrsjayy · 12/01/2024 19:42

oh I say @UglyBetty82 😛

CornedBeef451 · 12/01/2024 19:43

@UglyBetty82 he is hot in OFMD!

I'm recovering from my half decade of Misha Collins obsession, dallied briefly with Jack O'Connel, Dominic Sherwood and now Nicholas Galitzine after a very confusing dream.

I've watched Red, White and Royal Blue a ridiculous amount of times...it's a terrible film but it seems posh blonds are my new thing.

JaneJeffer · 12/01/2024 19:46

Silmar · 12/01/2024 19:36

I bet OP’s crush is Gareth Gates. He is looking fine nowadays!

If we’re talking about fanny gallops, I am obsessed with Stuart Martin who looks like a younger Hugh Jackman.

One Hugh Jackman wasn't more than enough

mopytit · 12/01/2024 19:46

It'sGotta be Phil Mitchell, he was throwing some badly timed dance moves in a panto over the last few weeks.

Mrsjayy · 12/01/2024 19:50

mopytit · 12/01/2024 19:46

It'sGotta be Phil Mitchell, he was throwing some badly timed dance moves in a panto over the last few weeks.

and reportedly getting 50k .to throw those shapes !

NestaArcheron · 12/01/2024 19:51

UglyBetty82 · 12/01/2024 19:16

Not alone in intense celebrity crushes! I'm currently obsessed with Taika Waititi as Blackbeard in Our Flag Means Death. I actually want to bite him.

My best friend moved to NZ and ended up being godfather to the same child he is godfather to - apparently he's wonderful!!

CuriositysCat · 12/01/2024 19:51

I’m 43 and perimenopausal: I had the most ridiculous lightning-bolt, weak at the knees attraction to a stranger I met through work last year. So bizarre as I’m happily married and don’t really do crushes so would love to blame my hormones! Circumstances meant that we were looking at each other across a room for a couple 3 hours without being able to speak at all. We did then speak and have a little flirt before going our separate ways and never seeing each other again. It was hot AF and I still think about him often.

Mrsjayy · 12/01/2024 19:52

NestaArcheron · 12/01/2024 19:51

My best friend moved to NZ and ended up being godfather to the same child he is godfather to - apparently he's wonderful!!

😮

TheYearOfSmallThings · 12/01/2024 19:52

Was it a chuckle brother?

Grin
ShinyBandana · 12/01/2024 19:53

My peri-menopausal baddie crush: dear lord I watched the Vampire Diaries all the way through not once not twice but 6 times. I’m over him now I think all the Oestrogen has left the building

https://images.app.goo.gl/2fRTzAC7xdCE4WCUA

https://images.app.goo.gl/2fRTzAC7xdCE4WCUA

ShinyBandana · 12/01/2024 19:54

Damon, that is

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Bonjovispjs · 12/01/2024 19:57

Sureaseggs44 · 12/01/2024 18:42

Just enjoy it . I have a definite crush and recently saw the person at a gig . Embarrassing as I screamed ( along with many many others ) I am in my 60s . But I felt like a teenager again . It was lovely .

That makes me feel better 😊 I'm 57 and head over heels in love with the singer Mika 🤣 and going to see him in concert twice this year, can't bloody wait.

Flamesatmytoes · 12/01/2024 19:57

UglyBetty82 · 12/01/2024 19:16

Not alone in intense celebrity crushes! I'm currently obsessed with Taika Waititi as Blackbeard in Our Flag Means Death. I actually want to bite him.

He looks so like my friends DH it’s unsettling 😳

Mrsjayy · 12/01/2024 19:58

Flamesatmytoes · 12/01/2024 19:57

He looks so like my friends DH it’s unsettling 😳

Is your friend Rita Ora 😄

Flamesatmytoes · 12/01/2024 19:59

Mrsjayy · 12/01/2024 19:58

Is your friend Rita Ora 😄

unfortunately not!

Mrsjayy · 12/01/2024 20:00

I'm ancient and I have a little crush on Ryan Gosling since I saw him in Barbie . I didn't notice him before.

PGmicstand · 12/01/2024 20:05

Mrsjayy · 12/01/2024 19:26

mygod😳

I don't really have anything to contribute was just reading but my god he is Damn handsome

Edited

Oh he IS!
I'm mid 50s and currently crushing very much on Peter Garrett (hence the user name), and Tim Minchin and David Tenant as Crowley. I don't know if it's a tall man thing 2/3 of them, a rockstar vibe (all), a ginger thing (2/3 again) an Aussie thing (2/3 yet again) but yes I should have grown out of it.
But I haven't and I don't care.