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Can’t afford school fees any longer

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Whichwaytooo · 11/07/2023 17:42

We have 2 DC (Year 3 and Year 5), both at private school. Our bills have more than doubled this year, but the big issue is our fixed rate mortgage ends in 7 months’ time and our monthly costs are going to go up massively.

Added to that school fees are increasing by 8% due to CoL, and then it’s looking like there will be VAT on top of that. It’s just no longer affordable for us.

We’re wondering whether to take younger DC out of their school now, and try to weather the storm for a year with older DC and then go state for secondary. But both love their school and I think it will cause huge resentment in younger DC. I do have the option of working 6 days a week to bring in more money but I feel that I hardly see my DC as it is. We have to pay next term’s fees anyway as haven’t given a term’s notice, but would it be easier to move both to state school at the beginning of a new school year?

Another issue is that there isn’t space for both DC at the same local school, so easier to justify keeping elder at current school for a year.

Sorry, a bit of a ramble but any advice would be appreciated.

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mathanxiety · 25/07/2023 17:47

SUPsUP · 11/07/2023 18:37

I l think this is a real case where treating them fairly doesn’t necessarily mean treating them the same.
if you’re struggling for a state space for y6 state I’d be sorely tempted to keep eldest in for a year, so they only have to move once. Also I’d want to find out what happens if you go to your state secondary having not done SATS.
your youngest will have basically all of KS2 to make friends which is a much smoother transition so I don’t think it’s unfair to move them earlier.
it would be a hard thing to explain to a little one though

Agree with this.

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