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Philip Schofield

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rainbowstardrops · 20/05/2023 15:11

Just seen on Instagram that PS is stepping down with immediate effect from This morning!
I mean, I'm not that bothered but there's been lots of speculation recently re his brother's conviction and the rumoured spat with Holly but I thought it would probably all blow over.
I'm sure he's got a bob or two is loaded but I'm still a bit surprised if I'm honest.

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Lemieux3 · 28/05/2023 19:10

Twinks with older men is extremely common in the gay community. Slightly less PC than a couple decades ago but older gay men being attracted to young gay men is absolutely not going to raise many eyebrows

Um I don't think that it's at all common for anyone, no matter their sexuality to be interested in a 15 year old when they're 50+

There is no room for anyone to normalise this. In America, if you have sex with an underage person they throw away the key. Like in the case of Brittany Zamora.

TomatoSandwiches · 28/05/2023 19:20

Thinks, as in later teenagers to 20 - 22 meeting up with an older man and having consensual sex is a perfectly valid choice.

What skewers peoples acceptance and raises eyebrows is when a very significantly older man meets a 9yr old boy, maintains what appears to be a publicly reasonable mentoring type of relationship which slowly evolves nearer the time of a legal sexual consent age. Later on discovering the older man has a penchant for lying evidenced by his coming out and now acknowledged affair.

THAT is what people quite rightly are disturbed by, this behaviour has all the hallmarks of grooming.

TomatoSandwiches · 28/05/2023 19:21

Twinks* grrr!

SinnerBoy · 28/05/2023 19:22

Wellthatwasodd · Today 15:29

- -All these colleagues of Schofield - Eamonn Holmes, Holly Willoughby, Wooten etc, who knew all along - why didn't they act years ago? - -

Probably got NDAs in their contracts.

Perhaps, so why the performative outrage now? Why didn't they report it to the Police, if he was acting illegally?

Freefall212 · 28/05/2023 19:25

Lemieux3 · 28/05/2023 19:10

Twinks with older men is extremely common in the gay community. Slightly less PC than a couple decades ago but older gay men being attracted to young gay men is absolutely not going to raise many eyebrows

Um I don't think that it's at all common for anyone, no matter their sexuality to be interested in a 15 year old when they're 50+

There is no room for anyone to normalise this. In America, if you have sex with an underage person they throw away the key. Like in the case of Brittany Zamora.

I am not talking underage. I am talking 18 plus. Legal age, adult but very young. Twinks is also about looking younger than you are - looking like a teen even when in early 20s.

There are many many IG accounts of young gay men with much older partners that have lots of followers. It isn't a taboo thing, or not very taboo to many.

Lemieux3 · 28/05/2023 19:33

I am not talking underage. I am talking 18 plus. Legal age, adult but very young. Twinks is also about looking younger than you are - looking like a teen even when in early 20s.

There are many many IG accounts of young gay men with much older partners that have lots of followers. It isn't a taboo thing, or not very taboo to many.

But what does any of this have to do with PS and MM?

Plenty of famous people have affairs without losing all their ties with ITV or whomever they work for.

MM didn't only look younger, he was younger. He was a little kid of 10 when they first met!

Freefall212 · 28/05/2023 19:45

Lemieux3 · 28/05/2023 19:33

I am not talking underage. I am talking 18 plus. Legal age, adult but very young. Twinks is also about looking younger than you are - looking like a teen even when in early 20s.

There are many many IG accounts of young gay men with much older partners that have lots of followers. It isn't a taboo thing, or not very taboo to many.

But what does any of this have to do with PS and MM?

Plenty of famous people have affairs without losing all their ties with ITV or whomever they work for.

MM didn't only look younger, he was younger. He was a little kid of 10 when they first met!

By all accounts, including rumours, they didn't start a relationship until MM came to London for his 3 week work placement at ITV when he was just turning 19. There was clearly coommunication before then, but what it was or wasn't, I don't know.

Newnamenewname109870 · 28/05/2023 19:49

Freefall212 · 28/05/2023 19:45

By all accounts, including rumours, they didn't start a relationship until MM came to London for his 3 week work placement at ITV when he was just turning 19. There was clearly coommunication before then, but what it was or wasn't, I don't know.

Exactly. He was actually an adult. It’s no different to Cheryl Cole ending up with Liam once he grows up.

There is speculation there is more to it though and him being inappropriate with other teenagers.

BonesBrennanz · 28/05/2023 19:59

Do people not understand grooming? When an older man targets a 10 year old child, tells them how great they are and even gets them their first job. The power balance is not the same as when a young adult meets an older man. The fact he may have managed to control himself until MM was of age is neither here nor there.

penniesmakeshillingsandshillingsmakepounds · 28/05/2023 19:59

Newnamenewname109870 · 28/05/2023 19:49

Exactly. He was actually an adult. It’s no different to Cheryl Cole ending up with Liam once he grows up.

There is speculation there is more to it though and him being inappropriate with other teenagers.

Cheryl Cole was not married, Cheryl Cole did not hide the fact she was gay. Cheryl Cole did not hurt her family. Cheryl Cole did not lie repeatedly to every single person she knows.

It is VERY different.

Newnamenewname109870 · 28/05/2023 20:04

penniesmakeshillingsandshillingsmakepounds · 28/05/2023 19:59

Cheryl Cole was not married, Cheryl Cole did not hide the fact she was gay. Cheryl Cole did not hurt her family. Cheryl Cole did not lie repeatedly to every single person she knows.

It is VERY different.

But none of those things are actually important. So what that he’s gay? It looks like his wife knew and didn’t care. The issue is about the kid not this.

Aquarius1234 · 28/05/2023 20:13

Its also been said many times Cheryl just wanted a child. She's gay herself.

Wheredowegonobodyknows · 28/05/2023 20:17

What 🙈

LizzieSiddal · 28/05/2023 20:19

Exactly. He was actually an adult. It’s no different to Cheryl Cole ending up with Liam once he grows up.

The age difference between PS and and this young man is 18 to 54!!

That is nowhere near the same as CC.

Freefall212 · 28/05/2023 20:32

BonesBrennanz · 28/05/2023 19:59

Do people not understand grooming? When an older man targets a 10 year old child, tells them how great they are and even gets them their first job. The power balance is not the same as when a young adult meets an older man. The fact he may have managed to control himself until MM was of age is neither here nor there.

What is the evidence that he targeted a 10 year old and was grooming him for 8 years?

penniesmakeshillingsandshillingsmakepounds · 28/05/2023 20:35

Newnamenewname109870 · 28/05/2023 20:04

But none of those things are actually important. So what that he’s gay? It looks like his wife knew and didn’t care. The issue is about the kid not this.

Come off it. He was old enough to be that young man's grandad. He groomed him, got him a job to keep him close, what on earth would a 54 year old man see in an 18 year old youth. 36 year age gap? Would you be happy with that for your son?

The pair first met in 2008 when Liam was 14 and Cheryl was 24 but they started dating eight years later in 2016; when Liam was 22 and Chez was 32. It still took a few years, two divorces, and another X Factor appearance for the singer to romantically link up with the One Direction star.

Nofixedabodewell · 28/05/2023 20:36

I’ve never heard CC is gay. I’ve just googled and can’t see anything to support that.

notnewgoldenoldie · 28/05/2023 20:52

I wonder how many other TM presenters will come out and say something about the toxic culture. I used to work with one such person, expert on TM who was just a total horror to work with and notice they've been silent in this. Wondering how long it will take the public to see the other side of this person.

HadleyVaughn · 28/05/2023 20:53

I’ve never heard CC is gay. I’ve just googled and can’t see anything to support that.

This is well trodden turf in rumour land. Try Googling CC with Chim (her and her word) or Kimberley Walsh and gossip sites like Tattle.

No idea if it's true or not but a very very well established rumour.

LizzieSiddal · 28/05/2023 20:53

@notnewgoldenoldie can you give us a clue?

Wheredowegonobodyknows · 28/05/2023 20:54

@notnewgoldenoldie Money expert..? Fashion?

Lemieux3 · 28/05/2023 20:56

By all accounts, including rumours, they didn't start a relationship until MM came to London for his 3 week work placement at ITV when he was just turning 19. There was clearly coommunication before then, but what it was or wasn't, I don't know.

Right, so why has PS been sacked from ITV completely?

Lemieux3 · 28/05/2023 20:59

Exactly. He was actually an adult. It’s no different to Cheryl Cole ending up with Liam once he grows up.

What utter shite. These two situations are not remotely comparable ffs. Cheryl and Liam were equals in terms of fame and power and had 10 years between them, not 35 years.

Who is this, Philip Schofield's mum?!

Aquarius1234 · 28/05/2023 21:04

Wheredowegonobodyknows · 28/05/2023 20:54

@notnewgoldenoldie Money expert..? Fashion?

I hope its not Trinny lol

PurplePansy05 · 28/05/2023 21:15

Lemieux3 · 28/05/2023 20:59

Exactly. He was actually an adult. It’s no different to Cheryl Cole ending up with Liam once he grows up.

What utter shite. These two situations are not remotely comparable ffs. Cheryl and Liam were equals in terms of fame and power and had 10 years between them, not 35 years.

Who is this, Philip Schofield's mum?!

They were not equals when they met, no, Liam was a schoolboy hoping to get famous and still a teenager, like the other boys from One Direction at the time. He admitted openly he had a crush on Cheryl then. The two situations are different, but Liam and Cheryl ending up together left me with some discomfort for sure.

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