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What’s with all the Harry Styles love lately?

176 replies

Soubriquet · 21/10/2022 11:19

He seems to have gained massive popularity and no bad word said against him.

What’s the allure?

I personally don’t get it.. he’s definitely not my type.

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Oblomov22 · 22/10/2022 08:24

Agree with op: He has to be seen to be trendy and liberal. Yeah I'm really sexually fluid. Is he though? With whom? Come out as gay at my concerts.
I just don't care. All seems a bit forced.

Babygirlnameq · 22/10/2022 08:27

I’m surprised to see this. I thought he was a bit of a joke after the whole Don’t Worry Darling thing? The “it’s a movie movie” and spitgate?

Ahh well, shows how much I know. I think he’s really cringey. But then… I’m not really his target audience so that’s ok!

JohnsShirt · 22/10/2022 11:18

Babygirlnameq · 22/10/2022 08:27

I’m surprised to see this. I thought he was a bit of a joke after the whole Don’t Worry Darling thing? The “it’s a movie movie” and spitgate?

Ahh well, shows how much I know. I think he’s really cringey. But then… I’m not really his target audience so that’s ok!

Nah, the movie thing was hilarious, the spit didn't happen and Harry himself joked about it at one of his concerts.
There's so little bad stuff out there about him, none of it can be proved and it's far overshadowed by good stuff.
I can't wait for Harryween, his costumes, last year's were brilliant, I still listen to him singing Somewhere over the rainbow!

MangyInseam · 22/10/2022 11:41

Oblomov22 · 22/10/2022 08:24

Agree with op: He has to be seen to be trendy and liberal. Yeah I'm really sexually fluid. Is he though? With whom? Come out as gay at my concerts.
I just don't care. All seems a bit forced.

You know who he reminds me of a bit - Madonna. Same try-hard pop sexuality, same focus on image, same great marketing and pop songs.

AngeloMysterioso · 22/10/2022 12:02

His new album is good and he has a gorgeous voice.

That’s pretty much as far as it goes for me

Bbq1 · 22/10/2022 12:08

EddieHowesBlackandWhiteArmy · 21/10/2022 18:50

I love him. Always have. Right from the moment he whispered in Matt Cardle’s ear during the X-Factor final…

So many pp's think his quote to Matt C was hilarious, I don't think they would be laughing about it if a 40 odd year old man at work whispered it to another guy.
It's creepy and a bit grim.

EddieHowesBlackandWhiteArmy · 22/10/2022 12:25

Bbq1 · 22/10/2022 12:08

So many pp's think his quote to Matt C was hilarious, I don't think they would be laughing about it if a 40 odd year old man at work whispered it to another guy.
It's creepy and a bit grim.

Perhaps. But if you change the setting or circumstances of a lot of incidents they would take on a different meaning.

For instance, your mum employs you, there’s no way for you to progress in your employment unless she isn’t there. The minute she dies you take her job and tell everyone that you’re now the boss. Bit distasteful aye? Let her get cold first.

Or you’re now the king and it’s history in the making.

Circumstances matter, you can’t just say something is grim because in another situation with different people it would be 🤷🏼‍♀️

Teenage boys makes silly comments all the time, it was in all likelihood a truthful unguarded comment and I found it amusing because at what should have been the pinnacle of their career so far where the world had been placed at their feet he was more imagining how lucky Matt was that he’d instantly become more successful with the opposite sex.

MarshaMelrose · 22/10/2022 12:40

I’m surprised to see this. I thought he was a bit of a joke after the whole Don’t Worry Darling thing? The “it’s a movie movie” and spitgate?

He didn't spit at anyone.
His performance was criticised by the critics and he sounded ridiculous in the interview. He puts on some pearls and carries a handbag and suddenly people talk like he's edgy. He's done nothing original. Instead he's a bit of a try hard borefest. With good PR.

WhereIam · 22/10/2022 13:50

I'm old enough to not only be his mother, but to be his grandmother 😫

I'm somewhat allergic to 'manufactured' bands so was biased against 1D from day one (not my style of music really).
Then about a year and a half ago, I came across this on youtube (you know when you have it on auto-play so it plays songs along the lines of what you've recently watched?). I had headphones in so wasn't actually looking at it to know who it was.

This is the performance which made me fall in love with him. If you're not imprresed at the beginning - wait for the key change.

It's an interesting song for a man to sing and I think that he's comfortable enough with his masculinity and/or sexuality so that he doesn't really conform to norms.

I know he's not the best singer (as he knows himself). He's not up there with Elton John for example. But he has that certain thing which you can't quite put your finger on which makes him appealing.

He's quirky I guess! He's also very close to his Mum which is always a good sign.

WhereIam · 22/10/2022 14:03

And to everyone who is saying that he's just got good PR, it doesn't matter how good of a salesperson you are, you can't market something that people don't want/need/like.

bishbashboosh1 · 22/10/2022 14:08

Lampzade · 22/10/2022 06:03

Also, he needs to stop pretending that he’s sexually fluid .
He is straight

are you for real 😂 he’s desperately trying to get out of the closet i have no idea how people on here think he’s dating olivia wilde. beards??? PR stunts?? google larry stylinson please and then come back

JohnsShirt · 22/10/2022 14:10

WhereIam · 22/10/2022 14:03

And to everyone who is saying that he's just got good PR, it doesn't matter how good of a salesperson you are, you can't market something that people don't want/need/like.

Yep, and also put the work in, and no one can deny he does that, there's no such thing as a half hearted, phoned in Harry show.
He never stops on stage, gives it his all every night, plus everything else he works on simultaneously.
(I'm going to have to name change as I'm coming across as an obsessed loon!)

Candymay · 22/10/2022 14:10

I love him. I wouldn’t know any of his songs and don’t like boy band type music so wouldn’t give him a listen. I don’t think I’ve even heard him speak. However, his style of dress. His charisma. He’s fabulous.

EddieHowesBlackandWhiteArmy · 22/10/2022 14:19

bishbashboosh1 · 22/10/2022 14:08

are you for real 😂 he’s desperately trying to get out of the closet i have no idea how people on here think he’s dating olivia wilde. beards??? PR stunts?? google larry stylinson please and then come back

Don’t look for it on here though. The place will self destruct 👀😂

WhereIam · 22/10/2022 14:20

I genuinely don't think that he would have any issue with coming out as gay! It's not 20 years ago. It's almost a selling point these days.

I think he likes playing with the media.

JohnsShirt · 22/10/2022 14:23

Though even I don't believe the Larry stuff!
I do enjoy the stupid stories though, apparently Harry also wears a wig now, so presumably the robot baby is programmed not to pull it off? 😂

blueberrysquash1 · 22/10/2022 14:26

WhereIam · 22/10/2022 14:20

I genuinely don't think that he would have any issue with coming out as gay! It's not 20 years ago. It's almost a selling point these days.

I think he likes playing with the media.

his management is jeff azoff. same person who managed britney while she was being abused by her team. even lady gaga recently liked a tweet about jeff mistreating his artists which used the # freeharry

he had to go behind his managements back to audition for the role of a closeted gay person in his new movie my policeman. his management using social media handles hshq have barely promoted this film until fans noticed this week and did the promo for them on twitter. they did however give out free harry concert tickets etc for those who went to the premier of don’t worry darling, a film directed by a woman who is friends with harvey weinstein, has made public homophonic and racist comments, and is friends with a self-confessed p*do. a film that is also marketed as being about female pleasure but is actually about rpe.

his team is not a good one and if they feel coming out as gay is damaging then they will not allow it. hence why his concerts are all rainbows and boas and coming out - except the ones where irving azoff attended and he completely toned down the gay. wonder why that was

WhereIam · 22/10/2022 14:34

blueberrysquash1 · 22/10/2022 14:26

his management is jeff azoff. same person who managed britney while she was being abused by her team. even lady gaga recently liked a tweet about jeff mistreating his artists which used the # freeharry

he had to go behind his managements back to audition for the role of a closeted gay person in his new movie my policeman. his management using social media handles hshq have barely promoted this film until fans noticed this week and did the promo for them on twitter. they did however give out free harry concert tickets etc for those who went to the premier of don’t worry darling, a film directed by a woman who is friends with harvey weinstein, has made public homophonic and racist comments, and is friends with a self-confessed p*do. a film that is also marketed as being about female pleasure but is actually about rpe.

his team is not a good one and if they feel coming out as gay is damaging then they will not allow it. hence why his concerts are all rainbows and boas and coming out - except the ones where irving azoff attended and he completely toned down the gay. wonder why that was

I wasn't aware of that. I'm sad for him if that's what he's up against. I really hope it's not. I know that as boy bands they're encouraged not to come out publically (there was one guy who came out who was in Westlife).

I thought/presumed that he good people behind him.

It's hard to tell really as he seems fun, charismatic, relaxed, charming, flamboyant and not afraid to express who he is. I would be most surprised if he fell for bollocks.

This is a very strange thing to say, but in some cultures, they believe that if you've got a large forehead that you're more intelligent. I can't believe that I've even said that.
He's certainly artistic. I would be devastated if he has to live a lie to be 'saleable'.

JohnsShirt · 22/10/2022 14:41

blueberrysquash1 · 22/10/2022 14:26

his management is jeff azoff. same person who managed britney while she was being abused by her team. even lady gaga recently liked a tweet about jeff mistreating his artists which used the # freeharry

he had to go behind his managements back to audition for the role of a closeted gay person in his new movie my policeman. his management using social media handles hshq have barely promoted this film until fans noticed this week and did the promo for them on twitter. they did however give out free harry concert tickets etc for those who went to the premier of don’t worry darling, a film directed by a woman who is friends with harvey weinstein, has made public homophonic and racist comments, and is friends with a self-confessed p*do. a film that is also marketed as being about female pleasure but is actually about rpe.

his team is not a good one and if they feel coming out as gay is damaging then they will not allow it. hence why his concerts are all rainbows and boas and coming out - except the ones where irving azoff attended and he completely toned down the gay. wonder why that was

Erm, sure!
I did post on Twitter though, it's a fan project, they exist for loads of things, did a different one at another band's show in London last month.

blueberrysquash1 · 22/10/2022 14:42

JohnsShirt · 22/10/2022 14:41

Erm, sure!
I did post on Twitter though, it's a fan project, they exist for loads of things, did a different one at another band's show in London last month.

not sure what you’re referring to. the #freeharry part or about promo for my policeman? bit confused

WhereIam · 22/10/2022 14:59

I really wish that there were people who would advise these young people in the industry. People who've been through all the bullshit.

There's a song Elton John wrote and I only really 'heard' the lyrics recently (there's a difference between listening and hearing). It's so well known, you don't listen sometimes when you've grown up with it. It's this one.

These are the lyrics. They're actually quite damning lyrics when you read them. It has a cheerful tune so I sometimes don't hear some lyrics when I've grown up hearing a song.

I've bolded the lyrics I find most telling. I think Elton was quite young when he wrote it.

When are you gonna come down?
When are you going to land?
I should have stayed on the farm
I should have listened to my old man
You know you can't hold me forever
I didn't sign up with you
I'm not a present for your friends to open
This boy's too young to be singing
The blues, ah, ah
So goodbye yellow brick road
Where the dogs of society howl
You can't plant me in your penthouse
I'm going back to my plough
Back to the howling old owl in the woods
Hunting the horny back toad
Oh, I've finally decided my future lies
Beyond the yellow brick road
Ah, ah
What do you think you'll do then?
I bet they'll shoot down the plane
It'll take you a couple of vodka and tonics
To set you on your feet again
Maybe you'll get a replacement
There's plenty like me to be found
Mongrels who ain't got a penny
Sniffing for tidbits like you
On the ground, ah, ah
So goodbye yellow brick road
Where the dogs of society howl
You can't plant me in your penthouse
I'm going back to my plough
Back to the howling old owl in the woods
Hunting the horny back toad
Oh, I've finally decided my future lies
Beyond the yellow brick road
Ah, ah

WhereIam · 22/10/2022 15:03

Elton was around Harry's current age when he wrote it.

WhereIam · 22/10/2022 15:09

I think that when they're part of a band (rock or even boy bands) they have support from the other members. When they become solo artists, they can get exploited I think and don't have that peer support. The ones who survive the industry are usually the ones with strong and supportive family behind them (not Britney's dad).

WhereIam · 22/10/2022 15:14

Harry appears to be a fan of the Rolling Stones and has a friend in one of those members (can't remember his name). He's also friends with Chris Martin who he describes as 'zen' and tells him to look after himself.

I went to one Rolling Stones concert - it was amazing. So from that point of view, he has mentors in the industry.

I find it hard to believe that he's under the thumb of controlling managers. He just doesn't strike me as the type.

balalake · 22/10/2022 15:25

I don't see the allure and as a relative of several musicians have a dislike of manufactured groups, though others have different opinions.

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