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Wedding dilemma

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Iamgonnasuceed · 20/09/2022 15:06

We're invited to a wedding (in laws) and there's 2 peopleI I absolutely don't want to see or even them to see me they've done us bad in the past so they're dead to me. It's 300+ guests wedding but apparently we will be sitting at the same table as them I don't know how big the table is or the table plan. How can I avoid them?

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FlibbertyGiblets · 20/09/2022 15:08

If they're dead to you then you can't see them, can you? Look through them, ignore them. Obvs wear your very tip toppest outfit. Job done.

ZeroFuchsGiven · 20/09/2022 15:09

How is this in 'classics'?

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Iamgonnasuceed · 20/09/2022 15:11

ZeroFuchsGiven · 20/09/2022 15:09

How is this in 'classics'?

I didn't know where to post it. And your comment is useless. Get a life! Stop policing the chat!

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ZeroFuchsGiven · 20/09/2022 15:12

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MsFizz · 20/09/2022 15:13

Wow this escalated quickly

alphons · 20/09/2022 15:14

Perhaps the first 4 posts are why this thread is in Classics. Classically MN!

BernardBlacksWineIcelolly · 20/09/2022 15:14

MsFizz · 20/09/2022 15:13

Wow this escalated quickly

It’s kind of classic

oh the irony

Happyinheels · 20/09/2022 15:14

Classic 🤣

GiveMyHeadPeaceffs · 20/09/2022 15:14

Maybe this is a classic in the making...

Just off to get some popcorn 🍿 Grin

7Worfs · 20/09/2022 15:14

This had me actually laughing - leave it in Classics I say.

netto · 20/09/2022 15:15

Mumsnet at its best!

ApolloandDaphne · 20/09/2022 15:15

It is very odd this is in Classics. I thought only @MNHQ could move things here.

Motnight · 20/09/2022 15:15

BernardBlacksWineIcelolly · 20/09/2022 15:14

It’s kind of classic

oh the irony

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😂😂😂

ThisUserNameIsAvailableOk · 20/09/2022 15:16

@Iamgonnasuceed I don't think you will if you can't even spell succeed

netto · 20/09/2022 15:16

ApolloandDaphne · 20/09/2022 15:15

It is very odd this is in Classics. I thought only @MNHQ could move things here.

Yes I thought this too.
But OP was so rude.

ApolloandDaphne · 20/09/2022 15:16

In answer to your question, the only way for them to not see you or you not see them is to not go. That's it really.

BonjourBonheur · 20/09/2022 15:17

Definitely deserves to be in Classics 😭

Does this sort of thing happen to you a lot, op? I’m guessing so.

Hoppinggreen · 20/09/2022 15:18

Iamgonnasuceed · 20/09/2022 15:11

I didn't know where to post it. And your comment is useless. Get a life! Stop policing the chat!

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I imagine those 2 people will be quite happy to avoid you too

PuttingDownRoots · 20/09/2022 15:18

Sunglasses, then they won't recognise you.

Or ignore beyond politeness, for the sake of the bride and groom, whose wedding it is.

7Worfs · 20/09/2022 15:20

PuttingDownRoots · 20/09/2022 15:18

Sunglasses, then they won't recognise you.

Or ignore beyond politeness, for the sake of the bride and groom, whose wedding it is.

Sunglasses and a fake moustache

Motnight · 20/09/2022 15:20

It's this small...

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stayathomegardener · 20/09/2022 15:21

Nominating for classics.

SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 20/09/2022 15:21

Just here to see how you can self post in Classics. I might go and try it! Grin

MNHQ
YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 20/09/2022 15:22

Hello @Iamgonnasuceed we're going to move this over to Chat now. Best of luck!

BatteryPoweredMammy · 20/09/2022 15:22

Iamgonnasuceed · 20/09/2022 15:06

We're invited to a wedding (in laws) and there's 2 peopleI I absolutely don't want to see or even them to see me they've done us bad in the past so they're dead to me. It's 300+ guests wedding but apparently we will be sitting at the same table as them I don't know how big the table is or the table plan. How can I avoid them?

So what did they do to you?

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