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Would you be hurt?

82 replies

poppydood · 27/07/2022 11:41

I was seeing a guy (who I met through mutual friends )
He messed me around,slept around (then said we weren't official ) then he spoke about us getting together...
Anyway last Friday we went out and he stayed over.
Saturday morning we were having breakfast and he smiled as he got a text and said
"That's Kelly I know you don't like her,she's asking me to go for a drive when I'm home"
I asked if he agreed to go and he said yes.
Then when he got home I rang him and we spoke for 2 hours -as he was getting ready for her to pick him up.
I got upset and he said I was being silly as they were only friends (they had slept together )
That night he got back and text me-I asked if they kissed and he said "no she kissed me"
He told me not to get jealous.

Yesterday he sent me a screenshot of Kelly asking to meet up saying "oh look it's your favourite "

Then that night he disappeared
I text asking if he was out with her and he sent me a picture of her
I replied asking why he was doing this to me...he responded
"Hi it's Kelly,sorry he is a bit busy now..can I help"

The day after he was texting me as normal

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poppydood · 27/07/2022 11:42

(Today he's texting normal )

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AuntieDolly · 27/07/2022 11:43

Why are you entertaining a minute of this nonsense? Dump and block

ABriefInquiryInToOnlineRelationships · 27/07/2022 11:43

Get rid. There is nothing more to say. Don't do the pick me dance for goodness sake.

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chipsandpeas · 27/07/2022 11:44

fuck this, walk away from this guy hes playing games

poppydood · 27/07/2022 11:48

It's like he is getting a kick out of seeing me hurt.

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Honaloulou · 27/07/2022 11:49

poppydood · 27/07/2022 11:48

It's like he is getting a kick out of seeing me hurt.

Well yes. So why are you going along with it?

Kloerose · 27/07/2022 11:50

He absolutely does enjoy hurting you. Why are you wasting your time on this cretin? When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

Staynow · 27/07/2022 11:51

poppydood · 27/07/2022 11:48

It's like he is getting a kick out of seeing me hurt.

So why are you allowing it to continue?

You know he's no good. Raise the bar, get some self esteem and don't have anything more to do with him. He loves playing women off against each other and then all wanting him - god knows why. He is only ever going to make you miserable.

Staynow · 27/07/2022 11:52

*them

FairyLightAddict · 27/07/2022 11:54

Why are you wasting your time? He's a bastard

ExplodingCarrots · 27/07/2022 11:55

I'm praying you're a teenager because I'd find it hard to believe someone in their 20s /30s would put up with this crap.

He's an awful awful person . It's obvious he's enjoying this and playing you for a fool.

Block and ignore from right now . Don't give him anymore air.

poppydood · 27/07/2022 11:55

The first few months he wasn't like this
Then he started adding more girls into the picture...it's not just Kelly.

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dancemom · 27/07/2022 11:57

Are you a grown woman?

Bunty55 · 27/07/2022 11:57

BLock the bastard, It's over between you both anyway

dontdrinkanddriveok · 27/07/2022 11:58

Come on... he isn't a catch.

poppydood · 27/07/2022 11:58

I am ..and I know I sound ridiculous
With any other man I wouldn't ever put up with this -I don't know why I am.

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sleighbellsjiggling · 27/07/2022 12:01

WTF? Block block BLOCK!!

He sounds like he's loving it, don't give him any attention.

Wisheverydaywasfriday · 27/07/2022 12:02

Oh my word!! Are you serious?? You are allowing yourself to be utterly humiliated.

poppydood · 27/07/2022 12:04

@Wisheverydaywasfriday I know...

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wednesday32 · 27/07/2022 12:11

bloody hell, he's a knob! There is nothing appealing about this twat! Block his number and move on with your life. Let Kelly deal with him from now on.

Happylittlethoughts · 27/07/2022 12:14

Do you know, I'm trying to be sympathetic but ... really? Crack on, he sounds worth fighting for.

StopStartStop · 27/07/2022 12:14

Block. Now. Forever.

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 27/07/2022 12:15

Yeah he's enjoying upsetting you. End it with him and block the dick head. He's quite obviously shagging about

boopleflouff · 27/07/2022 12:15

You have a choice here.

Cantdoitallperfectly · 27/07/2022 12:16

He sounds like a horrible, nasty person. Move on and treat yourself with some kindness.