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Would you be hurt?

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poppydood · 27/07/2022 11:41

I was seeing a guy (who I met through mutual friends )
He messed me around,slept around (then said we weren't official ) then he spoke about us getting together...
Anyway last Friday we went out and he stayed over.
Saturday morning we were having breakfast and he smiled as he got a text and said
"That's Kelly I know you don't like her,she's asking me to go for a drive when I'm home"
I asked if he agreed to go and he said yes.
Then when he got home I rang him and we spoke for 2 hours -as he was getting ready for her to pick him up.
I got upset and he said I was being silly as they were only friends (they had slept together )
That night he got back and text me-I asked if they kissed and he said "no she kissed me"
He told me not to get jealous.

Yesterday he sent me a screenshot of Kelly asking to meet up saying "oh look it's your favourite "

Then that night he disappeared
I text asking if he was out with her and he sent me a picture of her
I replied asking why he was doing this to me...he responded
"Hi it's Kelly,sorry he is a bit busy now..can I help"

The day after he was texting me as normal

OP posts:
browneyes77 · 27/07/2022 19:08

You are hurting yourself here.

Why are you even entertaining this scumbag?

You’re allowing him to repeatedly hurt you and chip away at your self confidence.

He does it because he can. You’re feeding his ego by allowing him to keep you hanging around for him.

Walk away for goodness sake.

Rainbowqueeen · 27/07/2022 19:17

The best way to get over someone is to go no contact. For your own sake, you need to do that. Delete him from everything and block him.

Then focus on keeping busy. It will hurt for a while but it will get better. The longer you entertain this nonsense the more you are missing out on finding peace and the love that you deserve. 💐

PrezelwithMarmite · 27/07/2022 19:36

Jeez just block him! Move on.

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Cherrysherbet · 27/07/2022 19:40

Is he 12? He sounds so immature. Run a mile op.

StressedSandwich · 11/12/2022 22:17

You need to block him and move on because
A) he's not worth it, and he's shown hus intentions, if you got into a relationship with this man how could you trust him?
B) your putting your sexual health at risk by sleeping with a man who's having sex with multiple women.

Don't settle for a man who has no respect for you.

Y7drama · 11/12/2022 22:19

ZOMBIE 🧟‍♀️ hopefully op has moved on now!

Georgeskitchen · 11/12/2022 22:43

Christ how old is he, 15?
He doesn't even pretend he has any respect for you.
Dump the arsewipe now

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