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MIL tattooed DS's name...

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dilterry · 29/06/2022 13:36

... We have just had a baby, 2 weeks ago, MIL immediately tattooed baby boys name on her arm.

However, we have since had a change of heart re the name... What a nightmare!

We didnt ask her to, or knew she was doing it, it's obviously really sweet of her to do it so that's not the problem it's more just now we dont want to call him that.

I feel awful! How on earth do we handle this? I'm really trying to talk myself into keeping the name, but it doesnt sit right...

OP posts:
WilsonMilson · 29/06/2022 16:21

I must be bored, because now I’m thinking about names that sound like body parts.

I’ll start:

Joe or Beau - Toe
Fred or Ned - Head
Greg - Leg
Elvis - Pelvis
Ace or Chace - Face
Keith - Teeth
Kip - Lip
Dick - well….

😁

TheVanguardSix · 29/06/2022 16:22

Oh dear. That's a little bit awkward.
This could be MIL's 'WinoForever' moment. 😬

HannahSternDefoe · 29/06/2022 16:22

CormoranStrike · 29/06/2022 16:12

Is the name Bobby?

Dick? Nobby? Elbow? Antecubital Fossa?

I don't think OP should tell us, tbh.

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KyaClark · 29/06/2022 16:23

My friends MIL doesn't have her grandchild's name tattooed on her.

But she does have the names of her son's ex girlfriend's children tattooed on her. Not his children, and were born years after they had broken up (so he's never even played a step-parent role in their lives).

Not really relevant but it's so fucking bizarre that I love any excuse to tell that story.

Monkey2001 · 29/06/2022 16:31

So funny if you hate tattoos, that really made me laugh! 😂😂😂

But can see that it is awkward for you! Perhaps it can be adapted into something else.

DillonPanthersTexas · 29/06/2022 16:33

Can't you get your MIL to change her name by deed poll to match the tattoos?

nometo4 · 29/06/2022 16:33

My friends MIL doesn't have her grandchild's name tattooed on her. But she does have the names of her son's ex girlfriend's children tattooed on her. Not his children, and were born years after they had broken up (so he's never even played a step-parent role in their lives).

WHY?! Does she play a pseudo grandma role in their lives? That's beyond weird.

Chikapu · 29/06/2022 16:34

KyaClark · 29/06/2022 16:23

My friends MIL doesn't have her grandchild's name tattooed on her.

But she does have the names of her son's ex girlfriend's children tattooed on her. Not his children, and were born years after they had broken up (so he's never even played a step-parent role in their lives).

Not really relevant but it's so fucking bizarre that I love any excuse to tell that story.

That's beyond weird, does she have any explanation for it?

tralalom · 29/06/2022 16:35

If she had other tattoos, didn't you or DH presume she would do this? though you probably had other things in mind with the new baby and all...

M0nica44 · 29/06/2022 16:35

Omg @SirenSays
I just choked on my tea! 😂

@dilterry
You cannot keep the name because she got it inked... I love tattoos and have some, but seriously i wouldn't ever get a name before talking to the person/people concerned first!!
You will hate it if you keep it for this reason.

ladymalfoy45 · 29/06/2022 16:38

Tell MIL the ink is his secret superhero name. You’re changing so as not to tip off the public that your new DS is Kal El .

BenCoopersSupportWren · 29/06/2022 16:40

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 29/06/2022 15:23

Could you write to Prince's granny and find out what she did?

I proper snort-laughed at this 😂😂😂

DogInATent · 29/06/2022 16:42

LaPufalina · 29/06/2022 15:49

Remembering the Daily Mail story years ago about a young boy called Drew Peacock Confused

Have you seen the recent Twitter threads on names? (it includes Drew and his brother).
twitter.com/cupidstunt08/status/1541175994417135618

LovePoppy · 29/06/2022 16:44

Im so petty that if anyone tattooed my childs name on themselves Id be changing it. lol

Change the name. Dont worry about what she thinks

RedCardigan · 29/06/2022 16:45

You can’t keep a name toi don’t like for that!
jusy change it and don’t keep it as a middle name if you don’t want either.
hilarious though

drinkallthecoffee · 29/06/2022 16:49

I'm reading this thread on a train trying so hard not to burst out laughing at some of the replies 🤣🤣I have tears in my eyes!!!

LavenderfortheBees · 29/06/2022 16:50

KyaClark · 29/06/2022 16:23

My friends MIL doesn't have her grandchild's name tattooed on her.

But she does have the names of her son's ex girlfriend's children tattooed on her. Not his children, and were born years after they had broken up (so he's never even played a step-parent role in their lives).

Not really relevant but it's so fucking bizarre that I love any excuse to tell that story.

Wow

People be crazy.

ODFOx · 29/06/2022 16:56

You named him Boo didn't you? Then realised that as your name isn't Radley but Bradley it really doesn't work. Please let this be true!
😃

SheldonesqueTheBstard · 29/06/2022 16:57

Tess is not a boy’s name Mrs Tickle OP.

You will do well to change it.

clarepetal · 29/06/2022 17:01

UtterlyUnimaginativeUsername · 29/06/2022 13:40

It's really not your problem, to be honest. It was entirely hwr decision, and not something most people would do. Youre entirely within your rights to change your minds, it's still very early days and you're only getting to know him.

Hahahaha! This exactly.

ODFOx · 29/06/2022 17:05

Can you give her a goldfish with the original name, so at least her tattoo relates to 'someone' in her life?

Maireas · 29/06/2022 17:09

flyingant · 29/06/2022 13:55

Oh, come on. This has GOT to be wind up!

Of course it is. There was an identical thread a little while ago.

Monkey2001 · 29/06/2022 17:09

ODFOx · 29/06/2022 17:05

Can you give her a goldfish with the original name, so at least her tattoo relates to 'someone' in her life?

Yes! Or could upgrade to at least a hamster if not to a cat/dog.

loveliesbleeding1 · 29/06/2022 17:12

This is just beyond the behinds 😂😂

loveliesbleeding1 · 29/06/2022 17:13

Beyond the beyondsI mean!!

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