@Recycledblonde, thank goodness there are people like you.
But I just ventured onto 'that board' and a post there did make me pause. Someone suggested that what we would call the extreme D's (there's an alarming example there) could be struggling with their mental health and trying to find a way to deal with it, just as much as the 'rule breakers'.
I wonder if some people will look back and bitterly regret who they became during the stress of all this. That could be very painful.