Something just moved in my stomach..

[Ohshitx]

I’ve name changed for this.

Something literally just rolled in my stomach, there was a popping sensation and now I swear I have a bump where I didn’t before. Nothing that strange until I mention that I’ve not had sex since November and I’ve had periods since then. But something is moving in my stomach, and not like trapped wind. I’ll get out for a test first thing, but I surely can’t be that many weeks pregnant and not have had a single symptom till now, surely? Please someone tell me I can’t.

Congratulations op your handling this so well must be such a shock

Congratulations!!

Congratulations! You are doing bloody brilliantly.

Op my head feels blown apart at the thought of suddenly finding that a BABY would be here in two months. OMG!

I guess it's good to think you have escaped morning sickness and other pregnancy issues. Looking back can you think of any time you felt sick or more tired or anything?

Good luck telling FWB, I doing mean to be cheeky and don't answer if you don't want to but do you think you and the friend could become more committed?

I'm just looking for the fairy tale ending

Wow 31 weeks! Op you are taking this like a trooper and this is the most exciting thread ever!

I worked with a lady who went to the doctor with horrendous back ache and she was 34 weeks. She had no idea and neither did we! My baby bump is twice the size hers was and my baby is now four and a half .

Wow a shock for you but you are doing brilliantly. I know you haven't told the baby's father, but do you have your own family to tell, your mum and dad? What about the baby's father's parents? What do you think everyone will make of this?

Grandparents in two months, hope they will be excited!

Wow this is going to be a year you're not going to forget in a hurry! You must have so many emotions rushing around. I hope things get a little more settled for you once you get over the shock!

Congratulations OP. What a surprise. You're doing so well with this. I did not expect this outcome when I clicked on the thread.

Imagine coming out of lockdown with a baby- what a shocker at the school gates!! All the best for the scan...

Congratulations OP! What a shock!. At least you have (a little) bit of time to prepare! X

2 months notice
how lovely

The same happened to me I felt a kick not even thinking I was pregnant.it turned out i was 26 weeks ,and I'd already had two previously so it's not like I. Didn't know how it felt to be pregnant lol .
The remaining 13 weeks before she was born flew and I still had no symptoms only the occasional kick and a small bump .
Congratulations you will be fine x

Amazing. I gained 5st when pregnant! Your very lucky. Hope conversation goes well xx

Great news OP! Glad it went well.

Any thoughts on when you're going to tell your DS and FWB?

You doing amazingly well getting your head around all of this, 31 weeks !

(Also over invested in this!! Think this thread will definitely run into a part 2....!)

All the best for the scan OP!

I love reading all of the lovely positive posts!

Thinking of you op. What a lucky little one you'll have. Life is a funny thing. You'll look back in a couple of months and your heart will skip in panic at the thought of him/her not being here.

Please keep us posted, we're now invested in your life!xxx

Blimey. Have you told dad yet?

I haven’t spoken to him yet. He works away, we usually speak a couple of times a week but he’ll just think I’m busy with DS. He’s due home on Tuesday so will speak to him then. I think it’s the kind of info you’d want to be at home to hear.

As for DS, I’ve no idea. I need to tell my mum etc, who I’m 99% sure will be supportive. But I still need to explain to my mother that I’m pregnant, due in 9 weeks and actually no I’ve not had a serious partner 😫

Aw really feel for you. We're all here for you OP. Do you have friends nearby?

Lovely thread. Waiting with baited breath for the next update.

Aww wow do keep us up to date with you scan and how far you are it must take some getting used to

Wow OP 31 weeks must be a shock! I hope everyone including the father are supportive, is their a chance of your relationship developing with this news?

OP I can understand the thought of telling your DM is daunting (I'm bringing at the thought of it!) but I feel the support she will give you will far outweigh the awkwardness! Definitely feel that even if it means he misses the scan telling FWB would be better in person, just be prepared for him to be very shocked and obviously not have the best of reactions...hopefully after a few days to get his head around it like you have had he will start be supportive

*cringing

Gosh I'm 32 weeks and can't imagine not knowing until this point! You skipped the awful sickness part?! I'm so jealous haha.

So excited for all your updates, what a great thread