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Harry stepping down as a royal family member

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kittykatkitty · 08/01/2020 18:42

Just read this on their instagram page.
They plan on becoming private citizens

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CurlyWurlyTwirly · 09/01/2020 23:07

Meghan was wearing her wedding rings when they went to Canada House.
That was the wierdest visit; thanking them for having her in Canada; as if they were back in the UK for good; to work.

Yesterday; she was papped at the National Theatre not wearing any rings. I suspect all is not well in that Sussex marriage.
Harry is doing anything to appease her.

Rosehipbubbles · 09/01/2020 23:08

Am I missing something- surely Zara and Mike have set an alternative model already for royal grandchildren albeit Zara's mum.isnt in direct succession and Zara never had a title. You still see Zara at church at Christmas and other big royal events but otherwise she seems to live a normal life. Can't Harry just do the same?

CurlyWurlyTwirly · 09/01/2020 23:08

Ring less photo at NT.

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WendyMoiraAngelaDarling · 09/01/2020 23:10

You still see Zara at church at Christmas and other big royal events but otherwise she seems to live a normal life. Can't Harry just do the same?

Do you honestly believe they Meghan wants this?

Trexical · 09/01/2020 23:11

anotherdayinparadice
You've hit the nail on the head.

It saddens me that the people commenting and speculating with such passion and vitriol ( about people they have never met and never will meet ) are raising the next generation.
This chestnut was hilarious ... i think MM issued an ultimatum ..
How exactly do you know that?? Is critical thinking and the desire for facts dead on this topic?
As Eleanor Roosevelt noted:
Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people

WendyMoiraAngelaDarling · 09/01/2020 23:12

It feels me with so much anger how some of you people behave behind keyboards and towards total strangers at that! Shame on you!

Oh chill out. Maybe time for you to step away from your keyboard if you're this worked up?

RowenaMud · 09/01/2020 23:14

Ultimatums my arse.

Harry is his own man and a very pissed off one. None of the RF stepped up to help Meghan. The public and the media united in their hatred of his wife for having the cheek to marry 'their Harry'. He stuck his two fingers up at all of them.

They flew home during their supposed break to deliver the news jointly. Once done, she went back to the baby or he advised her to go back to save her from even more vitriol and hatred.

The next baby they have will be without the horrible comments about their choice of name, whether his eyes are too close together or what type of hair he will have.

They did the right thing for their family.

The RF care about their own brand far more than anything else.

Happysummer2020 · 09/01/2020 23:18

They have no reason to give up their titles too and why should they?

If I resigned I'd lose my job title.

Redrosesandsunsets · 09/01/2020 23:23

True @Happysummer2020 but I think these titles are given at birth or weddings. The BRF are not the same in anyway as the real world. I guess why Meghan has found it so difficult. It would not be easy to join the BRF but maybe something they should have hashed out before she joined them/married into it? i guess it’s too late once you’re in and it would be overwhelming. Times and culture are changing too. Maybe the BRF have had their time. We will see.

WineOrGinOrBoth · 09/01/2020 23:25

How do you know none of the RF stepped up to help Meghan? It looked to me like she was welcomed. PC walked her down the aisle. He made sure he took care of her mother at the wedding. But yes of course they didn’t help. Whatever.

RowenaMud · 09/01/2020 23:35

Because all Kate and William had to do is be seen with them. That would have stopped the talk about ‘Meghan making Kate cry’ and such rubbish. They didn’t.

I’m sure the next round of rubbish will be the RF told them to do what they did but not when to do it. Oh dear now I’ve written that down it must be true..... The press and public can’t bear to think Harry walked away from it when everyone said Meghan would never walk away from the lifestyle and pomp.
They did. On their own terms. And people can’t bear it.

WineOrGinOrBoth · 09/01/2020 23:39

Didn’t the women go to Wimbledon together? I may have got that wrong though.

kittykatkitty · 09/01/2020 23:39

@RowenaMud they haven't walked away as more had a tantrum.
Walking away would be giving up the title and trappings,and being independent.
They have just become a brand to make money!

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RowenaMud · 09/01/2020 23:43

The whole Rf is a brand to make money.

Alsohuman · 09/01/2020 23:44

They certainly haven’t done it on their own terms either. That’s why the palace is frantically having crisis talks right now.

kittykatkitty · 09/01/2020 23:44

@sussexRoyal socks anyone?

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annielouise · 09/01/2020 23:48

"The press and public can’t bear to think Harry walked away from it when everyone said Meghan would never walk away from the lifestyle and pomp. They did. On their own terms. And people can’t bear it."

Eh? Read their statement - they don't want to walk away from the lifestyle and the pomp! They want that and freedom to earn loads of money too.

They haven't walked away on "their terms"! The details are yet to be decided. Delusional!

ThinkPositiveThoughts · 09/01/2020 23:50

Whatever is going on behind the scenes, it seems like a very sorry situation.

Underneath all the wealth and titles and bollocks, we’re watching a family crack apart. Brothers fighting, a dad probably feeling very blindsided, plus whatever impact on a very elderly grandmother.

RowenaMud · 09/01/2020 23:59

The palace is undoubtedly trying for sort of damage limitation before theIr ‘servants’ for the lot of them to step down.

People queuing at soup kitchens while they live in ivory towers. The whole thing is a pile of rot!

Redrosesandsunsets · 10/01/2020 00:05

Don’t forget there’s lots of other big news in the press. If you want to make a Statement to the Queen do so privately and move on. The BRF will sort this, so it’s all currently chaos and yes everyone is up in arms, and then everyone will settle down when the Queen shows us she’s happy. Honestly let’s not waste too much time on this. the Queen will figure it’s out and make it work. If you don’t like H and M then don’t buy their product. Simple. And the Queens son is accused of worse and he is doing fine. They’ll sort it out.

Myimaginarycathasfleas · 10/01/2020 00:13

I couldn't agree more, @ThinkPositiveThoughts

I can't help feeling intensely irritated by Harry's weakheaded adoration of Meghan but that's where his heart is and the pain for everyone directly involved must be awful.

SunsetBoulevard3 · 10/01/2020 00:22

Anyone see Tom Bradby interviewed? He stated that there had been a lot of divisions and harsh words said around the time of the wedding. He’s not denying there are massive rifts between various members.

SunsetBoulevard3 · 10/01/2020 00:25

Also noticed the lack of a ring today. Now she’s flown back to Canada.

Stronger2020 · 10/01/2020 00:27

Where was that @SunsetBoulevard3

FairyLightsAreMyCrack · 10/01/2020 00:28

So many people have spent last night and today making multiple posts on multiple threads about how much they don't like two people they have never met.

You have no idea what their personalities are actually like. You have no idea what their relationship is like. You have no idea what circumstances within the royal family may or may not have have prompted this.

If you have so much hatred for people you don't know that you are not only willing to believe tabloid rubbish, but you are genuinely joyful at the thought of them failing or angry at the thought of them doing well, then please please take a step away and get back to your own life.

Get a bit of perspective ffs.

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