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Hand hold: DH missing after "accident"

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Stickywhitelovepiss · 07/06/2019 19:20

I know it's not been long, but this is really out of character and not sure what to do next.

Rang my DH on his mobile to let him know what time I'd get in and he didn't answer - often happens so then call him on work line. His work said he'd called in on way back in after lunch saying he'd been in a car accident but was fine, and neither hide nor hair heard since. That's all I know - no indication of the severity of the accident or where he or my car (which he drives) have got to.

I've been trying him on his mobile countless times, called 101 to see if they've got him somewhere, also A&E - but no joy.

He's been off grid for about 5 hours now, when he'd normally have picked me up, got the Tesco and we'd be sitting starting our weekend. But not even a text to let me know he's not dead in a ditch, and I don't have that phone tracker either on this latest handset.

Starting to panic slightly - if anyone is around for a hand hold or some pointers as to how I can track him down that's would be much appreciated....

OP posts:
edsheeranpaidmoretaxthanccola · 14/06/2019 00:17

Hope you get some answers OP

Overseasmom100 · 16/06/2019 23:23

How are you OP

BobbyBrewstersMagicTorch · 23/06/2019 07:03

How are things @stickywhitelovepiss?

Overseasmom100 · 01/07/2019 15:48

Any news OP on tests?

Dillow · 01/07/2019 18:59

6 weeks will be very quick for blood results at the moment.

Hope all's well OP.

Stickywhitelovepiss · 07/07/2019 15:14

Nothing through yet. Will let you know either way.

OP posts:
BrienneofTarthILoveYou · 07/07/2019 16:09

Just read your thread Op - how upsetting and worrying for you. Hope the blood tests come through soon.

hellenbackagen · 07/07/2019 19:52

It will be another 3!weeks at least.

Brace yourself cos it isn't gonna be good news . Seen it too many times. Frank and honest discussion required. X

hellenbackagen · 26/07/2019 18:32

I reckon anytime about now .... good luck op .

Stickywhitelovepiss · 17/08/2019 18:40

Still nothing... Rang up two weeks ago for an update, but nothing to report...

OP posts:
TremblingFanjo · 17/08/2019 22:08

How have things been at home though? Do you think he's been drinking?

MondeoFan · 17/08/2019 22:25

Yes good luck with it all

FluffyCloudsInTheSky · 18/08/2019 16:51

How do you feel?

Northernsoullover · 18/08/2019 17:05

Still no resolution

hellenbackagen · 18/08/2019 17:08

They won't disclose to you op I'm sorry
He's an adult so doesn't matter how much you ring up they aren't going to be able to disclose anything to you

He will just get the summons through the post .

happyjack12 · 18/08/2019 17:43

hope things have settled down in the meantime.

64sNewName · 18/08/2019 18:14

Just saw this for the first time. I’m sorry OP, it must be really stressful waiting for it all to be resolved.

MamaOfBothTeams · 18/08/2019 18:19

How are you doing op?

GreigLaidlawsbarofsoap · 18/08/2019 18:32

Just read most of this thread and wanted to say thanks to @hellenbackagen for her clear and calm advice. Your "online voice" really remind me of a friend of mine - who is also an excellent police officer! (Now wondering if you might actually BE her 😁).

Angelf1sh · 18/08/2019 18:35

Maybe get him to call on speakerphone as they aren’t going to tell you.

TheGodmother · 12/09/2019 23:44

@Stickywhitelovepiss did you ever find out?

Stickywhitelovepiss · 11/12/2019 10:18

6 months later and we finally have an update. Yes to over the limit and yes to being charged.

Reeling at moment, and seriously starting to consider options here.

OP posts:
AllYouGoodGoodPeople · 11/12/2019 10:32

How have things been in the mean time at home?

puds11 · 11/12/2019 10:34

Has he admitted he lied? It’s fairly concrete now.

Hope you are ok.

coconuttelegraph · 11/12/2019 10:38

What does your DH say now it's proven?