Ah Christ I’ve only went and got myself a “bad boy”

[housewifeoflittleitaly]

Not sure where to start.

Husband left in February without so much as a goodbye, I was devastated until two weeks later he returned and I decided I hated him for what he had done. No turning back like he wanted & i packed the rest of his stuff and chucked him out.

Ff to 3 weeks ago & a new HOD started, instantly my type looks wise but not so much personality wise. He’s a big character, cheeky chap all the girls thinks he’s cute and funny. Turns out he’s set his sights on me.... me ffs.

I’ve never so much as looked another mans direction and all this flirting and now txting is making me feel all sorted of emotions. Guilty being the most prevalent as technically I am still married, surely I shouldn’t be flirting?

Anyway he’s only gone & asked me out & now I can feel the spark every time I think about it. I don’t know what to do he’s literally drawing me in like a moth to a flame.

Should I nip this in the bud now or roll with it despite the above?

Sounds like one to avoid with lovely assault charges

Have reported and MN are looking at this!

🙄

Sorry elderflower - my eyeroll was for op - not you 😬

I don’t know op, but whoever hired him is really shit at their job 😏

Morning, and thanks for all the reports about this thread.

We've had a proper check behind the scenes and can see that the OP's actually a long-term member of the site who's not given us cause for concern in the past. So while we too have a few reservations about this thread ('snorts lines most days? assault charges'?! walk away, OP, walk away!) we're inclined to give her the benefit of the doubt for a while longer.

We can see there are a fair few troll hunting posts above, so here's a wee reminder of our Talk Guidelines.

So. Are you coming back, OP?

Blimey, he sounds a catch...NOT. And there was me thinking my standards were low!

What could go wrong OP?! Go for it!

At best he is a lying fantasist, at worst he's a drug addicted, violent ex con, fuckwit.

Oh and professional contact sport + drugs = BS.

But hey its your choice.

Geez, it's not a troll?! I've heard it all now

OP, what were you drinking last night?

If he "snorts coke most days" then those days clearly aren't behind him are they? Unless you mean "behind him" like, say, yesterday.

Friend of mine dated a man like this. He knocked her up, abandoned her and their son, lost his job, and then died in South America of a cocaine overdose.

I don’t think the OP is a troll...

I’m thinking they had a few shandies and decided to go all Marian Keyes

Date him casually for a bit of fun but don’t entertain delusions of ‘taming him’ and settling down.

Oh wait did someone mention coke and other unsavoury episodes?

Nah. Enjoy the frisson, but don’t go there.

Unless there's a leather jacket involved I call foul.

Op never said teaching, just HOD
I think people assumed teaching as op wrote "all the girls thinks he’s cute and funny."

Although you'd hope someone with previous assault charges wouldn't be employed as a teacher

Yes do come back OP, I'm can't wait to hear more.

What was this assault charge? How do you know he snorts lines most days? So many questions!!!

Please tell us more, OP.

I’m a sucker for a romantic story.

Have some fun - just don't fall in love! 🤣

How do you know how big his cock is already?

This is Mumsnet, not Netmums. 🙄

@ChardonnaysPrettySister 😂