Ah Christ I’ve only went and got myself a “bad boy”

[housewifeoflittleitaly]

Not sure where to start.

Husband left in February without so much as a goodbye, I was devastated until two weeks later he returned and I decided I hated him for what he had done. No turning back like he wanted & i packed the rest of his stuff and chucked him out.

Ff to 3 weeks ago & a new HOD started, instantly my type looks wise but not so much personality wise. He’s a big character, cheeky chap all the girls thinks he’s cute and funny. Turns out he’s set his sights on me.... me ffs.

I’ve never so much as looked another mans direction and all this flirting and now txting is making me feel all sorted of emotions. Guilty being the most prevalent as technically I am still married, surely I shouldn’t be flirting?

Anyway he’s only gone & asked me out & now I can feel the spark every time I think about it. I don’t know what to do he’s literally drawing me in like a moth to a flame.

Should I nip this in the bud now or roll with it despite the above?

Christ Alive! You have standards OP. Dig deep and find them again. Otherwise you will humiliate yourself.

I'd go out with him!

And his History is common knowledge after just 3 weeks fwiw my dh has a somewhat chequered past (long time behind him) but he doesn't go round broadcasting it.

Have you shagged this bad boy already? Hence the description of his genitals and the rather unsavoury sounding multi-coloured discharge?

If you've only ever dated ordinary men in the past, those without tattoos and convictions for assault, or who use cocaine regularly and are part of the sometimes dubious MMA scene, then perhaps this man is offering you what appears to be unmitigated excitement, when in fact the reality will be as boring as fuck.

As for you both being Head of Department, are you both in catering and hospitality or the fitness industry, where (I would imagine) a clean
DBS isn't required?

Total rubbish. Genuine question but what do you get out of posting fake stories like this? Do you not have a life?

He’s an MMA fighter, tattoos everywhere, snorts lines most days, divorced twice, assault charges. But he says those days are behind him.

A violent drug addict. Sounds dreamy OP. Go for it!

Is it just me that read the op’s reply of him being an MMA fighter etc as a sarcaatic response to another poster?

Everyone seems to have taken it as a genuine answer!

Is it just me that read the op’s reply of him being an MMA fighter etc as a sarcaatic response to another poster?

That would make more sense but I'm not so sure 🤔

Huh?

Is it just me that read the op’s reply of him being an MMA fighter etc as a sarcastic response to another poster?

I think so, too, especially as the OP sounds more like he's Kevin from Accounts who wears short-sleeved shirts to work but who fancies himself as a 'cheeky chappy' because he has a motorbike and likes the 'bantz'.

An MMA Fighter what's that again Measles, Mumps and what?

does your Mum know you're on her phone?

He’s an MMA fighter, tattoos everywhere, snorts lines most days, divorced twice, assault charges.

Gosh, he sounds like a prince among men.

Ignore all those sensible people who will tell you that after a relationship breakup it's wise to give yourself a minimum of three months to sort out your emotions etc, jump straight in - he sounds like a massive... er,... catch or you may want to raise your relationship bar a tad higher, like off the ground.

@MerryInthechelseahotel

An MMA Fighter what's that again Measles, Mumps and what?

Arsehole 😂

He sounds repulsive.

You went and got yourself a bad boy? Woohoo. Enjoy the antibiotic resistant STI. Love is love after all.