Does everyone have a vibrator??

[bottleofredplease]

I keep reading things about how we should or should not be open about dildos. Should they be in the supermarket or should we be open about them at home etc etc.
I don't have one, it seems like everyone does except me! I just don't think cold plastic is quite the same and my hands work fine

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[MozzchopsThirty]

You can buy them in my local Sainsburys next to the condoms

I have a few, my fave new toy though is the satisfyer pro
It's a kind of suction thing, my god it's amazing

[ShortandSweet96]

Nope. I have a few.
Why can't women be open about it?
I thought an orgasm a day kept the doctor away..

I suppose I'm from the younger generation maybe it's now widely spoken about for people in their 20's?

[Scottishlassie81]

I have just googled womaniser!! Now I want one!

I have a few toys and I use them solo or with a partner. I prefer to use the websites as well. I have read reviews of cheaper (£ shop - nothing against a £ shop, I love a bargain) toys that have come out are cheap and nasty. The reputable websites do tend to send higher quality. body safe product.

I prefer lovehoney over bondera. The quality of the toys are better.

[MozzchopsThirty]

Love honey is great and you can return toys that you find don't work for you which is customer service at its best

[SilverySurfer]

I have one, it's tiny - fits over my finger - works for me

[theharlotletter]

No, never have and can't think I ever will. Just don't need one as DH knows exactly what he's doing

[chickensaresafehere]

Think I will invest in a womaniser! Hoping it will revive my fallen libido & ability to orgasm whilst the menopause has it's evil way with me.

[Rochelaise18]

I have one. It has left the box once when I was trying to figure out how it worked and where the charger thing went. It looked like too much hard work so went back in the box and currently lives in the boot of the car.

[Cookmysock1]

I second the Lelo Sona, mind blowing

[amusedbush]

I've had a few over the years but the Lovehoney wand (the one that plugs into the wall) can run circles around anything else. Fucking outstanding

[Needadoughnut]

I just bought one, great investment. But it's the vibrator rather than dildo type.. dildos still seem like a substitute for the real thing

[anxiousbundle]

I don't think it's really appropriate to have them in supermarkets willy nilly (sorry) but they're so readily available online or in anne summers etc that you don't need them to be in the supermarket!

I have 3 for reference and fucking love the things you don't need to use them just solo either, if you have a smaller one it's great during sex if you're on top/doggy style.

[DorothyZbornak]

I have a few and not the supermarket, but I bought my last one from Poundland believe it or not. It's actually quite good for £1!

[Wendywoo1000]

No. Got through life without the desire to buy one. We have a great sex life and feel i dont need to use one.

I certainly dont feel im missing out. Each to their own.

[LadyKalila]

No

[BloodyHellBeryl]

My sex life is fab with my very skilled husband @Wendywoo1000.
But toys add to it and they're great for those solo times when he's not around.

A bit like a nice steak, it's great, but sometimes it's even nicer with a peppercorn sauce. 😜

[theharlotletter]

But I already get peppercorn sauce on my steak @ BloodyHellBeryl accompained with several tasty side orders. In the words of Liam Neeson DH has a very particular set of skills

[dustarr73]

@DorothyZbornak is it pink.I got one from Dealz (which is poundland ) for 1.50€.

[Asta19]

Honestly, I didn’t have one for years, then I got one and had my first ever real orgasm it was truly mind Blowing! I’ve realised since that PIV doesn’t give me orgasms and all the men i’ve dated have not been skilled enough to give me an orgasm in any other way. And I had a wild youth so it’s not like it was a small sample, double

It makes me feel a bit sad actually. I will probably never experience a really great orgasm with a man. That would be the ideal for me but I don’t think it will happen now. So the vibrator does the job and the plus points are that I don’t have to suck it first, it doesn’t want dinner and it never moans at me and i don’t have to iron it’s shirts! Actually maybe i’m Not so sad about it

[EggysMom]

Not got one, and don't have fomo.

[Moominfan]

Dildo owners, Does anyone else find it's a different kind of orgasm? When I've orgasmed manually or with partner it's just not as intense

[lemonface]

What is fomo?

[BloodyHellBeryl]

Must be a new style of orgasm @Lemonface 😂

But what do I do when the husband isn't here without my toys? 😮

[BloodyHellBeryl]

Yes @Moominfan.

It's strange really.

[DorothyZbornak]

@Dustarr73, lol yes it is. With a slightly pointed end at one side