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Our guide to the best vibrators of 2024 including rabbits, clit suckers, bullets and more

Shopping for a vibrator can be intimidating, especially if you’ve never bought one before. To help you find the right one for you, we’ve tapped into the collective wisdom of our Mumsnet users to bring you this roundup of the best vibrators.

By Rebecca Roberts | Last updated Feb 15, 2024

Best vibrators

From Victorian medical tools, vibrators have evolved into versatile pleasure devices with modern variations designed to enhance sexual experiences and overall wellness. These days, masturbation is a crucial self-care practice, providing pleasure and health benefits like endorphin release, improved self-esteem, stress reduction, and better sleep - making the choice of vibrator pivotal for heightened satisfaction. Celebrities like Gwyneth Paltrow and Dakota Johnson have even contributed to the sexual wellness revolution by launching their own intimate gadgets.

Amid the rise of sexual well-being in self-care routines, the sex toy industry has transformed considerably. However, the number of products can make selecting the ideal vibrator a daunting task. "The most important thing is that you actually like the look and feel of it", shares Lucy Rowett, Sex Coach at The Lowdown. "I believe it's important for you to choose your own vibrator rather than it be given as a gift, because only you know what you like."

To help, we’ve tapped into the collective wisdom and first-hand experiences of our Mumsnet users, who’ve all been there, done that and got the O when trying out the below vibrators. Keep reading to find our roundup of the best vibrators. Using your vibrator during intercourse with your partner? Stock up on some of the best condoms. Oh, and don't forget to enhance the experience with the right lubricant - here’s our guide to the best lubes for you.

Best vibrators, a quick glance

1. Best overall: Womanizer Pro40

2. Best vibrator for clitoral suction: Satisfyer Pro 2

3. Best vibrator for postpartum: Smile Makers’ The Whisperer

4. Best bullet vibrator: Moregasm+ Bullet

5. Best vibrator for your G spot: Womanizer OG

6. Best wand vibrator: LELO Smart Wand 2

7. Best vibrator for couples: We Vibe Sync Lite

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Best vibrator overall
What we like
  • Long run time

  • Silicone head

  • Contactless stimulation 

  • Waterproof and submersible

  • Warranty included

What we don't like
  • Very firm, little flexibility on the head

  • Only six intensity levels 

  • Dearer than other clit suckers available

Key specs

Material: ABS, silicone | Weight: 140g | Dimensions: 120mm x 46mm | Power: USB rechargeable | Run time: 240 minutes | Settings: Six intensity levels, Pleasure Air Technology, contactless stimulation | Waterproof: Submersible | Allergens: Latex-free, phthalate-free | Flexibility: Firm | Warranty: Five years | Targets: Clitoris | Vibrator type: Suction

What Mumsnet users say
FellatrixLestrange · Tried & Tested
It is a fantastic design, the first toy that I was aware of that was made for my experience of masturbation- focusing on the clitoris.
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NCSexForum · Recommended
I love it! I would use it everyday if I could. Fantastic or should that be orgasmic!
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Our verdict

Read our full review of the Womanizer Pro40 here

Designed with Womanizer’s revolutionary Pleasure Air Technology, which provides precise stimulation without direct contact, the Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 offers a unique and satisfying experience for clitoral stimulation enthusiasts. Designed with air technology, the sleek vibrator embraces your clitoris with a silicone head that pulses and massages, depending on the intensity level you select. The Pro40’s waterproof design is great for shower or bath play, and the convenient USB charging makes it versatile and easy to first set up. There are six intensity levels, which help to provide a customisable journey and it excels in its ability to gradually build sensations... Offering everything from soft flutters to an intense pulse that can lead you to achieve climax pretty quickly (be warned!). 


How we chose our recommendations

Recommendations from real Mumsnet users

Mumsnetters have certainly put vibrators through their paces when in the bedroom, with many Mumsnet users sharing experiences (both good and bad) of the vibrators they’ve personally tried and tested. We first considered the models that they have tried, rated, and would recommend to their friends. We also looked out for any negative reviews, where users highlighted products that they felt were poor quality, ineffective, broke or simply failed to do the job.

Expert opinions

We then cross-checked our recommendations with the vibrators praised by sex experts to ensure we were bringing you the best products that are rated across the board.

Authentic consumer reviews

Finally, to bring you our definitive list of the best vibrators, we thoroughly investigated genuine, in-depth customer reviews on retailer sites such as Lovehoney, Ann Summers and Boots, and independent sites to get broader consumer experiences regarding the products on our shortlist.


2
Best vibrator for clitoral suction
What we like
  • Pressure wave and touch-free clitoral stimulation

  • Waterproof

  • 11 pressure wave settings to choose from

What we don't like
  • Makes no contact with your body

Key specs

Material: Silicone head | Type: Clitoral | Power: Rechargeable Li-ion battery with magnetic USB charging cable | Waterproof: Yes | Settings: 11 intensity settings

What Mumsnet users say
ReginaTheEvilQueen · Tried & Tested
Tried it last night before I went to bed, it was worth every penny! Best toy ever! Started on the lowest setting and worked my way up, didn't even last a minute.
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freckles999 · Recommended
I have one. Sometimes cum in literally seconds.... Amazing toy!
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Our verdict

Read our full review of the Satisfyer Pro 2 here

This remarkable clitoral toy combines pressure waves and tingling pulsations to help you climax - without ever actually touching you. This innovative toy is designed for easy handling, allowing you to adjust the intensity level easily with a click of a button. Its touch free design means that this massager makes no direct contact with your body, and lets the pulsations do all the work. Once the hollow head is in place, you can simply relax and let the Satisfyer Pro work its magic.

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3
Best vibrator to use after birth
What we like
  • Discreet and quiet when in use

  • Lipstick-shaped vibrator specifically designed for the clitoris

  • Ultra-smooth, flexible silicone for a gentle touch

What we don't like
  • There’s not a lot of speeds/pulsations to choose from

Key specs

Material: Vegan silicone | Type: Clitoral | Power: Rechargeable | Waterproof: Yes | Settings: Three speeds and two pulsation

What Mumsnet users say
Mumsnet tester · Tried & Tested
I thought that the soft feel of it was good. Much more pleasant than some other sex toys I’ve used, which are a lot harder.
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Mumsnet tester · Recommended
The sensations were gentle, so much so that at the start I struggled to find the right spot, but when I did, it was definitely obvious! Definitely a nice way to build up these sensations again following a difficult childbirth.
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Our verdict

Don't miss: our tried and tested review of Smile Makers’ The Whisperer

Admittedly, we might be slightly biased to include this one in our roundup. The Whisperer was born of a Mumsnet collaboration with Smile Makers, and is a lipstick-shaped vibrators that has been thoughtfully designed for clitoral stimulation, incorporating insights from mums who have recently given birth.

The Whisperer’s patented design optimises pleasure with a curved tip and rounded edges. Its flexible, silicone construction provides a gentle touch, allowing for comfortable and pleasurable experiences. With three speeds and two pulsation modes, you have the freedom to explore and find the perfect fit for your body and desires.

Discretion is key, and The Whisperer delivers. Its compact size and quiet operation ensure a discreet experience, allowing you to indulge in pleasure without worry. Additionally, the vibrator is fully waterproof and rechargeable.

4
Best bullet vibrator

Moregasm+ Bullet Vibrator, £48

What we like
  • Super-soft silicone is non-intimidating

  • Squishy tip is comfortable but firm

  • Easy-to-use touch button

  • Great for beginners or experienced sex toy users

What we don't like
  • Quite strong, so start off slow

Key specs

Material: Silicone | Type: Clitoral bullet massager | Power: Rechargeable battery | Waterproof: Yes | Settings: Five speeds and five patterns for a customised play

What Mumsnet users say
Mrsmummy90 · Recommended
A bullet is a really good one to start with. It's small and can be used anywhere on each other.
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Rebecca, MNHQ · Recommended
IMHO, the Moregasm+ Bullet is a must. 
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Our verdict

Tried and tested: Read our full review of the Moregasm+ Bullet vibrator

This small yet mighty bullet vibrator has been given an upgrade. The new and improved Moregasm+ Bullet is designed to deliver intense sensations, thanks to Ann Summers’ exclusive Climax Technology housed within a layer of the softest silicone. The bullet vibrator takes pleasure to new heights by sending strong, low-frequency vibrations throughout the body, targeting all 15,000+ nerve endings you have. The flexible tip of the bullet gently moulds to your body, providing a comfortable fit, while the ridges along the length of the shaft offer additional stimulation for an all-encompassing orgasmic pleasure that's different to any you've experienced before.

With the easy-to-use single control button, you can effortlessly explore the 10 different settings, including give increasing speeds and give vibration patterns. Hold the bullet against your clitoris for direct stimulation, or if you prefer a gentler touch, explore the surrounding areas and other external pleasure points on you or your partner. The choice is yours.

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5
Best vibrator for your G spot
What we like
  • Stimulate either the clitoris or G-spot

  • Different vibration and pulsating settings

  • Suitable for solo and/or partner use

What we don't like
  • It’s advised to use water-based lubricant

Key specs

Material: Silicone | Type: Clitoral and internal | Power: Rechargeable with USB charging cable | Waterproof: Yes | Settings: Three vibrations and 12 pulsating intensities

What Mumsnet users say
applepineapple · Recommended
Expensive but Womanizer.
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JenNtonic · Tried & Tested
OP GET THE WOMANIZER! Definitely agree with you about cost per use! It PAYS FOR ITSELF! I just wish they made a more mobile one…
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7thlevelofthecandycaneforest · Tried & Tested
Haha I was going to suggest Womanizer too! Definitely worth the money.
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thebrollies · Tried & Tested
Womanizer! It takes a little getting used to, but omg it’s life changing.
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Our verdict

Tried and tested: read our in depth review of the Womanizer OG

With plenty of recommendations from Mumsnet users on our Talk boards, it’s easy to see why the Womanizer is a favourite. This vibrator is crafted to tantalise both your clitoris and G-spot, and boasts an array of features.

There’s three vibration levels, complete with suction technology as well as 12 pulsating sensations that resonate throughout your erogenous zones. Whether you decide to enjoy the Womanizer OG vibrator solo or invite a partner to join you, the key is to start leisurely and gradually escalate the intensity to reach climax.

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Best wand vibrator

LELO Smart Wand 2 Large Rechargeable Vibrator, £135

What we like
  • 10 different settings

  • Waterproof and submersible for aquatic fun 

  • Whisper-quiet, discreet during use

  • Can be used for all-over body massages, too

  • Comes in medium or large size

  • Cordless so not restrictive

What we don't like
  • Higher price tag

  • The large size is… Very large!

Key specs

Material: Silicone | Allergens: Latexfree, phthalate free | Waterproof: Submersible | Function settings: 10 vibration settings | Power: Rechargeable via magnetic cable (included) | Run time: Four hours | Suitable for internal use: No | Suitable for external use: Yes, on all body parts | Colours: Available in three

What Mumsnet users say
FellatrixLestrange · Tried & Tested
LELO is definitely my preferred brand and this wand is my favourite toy. Its vibrations are strong and steady but never uncomfortably intense. It feels good to hold due to its ergonomic design and it looks great.
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Our verdict

Don't miss: our in depth LELO Smart Wand 2 review

There’s no denying that this is a huge amount to pay for a sex toy and definitely out of budget for many of us. But if you are looking to splurge on something that will bring you pleasure, this wand by LELO is a safe bet - and definitely makes your invested money worth it in the long run.

Best of all, it’s cordless so you don’t need to worry about buying batteries or plugging it in to work. Plus, it looks good and customers say the design feels like silk on the skin... Earning it a place in our best wand massagers roundup!

Read next: Find the best sex toys for women here

7
Best vibrator for couples
What we like
  • Great for couples to use

  • Dual stimulation for clit and G-spot

  • Penetration-friendly

  • Quiet when in use

  • Manual control by button

  • We Vibe app for long-distance control

  • Works as a standalone vibrator

  • Adjustable size for a comfortable fit

  • Premium, body-safe materials

What we don't like
  • Easy to slip out when using solo

  • Only 45 minutes run time

  • No Bluetooth remote

  • Not waterproof

  • No charging dock included

Key specs

Material: Silicone | Settings: 10 functions | Special feature: Bluetooth and app controlled | Power: Rechargeable via USB | Waterproof: Not submersible, but splashproof

What Mumsnet users say
fizzingwhizbee · Tried & Tested
DH and I use a We Vibe during PIV sex. I would definitely say use lube. I also find it works best if I'm on my front as it helps keep the We Vibe in place. At least to start with.
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MephistophelesApprentice · Recommended
My partner and I use We Vibe now and then, it's great fun. Takes a little getting used to (and lube, lube is good).
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Our verdict

When it comes to sex toys for couples, the We Vibe Sync Lite offers everything that the popular We Vibe Sync 2 does but with a more affordable price tag. It covers all bases; solo play, use during PIV sex and long-distance relationships. Although, if you're hesitant to spend a small fortune on a toy for you and your partner to use, the We Vibe Sync Lite is a good option. At less than £80, it's much more affordable than the original Sync vibrator. It’s also smoother and easier to use, with one-button control to navigate the 10 different vibration modes. That’s not all - with the We Vibe App you have extra control of your toy and is a great choice for couples in long-distance relationships or with a DP who travel a lot. 

How to choose the best vibrator

According to Sex Coach Lucy Rowett, the look and feel of a vibrator are the two most important factors when choosing one. "The material of your vibrator is also really important", she says. "I recommend a vibrator made of medical grade silicone, not hard plastic, and avoid at all costs any sex toys made of materials like jelly or cyber skin.

"This is because not only do they degrade over time and so leak into your bloodstream, but they harbour bacteria too."

Here are some other factors to keep in mind:

  • Types of stimulation: what do you enjoy? Are you seeking clitoral, G-spot, or dual stimulation?

  • Size and shape: consider what appeals to you. Some prefer smaller, more discreet vibrators - whereas others may enjoy larger or more curved designs.

  • Materials: pay attention to the materials used. Body-safe silicone is a popular choice as it’s hypoallergenic and easy to clean. Avoid porous materials that can harbour bacteria.

  • Power and settings: decide on the intensity and vibration patterns you like. Choose a vibrator with adjustable speeds and multiple patterns.

  • Noise level: if discretion is a priority, opt for vibrators known for their quiet operation.

  • Budget: Determine your budget and explore options within your range. Remember that higher priced vibrators often offer more advanced features, better quality and are long-lasting.

By considering these factors and conducting research, you can choose a vibrator that aligns with your preferences and provides the best possible pleasure and satisfaction. Remember, the right vibrator for you may be different from someone else, so trust your instincts and enjoy exploring the exciting world of pleasure products.

Read next: Best sex toys for couples for added fun

What are the different types of vibrators available?

When it comes to exploring the world of vibrators, there is a wide variety of options to suit different preferences and desires. Here are some of the different types of vibrators available:

Bullet vibrator

Small and discreet, bullet vibrators are perfect for targeted clitoral stimulation.

Wand vibrators

Known for their powerful vibrations, wand vibrators are larger in size and designed for intense external stimulation.

We recommend trying the Ann Summers' Self Love Wand Massager, tried and tested by our own MNHQ editor, Rebecca.

Rabbit vibrators

Designed for dual stimulation, targeting both the clitoris and G-spot simultaneously. Mumsnet users rate the Swivelling Rampant Rabbit from Ann Summers, and also their Realistic Thrusting Rampant Rabbit.

G-spot vibrators

These have a curved shape specifically designed to target the G-Spot. They are often smaller in size, and feature various vibration settings to enhance pleasure.

When it comes to targeting your G-spots, the Womanizer OG Vibrator is the one.

Clitoral vibrators

These are designed specifically for clitoral stimulation. They come in various shapes and sizes, from small discreet ones to larger, more ergonomic ones.

Couples’ vibrators

These are designed to be used during intercourse for shared pleasure. They can be worn by one or both partners. You can find our guide to the best couples' sex toys here.

Remote-controlled vibrators

These can be controlled remotely, either by a partner or through a smartphone app. They allow for hands-free play.

Anal vibrators

Designed for anal play, these vibrators have a tapered shape and often come with a flared base for safety.

Remember to choose a vibrator that matches your preferences and comfort level. Exploring different types of vibrators can add new dimensions of pleasure to your intimate experiences.

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How to use a wand vibrator

How do I clean and maintain my vibrator?

Proper cleaning and maintenance of your vibrator are essential for ensuring its longevity and hygienic use. Here are some steps to effectively clean and maintain your vibrator:

  • Read the instructions: start with the manufacturer’s instructions, they’ll probably provide specific cleaning recommendations tailored to your particular vibrator.

  • Use mild soap and water: for most, mild soap and warm water are sufficient for cleaning. Gently wash your toy, paying attention to any textured areas or crevices where dirt or lubricant can accumulate. Avoid submerging any battery compartments or electronic components unless the vibrator is explicitly labelled as waterproof.

  • Toy cleaner: if you prefer, you can use a specialised sex toy cleaner instead of soap and water, which are specifically designed to disinfect and sanitise your toy.

  • Rinse thoroughly: after cleaning, make sure to rinse your vibrator thoroughly to remove any soap residue.

  • Dry completely: let your vibrator to air dry completely before storing it. Ensure all moisture is removed to prevent any potential damage.

  • Storage: store your vibrator in a clean, dry place.

  • Batteries and charging: if your vibrator is battery powered, remove the batteries when not in use to prevent corrosion. For rechargeable ones, follow the instruction manual for proper charging and storage to maximise battery life.

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Why you should trust us

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About the expert

Lucy Rowett is a certified sexologist and sex coach who is passionate about helping women let go of sexual shame and hangups. She uses a combination of mind-body tools with evidence-based sexuality education. Her speciality is working with people who come from faith backgrounds who are struggling to let go of sexual shame and enjoy pleasurable relationships again.

About the author

Rebecca Roberts is a writer, editor, and content marketing expert hailing from Leeds. Here at Mumsnet, she commissions, writes, and edits to bring parents content designed to make life easier. After birthing and breastfeeding two babies in two years, Rebecca knows first-hand how hard it can be to reignite intimacy. From condoms, to lubricants, to sex toys - she’s on a quest to find the best ones, with the help of Mumsnet user recommendations.

Beyond her role as an editor here at Mumsnet, Rebecca can be found balancing life as a working mum of two toddlers and when she’s not at her desk, you’ll likely find her at a local playgroup, in a nearby coffee shop, walking the dog, or hiding from her neighbour as she attempts to buy condoms during her weekly “Big Food Shop”.