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I’m a fairly secular Muslim: Ask me anything

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Byemelania · 11/11/2020 21:39

I probably won’t know the answer but I’ll try

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SentientAndCognisant · 11/11/2020 22:15

Cops is well used term by cops and public, I think op made a gentle retort to a post
Feds is what the kids say innit

Byemelania · 11/11/2020 22:18

Yes to alcohol, sex before marriage is fine but I always felt “guilty” about it in a Catholic kind of way I guess, how secular? Is there a measure? My family drink and smoke but then are also insanely closed minded at times. Not religious more cultural.

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HecatesCats · 11/11/2020 22:19

I'm just wondering why you want to start a post about Islam on Feminism & Women's Rights. You didn't give any context about your motivation in the original post.

HecatesCats · 11/11/2020 22:19

In not on

Byemelania · 11/11/2020 22:19

@FrenchtoEnglish I think bans of this kind violate freedom of expression. It’s not for the state to decide who wears what.

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Byemelania · 11/11/2020 22:20

@HecatesCats as mentioned I didn’t know there was an AMA section. Was just looking through the topics and this seemed like an alright place.

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SentientAndCognisant · 11/11/2020 22:22

Op isn’t being provocative, I can’t see there’s a problem
Probably better in AMA but no harm done here

Byemelania · 11/11/2020 22:22

@Wonderrwall I think some friends judge but they wouldn’t tell me that. And no I don’t feel “accepted”, but I also wouldn’t feel too comfortable anywhere else.

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HecatesCats · 11/11/2020 22:24

@SentientAndCognisant

Op isn’t being provocative, I can’t see there’s a problem Probably better in AMA but no harm done here
I'm just asking questions as prompted. Don't necessarily think there is any harm, just wondering if it's been motivated by recent events? Current affairs, something in particular.
Byemelania · 11/11/2020 22:24

@SentientAndCognisant police nicknames are my favourite - cops, feds, 5-0, the filth, the old bill. Could be here all day!

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Byemelania · 11/11/2020 22:26

@HecatesCats no motivation, just here with my baby hoping she stays asleep so I can sleep at some point tonight too. Having a chat INNIT

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HecatesCats · 11/11/2020 22:30

Thanks for responding OP

tara66 · 11/11/2020 22:33

What is actually inside the Kabaa at Mecca? I think it is where Abraham found water and was a pre -Islamic religious sit? Also I have the idea that it may contain a meteorite and nothing can fly over it which is why there isn't an airport at Mecca .What is the Kabaa made of ? - I think it's wood under the black cloth? thanks.

zanahoria · 11/11/2020 22:34

the koran says it is OK for a man to beat his wife, why would any woman want to be in that religion?

Escapeplanning · 11/11/2020 22:34

Is Santa really coming down the chimney?

Byemelania · 11/11/2020 22:35

@Escapeplanning I don’t think so this year because of coronavirus. Santa is cancelled

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SentientAndCognisant · 11/11/2020 22:36

Ahh yes I like the slang names for coopers to
My mates who are coppers they use copper as term
Feds is to ohh ahh for me and too street innit

MrsSpringfield · 11/11/2020 22:36

Do you work? If so, do you feel your ethnicity has hindered your career progression at all? Or indeed the opposite, and helped?

Byemelania · 11/11/2020 22:36

@zanahoria does it say that? Do any other religious texts say it or only the Koran? Like I said, I don’t know many answers :)

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Byemelania · 11/11/2020 22:37

@tara66 google is your friend, but it’s definitely not wood.

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SentientAndCognisant · 11/11/2020 22:37

Ahh no, Santa is a key worker. He’s not cancelled . He can still travel and make home visits

Dreeple · 11/11/2020 22:37

Have they sacked all the U.K. cops?

Byemelania · 11/11/2020 22:37

@SentientAndCognisant I think the filth is just so delicious. Pigs is a bit too obvious

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Byemelania · 11/11/2020 22:38

@MrsSpringfield I do work, my ethnicity has not helped. There is a lot of discrimination in this here England

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Byemelania · 11/11/2020 22:39

@SentientAndCognisant that is true! 🎅🏽

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