I'm a professional dominatrix ama

[thepassenger99]

Hi I'm a professional dominatrix and someone suggested on another thread that I should make a ama as it was interesting! Feel free to ask anything.

Is there an NVQ ?

It doesn't matter what you get them to sign, you would be criminally liable if you cause them any actual bodily harm whatsoever.

How much do you charge per session?

@lyinwitchinthwardbrobe - a hallmark of maturity is asking others how they feel about a subject, not presuming to tell them. Nothing could be less intimidating to me than someone whose livelihood is based on the fantasy that women hold any real power over men. Believe me, i can think of many occasions when it would have come in handy (no pun intended).

If i could ask you a follow up question OP - who is it who ties them up and unties them, and how do you ensure that person's safety?

Wow - this is fascinating!

I still don’t quite get what you actually do and how it works?

How did you get into it?

Do you ever have moments when you think “this is ridiculous - what the fuckety fuck am so doing here?” How do you cope at that point?

Have you ever come across a former/current client in a different capacity? It'd be weird if you went to the bank/solicitors/estate agents or heaven forbid, your child's school, and there they were!

60k in a month?! Have you seen any politicians?

@RuffleCrow it's me that does it all and you can learn how to safely tie people up online using videos etc and obviously handcuffs too are common use more so than rope as it is safer I only bound by ankles and wrists.

I ensure the safety of all my clients but that specific question would depend on what fetish I was covering and the safety measures that particular fetish needs putting in place

@glenhaggis no never lol I had a couple clients say they've seen me out and about but they know to not approach when it is not appropriate

@SebandAlice I charge based on how long the client wants so it varies significantly and subs tend to tip a lot lol

My mum has been thinking about getting into this (I would say she is probably asexual) but she is worried that she’s taking advantage because she isn’t really into it - if that makes sense? Any word of advice?
she’s in her 60’s and not she sure what angle to take as she doesn’t want to go down the corset and leather look. She’s been to Lamb a number of times but stalled in actually doing it. I think she’s a bit scared with all the logistics!

Have you ever kicked someone in the testicles? If so, isn't that really dangerous?
Do you feel sorry for them or feel disgust for them as they grovel around asking you to hurt them?

What is ball bursting?

Well this is all very interesting.

Are you dom’ing us by ignoring the thread?

Do you think the 1987 bleach advert Big Bad Dom was created by a sub?!

I’m having flashbacks, @YouCanNever.

Do you ever think about the partners of your (presumably male?) clients, and how they may feel if they found out their partner had visited / paid you?