I'm a professional dominatrix ama

[thepassenger99]

Hi I'm a professional dominatrix and someone suggested on another thread that I should make a ama as it was interesting! Feel free to ask anything.

How do you ensure you are safe?

So what do you tell people you do? (Obviously you wouldn’t tell the mums at Sunday school what you really do for a living).

£60k eh? I’m definitely in the wrong job!

Oh hang on here’s my Q... do your customers come to you because they can’t/won’t scratch their itch with their partners?

So you say no sex... but then do you have to watch them wank? And how can you bear that if you don’t get any sexual pleasure out of the whole thing yourself? Isn’t it just a bit yuck?

I’m more amazed she doesn’t laugh. Watching someone ‘doing that’ does have some amusement factor (so I’ve been told).

Do you harm them in any way? Providing that's what they like, of course.

Did you mean 60k or 6k?

I admire your bravery at posting A friend was a ProDom in Florida and I sat in on a couple of session (to ramp up the humiliation factor for the clients) - I was amazed at the level of pain some men can take.

Did you get paid? Or join in ‘poke him in the eye! Harder with the paddle! Ever thought of electrodes on the testicles?

What would you do if one of them has a heart attack or something due to you inflicting pain on them? Could be embarrassing when the ambulance shows up...

Also what’s the weirdest thing you’ve done/been asked to do?

I visited a dom once (as a client). The set-up was ingenious. A unit (run by two Mums) on a small business park in The Wirral. The sign above the door said 'Theatrical supplies', inside it was fitted out dungeon.. No-one had a clue.

Oh god so sorry I did mean 6k not 60k! Lol

I do harm but never draw blood and all subs have a safe word and must sign a waiver basically saying that's what they've asked me to do.

@ShesGotBetteDavisEyes I do actually ask all subs to disclose any relevant medical history etc if that happens then I am trained in cpr and if a sub looks like it's getting abit much I cool it down make sure there are lots of breaks and that they eat and drink plenty

@Lordfrontpaw I do laugh sometimes and some subs love it because it adds to the humiliation

A unit (run by two Mums) on a small business park in The Wirral

That sounds glamorous!

@Lordfrontpaw for your other question I get lots of clients and a lot have felt like they were too scared of telling partners for fear it would freak them out and they would lose them...

Is it like Billions?

@Cozytoesandtoast00 for my online stuff I make sure I use VPN's etc and then for meeting clients I make sure I have 5 people a call away 3 people on site to make sure nothing happens to me and lots of CCTV at all times. I have had threats but they were swiftly reported to the authorities and blocked

@Sharkyfan I don't have to watch them do anything. I could have them stand and stare in a corner for the full hour doing nothing if I fancied not that it'd be much fun the point is in that situation I'm in control and they have to listen

@Bathbedandbeyond they can be totally cool and super into it but you also get some switches who are sub at that time who like to top from the bottom of you know what I mean? But after a while you know how to sort that out quickly and effectively

I mentioned being interested in doing this on a thread recently. Despite me saying that most proDommes don't have any sexual contact with clients, a lady who was an ex prostitute insisted that being a Domme is still prostitution. Despite the lack of sex. I was baffled, what's your view?

that's nice, dear

Do you do bodily functions on them?
Do you do the actual hurting things to penises?
Do you whip with stinging nettles?
Do you make them bleed?
Do high heels pierce skin when someone is walked on?
Do clients scream?

@SirChing it's not prostitution you get different things for paying money in both.

Prostitution is sex and then the exchange of money.

What I do is absolutely sexual in nature and my clients of course get off on it but I am merely playing a role in their fantasy they touch themselves that's not my job and I'm not being paid to do that I being paid to play the role and fufuil their fetish's.

And also it's an illusion. You're not in control. Assuming you're female, if one of them had a change of heart and decided to give you a taste of your own medicine you'd be helpless. Unless you have some burly security somewhere?