Kenwood Ladies Pond Authoritarians

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The handmaidens at The Ladies Pond just can’t help themselves. A woman wears a swimming costume which expresses an opinion which contravenes their ludicrous trans ideology and they actually want to know if she can be prevented from wearing it. They think they’re the good guys but they are authoritarians enforcing a men’s sexual rights movement.
No dearies, you can’t stop this woman from wearing her cool swimming costume just because you don’t like it.

'Gender critical' views have been Grainger tested and found worth of respect in a democratic society.

'Genderist' views have not.

Yeah, I was just thinking the same.

One is a statement of biological fact.
The other is a threat of violence - funny how that was immediately reached for as an equivalent, without a pause for consideration.

Hmmm.

of course it is - anything public will welcome many protected characteristics - men / women / disabled / different races / different faiths / etc.

you can also combine two characteristics if relevant - e.g. disabled women.

however you can't legally label something as only for one and then allow in those which stops it being for the first.

So, you can't have something for those who are disabled only and let in those who are not disabled - similarly you can not have something for women only and let in men.

If you want women and men then it must be labelled as for both and you can't exclude any who are women or men - i.e. straight men as well as 'trans women' would be allowed... and it would no longer be for just women...

of course, all of this is perfectly well known by those in charge at the ponds, and of course those posting on here, where it has been analysed to death many times... however, there are those who still think that somehow they can confuse the discussion by pretending that this is somehow a gotcha which allows men into women's spaces...

if a space is women only - letting in 'trans women' means letting in men

• it is no longer a women's only space - it is now mixed sex
• you can't then stop all men from joining in - because you are allowing it to be mixed sex - so even non-trans men will be allowed in.

the ponds have a pond for men / a pond for mixed sex (which includes men) and a pond for women (which does not include men) - any men in that pond are there illegally.

And it is only men. No women with gender identities are going to be harassing, dominating and driving men out of the men's single sex provision, a) because the men won't have it, and won't be expected to, b) they wouldn't dare, and c) however women might personally identify they don't behave like this to other people.

This I disagree with. I suspect a lot of transmen regularly use mens single sex spaces and do so without issue because a) men don't feel threatened by women in their spaces and b)transmen tend to pass better than transwomen.

the Kenwood Ladies Pond debacle is the perfect example of trans identifeid men wanting into womens spaces, changing rooms & private spaces, irregardless of the cost to women.

there is a MIXED SEX pond for everyone, there is a MENS pond that would welcome trans identified men, but no they INSIST on accessing the space that is for women too.

They want it all and it's male entitlement gone mad.

but this wasn’t a trans convention was it? It was a female only space that has been invaded by entitled men. I love the fact you equate what that woman was wearing to a death threat. And yes, I did deliberately write that to see your response.

TBF to TPA on MN I would not assume a child that is sometimes a niece and sometimes a daughter is fictional. It's pretty common to fudge exact details of ages, relationships, locations etc to reduce likelihood of being identified.

Men I speak to on the subject are horrified at the thought.

Men are entitled to privacy, and dignity, too.

Absolutely.

a) men want their own spaces (why else are men's clubs so popular?!)
b) men want to pee or change amongst other men, just as much as women want to be among only women
c) while the risk is almost entirely uni-directional male->female, so there is little risk of attack by a woman on a man in men's spaces; that very fact can also mean that men are vulnerable to accusation and may well not be believed. Therefore there is no desire by men to have women in their spaces in case of allegations.

And it works both ways - decent men who would never dream of imposing themselves into women's spaces have no desire for women to make the male spaces mixed sex either - it would give that same awkwardness...

I'm not justifying it, I'm just saying that there are transmen also defying the FWS ruling by using men's spaces. It's not just transwomen who are flouting it.

And yes they shouldn't as both sexes are entitled to single sex spaces.

Wholly agree @akkakk
Decent men won’t impose themselves upon women’s spaces in this way, and it’s sometimes a bind. It has been absolutely impossible to recruit decent gender critical men to pretend to be women for the purposes of a rather excellent protest (I.e. come and swim at the Ladies Pond and demonstrate to the well meaning north London ladies that letting the lads in is a shit show) because the decent men won’t do it. Only the despicable perverts will impose themselves on women in this way.

I would have thought that the behaviour of the men who do consider it appropriate to thrust themselves into women's spaces would have been enough to convince most people that they should not be there...

It is sometimes difficult to remember on here where rightly there is a lot of discussion about the men whose behaviour is an embarrassment to men generally... that a large chunk of men are very decent and would be horrified to do anything to upset women, and wouldn't want to be in a women's only area...

we just have to keep pushing back wherever we can, whoever we are back to the common sense of man = man and woman = woman - and then the vast majority of these issues go away.

Well done to the woman who wore it. Very brave.

Yes.

I didn't say women with trans identities weren't going into men's single sex spaces. My question was: are their incidents of women with gender identities harassing, dominating and driving men out of their single sex provision?

No.

The issue IS only men in women's spaces.

I'm sure though that men don't like or enjoy having women in their spaces, and I know gay friends have been irritated by women wanting to be seen as gay men, but to put it very bluntly, those women are not sexually threatening or violent.