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Kenwood Ladies Pond Authoritarians

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KenwoodMagicWand · 19/09/2026 23:41

The handmaidens at The Ladies Pond just can’t help themselves. A woman wears a swimming costume which expresses an opinion which contravenes their ludicrous trans ideology and they actually want to know if she can be prevented from wearing it. They think they’re the good guys but they are authoritarians enforcing a men’s sexual rights movement.
No dearies, you can’t stop this woman from wearing her cool swimming costume just because you don’t like it.

Kenwood Ladies Pond Authoritarians
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KenwoodMagicWand · 19/09/2026 23:45

I think the screenshot has been flagged as sensitive but this is from the KLPA Facebook group which bans TERFs.

person 1: Today, whilst enjoying an early morning swim I felt so uncomfortable to see a woman wearing a top with a massive anti-trans slogan as she made her way into the pond. Personally I love the fact that the pond is trans inclusive and this hostile message left me even as a cis woman feeling tremendously uneasy. I hope any trans woman reading this realises so many of us welcome the inclusive, joyful atmosphere of the ladies pond.

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Wearing aggro tops to the pond is so not cool. It's a place of tranquility. What an unnecessarily nasty thing to do. In the words of President Obama: Be cool, be kind

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Namechangetheyarewatching · 19/09/2026 23:52

What on earth did it say?

KenwoodMagicWand · 19/09/2026 23:52

Transwomen are men

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RogueFemale · 20/09/2026 00:19

KenwoodMagicWand · 19/09/2026 23:52

Transwomen are men

Well, yes they are.

Justme56 · 20/09/2026 00:24

It doesn’t surprise me she used the Obama quote ‘be cool be kind’. Didn’t he introduce guidance that said a student’s gender identity should be treated as their sex under Title IX - allowing any male student entrance to the toilets and changing rooms of girls.

GrumpyPanda · 20/09/2026 01:35

So, summarizing.
Wearing an "aggro top" = not cool.
Promenading male appendages out in the open in a women's space = A-Okay.

Make it make sense.

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 20/09/2026 02:45

I'm still laughing several minutes after glancing the word "authoritarians".

Do you genuinely believe this is important?! It's like being back at school. Wow.

akkakk · 20/09/2026 03:15

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 20/09/2026 02:45

I'm still laughing several minutes after glancing the word "authoritarians".

Do you genuinely believe this is important?! It's like being back at school. Wow.

It is fascinating when someone who thinks a thread not important takes the time to post on it…

I would say that a space like the ladies pond which is women only yet has men attending against the recent SC judgement and of course against the law confirmed by that judgement…

is very important and interesting…

IrnBruAndDietCoke · 20/09/2026 04:40

Are the handmaidens serious, do you think? Sometimes I get the distinct feeling they just say this right-on nonsense to get likes/validation from comments.

Rollingpinofdoom · 20/09/2026 05:12

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 20/09/2026 02:45

I'm still laughing several minutes after glancing the word "authoritarians".

Do you genuinely believe this is important?! It's like being back at school. Wow.

I know. Imagine getting so worked up over a top someone is wearing abd skiing if you should report it. Just like being in year 9 isn’t it?

KenwoodMagicWand · 20/09/2026 07:52

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KenwoodMagicWand · 20/09/2026 07:53

This is the offending item.

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ArabellaScott · 20/09/2026 08:01

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 20/09/2026 02:45

I'm still laughing several minutes after glancing the word "authoritarians".

Do you genuinely believe this is important?! It's like being back at school. Wow.

Attempt to mock and belittle. Another ad hom attack

KenwoodMagicWand · 20/09/2026 08:03

IrnBruAndDietCoke · 20/09/2026 04:40

Are the handmaidens serious, do you think? Sometimes I get the distinct feeling they just say this right-on nonsense to get likes/validation from comments.

I think they really are, I mean the actual handmaidens are ideologues and they are both true believers and incessant virtue signallers, but there are many nice women who just can’t bear to investigate this issue because it seems a bit mean.

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Soontobe60 · 20/09/2026 08:07

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 20/09/2026 02:45

I'm still laughing several minutes after glancing the word "authoritarians".

Do you genuinely believe this is important?! It's like being back at school. Wow.

Back when I was at school we knew that men with fetishes were just that - not women. Seems like some people would do well to go back to school to learn some basic biology.

Taztoy · 20/09/2026 08:09

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 20/09/2026 02:45

I'm still laughing several minutes after glancing the word "authoritarians".

Do you genuinely believe this is important?! It's like being back at school. Wow.

Yes, it matters. It’s really important that single sex provision is single sex and that words keep their meanings so that we can keep that single sex provision where it is lawfully allowed.

I need a single sex counselling space. I need a single sex hospital ward. Indeed single sex toilets.

Why do my needs matter less than those of a trans person? There is no hierarchy of protected rights in the Equality Act, so why are my rights less important than those of a trans person?

Chersfrozenface · 20/09/2026 08:09

Just so everyone knows what's what, there needs to be a sign.

Kenwood Ladies Pond:
Only men and doormats allowed

DwarfPalmetto · 20/09/2026 08:28

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 20/09/2026 02:45

I'm still laughing several minutes after glancing the word "authoritarians".

Do you genuinely believe this is important?! It's like being back at school. Wow.

Posting on MN = this is important 😂😂😂

DwarfPalmetto · 20/09/2026 08:31

I once saw someone at the pond wearing a Woman Adult Human Female t-shirt. Nobody reported her to the lifeguards.

Now I wonder if she was discussed on the Facebook group.

BeKhakiReader · 20/09/2026 08:32

What a fabulous swimsuit. Bet the woman who wore it is great!

I was 9 before a woman could get a mortgage on her own.

These younger, bekind women don’t know how hard fought and well won the women’s rights they’re so happy to throw away were.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 20/09/2026 08:32

TransParentlyAnnoyed · 20/09/2026 02:45

I'm still laughing several minutes after glancing the word "authoritarians".

Do you genuinely believe this is important?! It's like being back at school. Wow.

Congrats, you've reached the level of contradiction previously displayed by onepostwonder and the like.

Recently you posted that women should have full autonomy over their own bodies. Well, that includes what they choose to clothe them in, no?

Policing what women wear and 'telling teacher' if you don't like it is authoritarian

Helleofabore · 20/09/2026 08:32

What a time we live in.

That is a statement of fact that has been appliquéd to swimmers.

That some people consider it an opinion is their own philosophical belief. That statement of material reality has been deemed to be entirely subjective based on that belief of a philosophical theory that has no basis in material reality. It is entirely conceptual and defies material reality.

Those holding that philosophical belief also have attached a value judgement to that belief and therefore those three words, which as a statement convey no judgement, have been given such incredible emotional judgemental power that it is considered hate speech by some people.

Those who hold that belief (one that defies material reality), wish to ban that statement of fact because somehow society in the UK and other democracies, that not supposed to be authoritarian about beliefs, has come to the point that philosophical belief should given priority over statements of fact.

There really is a warping of concepts at play here. Words have been robbed of meaning by being attributed meanings that are the opposite to the established and intended meaning.

Some people believe this is progress but this change by a small group of society has been given great power. The words are not just those biological terms. But also ‘kind’ and ‘hate’ in the exchange the OP has posted. There are numerous others which will no doubt be used by posters who will agree with the opinions of those seeking to ban statements such as this.

It is the opposite of ‘kind’ to have changed the meaning of words in this way and to then enforce compliance to a group’s philosophical belief.

Helleofabore · 20/09/2026 08:34

DwarfPalmetto · 20/09/2026 08:31

I once saw someone at the pond wearing a Woman Adult Human Female t-shirt. Nobody reported her to the lifeguards.

Now I wonder if she was discussed on the Facebook group.

No doubt she would have been the topic of discussion.

DensityOfAWatermelon · 20/09/2026 09:04

Factual words on a ladies swimming costume = bad
Actual penis in the ladies swimming pond = good

Nice to know.

Imdunfer · 20/09/2026 09:20

What angers me most about these women is that they don't give a shit that there are Moslem and Jewish women and survivors of rape and others who cannot swim at Hampstead Heath because there can be men with obvious male genitalia in tight swimming costumes there.

Instead of telling men to swim in the mixed sex pool, they tell other women that they don't care that they are prevented from swimming at all.

Be kind my arse!

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