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Reflections on trans presence at a Dykes Who Hike event

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13RidgmontRoad · 13/09/2026 08:15

For those who don't know DWH, it's an informal mainly Instagram-promoted event and the organisers, two women in their 20s, arrange (relatively accessible) hikes in locations mainly in SE England. Cost to join is £2 a ticket. Yesterday was the first one I've been on, which was 17 miles (Newhaven to Brighton). Around 130 people attended.

There were 5-6 TW on the hike that I could see; two older chaps, one in a dress and heavy makeup, the other looking very much just like a bloke in men's clothing. Four younger ones who looked like the wind might blow them away.

Older blokey one was very annoying - lots of mansplaining on the Whatsapp group, selfies and borderline inappropriate jokes, generally ignored.

Two of the younger ones peeled off about halfway through as they couldn't cope with the rest of the distance. Remaining younger ones were a couple and kept themselves to themselves. They were rather timid and socially awkward, which was a bit of a contrast to 130 hale and hearty lesbians in hiking boots.

I felt like most of the women there just gave the lot of them a wide berth - bit of polite chat then forward or back to join other women.

The (lovely) organisers are quite young and there's absolutely no way either of them would come out and bar TW. I imagine they'd be terrified to take a view. So it seemed very much like weary acceptance. It was rather interesting to observe.

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ArabellaScott · 14/09/2026 15:18

napody · 14/09/2026 15:12

Bit threatening, no?

Positively menacing! 😁

Lins77 · 14/09/2026 15:24

@Lexibletheflexible Lesbians on the whole arent into excluding trans women from their spaces.

I must have missed the meeting where you were elected lesbian spokesperson.

AimsAndObjectives · 14/09/2026 15:29

Lins77 · 14/09/2026 15:24

@Lexibletheflexible Lesbians on the whole arent into excluding trans women from their spaces.

I must have missed the meeting where you were elected lesbian spokesperson.

Quite.

Lexibletheflexible · 14/09/2026 15:29

13RidgmontRoad · 14/09/2026 13:37

Ahem. Once again, the only butch lesbian I saw was in the mirror.

And once again with feeling - it’s not about passing so well that you get a certificate from the Council of Lesbians. If that older bloke who attended identified as a lesbian then I’m John F Kennedy.

The behaviour of most of the women in that space demonstrated that TW were at best tolerated at arms’ length, and I thought that was interesting.

So out of 130 lesbians, you were the only butch lesbian and there were no TM?

Lexibletheflexible · 14/09/2026 15:30

Lins77 · 14/09/2026 15:24

@Lexibletheflexible Lesbians on the whole arent into excluding trans women from their spaces.

I must have missed the meeting where you were elected lesbian spokesperson.

Just going by stats. Straight women are the ones least likely to see TWAW.

Lexibletheflexible · 14/09/2026 15:31

BleuestBelle · 14/09/2026 15:16

Dykes.... So it's a gay women's group for biological women who like to walk? Why are men there, with or without make up, frocks, however they supposedly identify?

Do your bestest reading of the group's instagram page.

Lexibletheflexible · 14/09/2026 15:32

napody · 14/09/2026 15:12

Bit threatening, no?

No. Generally, people are encouraged to keep their discriminatory views to themselves..especially at someone else's party.

BleuestBelle · 14/09/2026 15:32

I don't use Instagram

ArabellaScott · 14/09/2026 15:34

Lexibletheflexible · 14/09/2026 15:32

No. Generally, people are encouraged to keep their discriminatory views to themselves..especially at someone else's party.

You're saying that lesbians excluding males is discriminatory.

That's quite offensive.

nutmeg7 · 14/09/2026 15:36

WiggyPig · 14/09/2026 13:52

I don't think it's a particularly legally grey area - I don't think that this group is governed by the Equality Act at all. They're not AFAICS providing a service, they're not a membership group, and they're definitely not an employer or state body etc.

I suppose it's just about arguable that for the £2 entry fee means that the organisers provide a service (guiding the hike) but IF they wanted to make their hike women only - which they clearly do not - then they would have to get past the threshold of justifying it under paragraph 27 of Schedule 3 to the Equality Act. That means justifying that making it women only is necessary and proportionate in pursuit of one of the identified legitimate aims.

That's a very easy argument to make for a rape crisis centre or a changing room but I have huge doubts that it applies to a hiking group, because the sub-para they would need to meet is para 27(4) which is that the service would be less effective if provided to both sexes. Since the other women-only group is demonstrably less popular, that sounds like an argument doomed to fail.

If the group were offering hiking as a form of trauma-informed support for women who had been victims of domestic abuse then that might justify a single-sex service. But for an "informal Instagram event" it seems highly unlikely that it's a service at all, and even more unlikely that they could justify a single sex group, other than under para 30 which is providing services to a group who share a PC. They're not providing it to women but they are, it seems, providing a service to people who have the protected belief of genderism (if they are providing a service at all which as I say I think is a moot point).

I would regard myself as GC but I can't see an issue with this. There are two women leading a group which is flourishing and getting people out in the countryside and making friends? What monsters. If I could get past the phrase "WLW girlies" which sounds like something off a 90s lads mag I'd be tempted to get out there and join them.

It sounds more like an association to me, not a service. Perfectly legal to set up an association for one or more protected characteristics eg female homosexuals.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 14/09/2026 15:36

Lexibletheflexible · 14/09/2026 15:32

No. Generally, people are encouraged to keep their discriminatory views to themselves..especially at someone else's party.

Unless they are sexist views like TWAW, in which case fill yer boots! Sound off in social settings, on social media, in parliament, in hospitals, at work, anywhere you feel like it!

And if female people feel degraded or belittled being reduced from the female half of society in all our diversity to a type of self defined personality .... fuck 'em, who cares!

AimsAndObjectives · 14/09/2026 15:46

Lexibletheflexible · 14/09/2026 15:30

Just going by stats. Straight women are the ones least likely to see TWAW.

That isn't the same as what you said, which was Lesbians on the whole arent into excluding trans women from their spaces.
Either way, do you have some polling data?

Cascadia · 14/09/2026 16:04

Lots of misunderstanding of the law on this thread. It absolutely is legal to set up a group for people from multiple protected characteristics (so you can have a combo of sex, gender reassignment and sexuality). You are free to call the group whatever you want as long as the membership criteria is clear elsewhere.

There was a really informative thread on here about it and how it related to girl guides policies. Take a look at this guidance: https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/sites/default/files/2026/EHRC_Code_of_practice_for_services_public_functions_and_associations.pdf

Specifically 12.75 which says:

An association may therefore restrict membership to people who: (a) share one protected characteristic (for example women) (b) share more than one protected characteristic (for example Muslim women) (c) have any of more than one protected characteristic (for example lesbian, gay, bisexual or trans people).

And an example of naming here

12.67 The constitution of an association called the Black Jazz Players Club states that all members must have national origins in Africa or the Caribbean. Despite the use of ‘Black’ in its name, because the restrictions on membership of the association are based on national origins and not colour, these restrictions would not be unlawful.

https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/sites/default/files/2026/EHRC_Code_of_practice_for_services_public_functions_and_associations.pdf

Lexibletheflexible · 14/09/2026 16:10

ArabellaScott · 14/09/2026 15:34

You're saying that lesbians excluding males is discriminatory.

That's quite offensive.

Im saying that going to someone else's event where they want TW present to argue that you don't is odd and antagonistic

Lexibletheflexible · 14/09/2026 16:11

AimsAndObjectives · 14/09/2026 15:46

That isn't the same as what you said, which was Lesbians on the whole arent into excluding trans women from their spaces.
Either way, do you have some polling data?

I tell you what we can use to poll... the GC hiking group. How many people were at their last hike vs the inclusive hike?

Lins77 · 14/09/2026 16:12

Lexibletheflexible · 14/09/2026 16:11

I tell you what we can use to poll... the GC hiking group. How many people were at their last hike vs the inclusive hike?

You referred to stats, can you link to them?

AimsAndObjectives · 14/09/2026 16:23

Lexibletheflexible · 14/09/2026 16:11

I tell you what we can use to poll... the GC hiking group. How many people were at their last hike vs the inclusive hike?

Weak answer. Let's see some stats. You are very confident in your assertions. You must have data to back them up, no?

Lexibletheflexible · 14/09/2026 16:23

Lins77 · 14/09/2026 16:12

You referred to stats, can you link to them?

https://justlikeus.org/trans-day-of-visibility-ally-lesbian/

"Of all LGBT+ identities, other than trans and non-binary people themselves, lesbian young adults were most likely to say they know a trans person (92%), and most likely to say they are “supportive” or “very supportive” of trans people (96%)."

https://www.thepinknews.com/2023/11/17/opinion-lesbians-stand-with-trans-people/

Here another(?) survey makes it clear that they surveyed biological women who are homosexual.

Women generally are the biggest advocates of trans women and fight hard to have them included. They will boycott places that exclude them. It's thanks to women that trans rights have progressed so far as they've been in such great support of their visibility and presence. Women just like you and me.

Trans Day of Visibility: Most anti-trans adults don’t know anyone trans

The majority (74%) of young adults who say they are not supportive of trans people don’t know a trans person in real life, according to new research by Just Like Us, the LGBT+ young people’s charity. In a survey of 3,695 adults aged 18 to 25, 74% of...

https://justlikeus.org/trans-day-of-visibility-ally-lesbian

Lexibletheflexible · 14/09/2026 16:24

Waiting for "buh dasss not weel wesearches"

WiggyPig · 14/09/2026 16:31

nutmeg7 · 14/09/2026 15:36

It sounds more like an association to me, not a service. Perfectly legal to set up an association for one or more protected characteristics eg female homosexuals.

It's not an association - it has no membership requirement and no rules governing admission so it doesn't meet the requirements of s.107(2).

WiggyPig · 14/09/2026 16:33

Cascadia · 14/09/2026 16:04

Lots of misunderstanding of the law on this thread. It absolutely is legal to set up a group for people from multiple protected characteristics (so you can have a combo of sex, gender reassignment and sexuality). You are free to call the group whatever you want as long as the membership criteria is clear elsewhere.

There was a really informative thread on here about it and how it related to girl guides policies. Take a look at this guidance: https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/sites/default/files/2026/EHRC_Code_of_practice_for_services_public_functions_and_associations.pdf

Specifically 12.75 which says:

An association may therefore restrict membership to people who: (a) share one protected characteristic (for example women) (b) share more than one protected characteristic (for example Muslim women) (c) have any of more than one protected characteristic (for example lesbian, gay, bisexual or trans people).

And an example of naming here

12.67 The constitution of an association called the Black Jazz Players Club states that all members must have national origins in Africa or the Caribbean. Despite the use of ‘Black’ in its name, because the restrictions on membership of the association are based on national origins and not colour, these restrictions would not be unlawful.

This would be relevant if the hiking group were an association for the purposes of the Equality Act, which it is not.

AimsAndObjectives · 14/09/2026 16:33

Cascadia · 14/09/2026 16:04

Lots of misunderstanding of the law on this thread. It absolutely is legal to set up a group for people from multiple protected characteristics (so you can have a combo of sex, gender reassignment and sexuality). You are free to call the group whatever you want as long as the membership criteria is clear elsewhere.

There was a really informative thread on here about it and how it related to girl guides policies. Take a look at this guidance: https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/sites/default/files/2026/EHRC_Code_of_practice_for_services_public_functions_and_associations.pdf

Specifically 12.75 which says:

An association may therefore restrict membership to people who: (a) share one protected characteristic (for example women) (b) share more than one protected characteristic (for example Muslim women) (c) have any of more than one protected characteristic (for example lesbian, gay, bisexual or trans people).

And an example of naming here

12.67 The constitution of an association called the Black Jazz Players Club states that all members must have national origins in Africa or the Caribbean. Despite the use of ‘Black’ in its name, because the restrictions on membership of the association are based on national origins and not colour, these restrictions would not be unlawful.

There have been some interesting conversations among equality lawyers around this, in particular associations where the members have one of two or more PCs. Iirc, one school of thought is that human rights law would favour wide leeway being given to associations. However, another school of thought is concerned that it would, in theory, be possible to define a group in such a way that a particular ethnicity or religion is excluded.

murasaki · 14/09/2026 16:35

Lexibletheflexible · 14/09/2026 16:24

Waiting for "buh dasss not weel wesearches"

I'd suggest a nice sit down and a cup of tea.

AimsAndObjectives · 14/09/2026 16:35

Lexibletheflexible · 14/09/2026 16:24

Waiting for "buh dasss not weel wesearches"

Why post it if it's not real research?

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