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Polycule falls apart

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RoyalCorgi · 31/07/2026 08:54

I expect people remember that Heather Herbert (charged in relation to social media comments he made after Ann Widdecombe's death) is in a polycule with Sophie Molly (aka Sparkles, aka Euan Weddell) and someone called Poppybear.

Molly, I believe, is a witness for Jolyon Maugham in Sarah Phillimore's libel case against Maugham.

Poppybear has been posting some very indiscreet posts on BlueSky about both Molly and Herbert, and it looks, tragically, as if the polycule has fallen apart.

According to Poppybear, Herbert's comments about Widdecombe "painted a bullseye on all of us", and led to the police coming in and "invading" all their devices (whatever that means).

Also according to Poppybear, living with Sophie Molly is "like being permanently slapped around the face by pathological laziness unless it's something that grooms her ego."

Oh dear.

https://x.com/DogLoverOfPI/status/2082944747862188490

In a separate development, apparently Herbert has had his toxic kidney removed by the NHS so the money donated to the fundraiser is going to be used for something else:

https://x.com/WillyWoofter/status/2082494111555190875

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AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 29/08/2026 15:29

Lalgarh · 29/08/2026 15:11

It looks like referral for surgery is multiple times the rates for other clinics

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c23xvv42rp1o

"significantly higher rates of referral for gender affirming surgery... compared with English gender services"

Hang on: does this suggest that more Welsh people are trans than people in the rest of the country?

If it does, why might that be?

Is that overall, or per capita population (there's quite a difference! England, 56.5 million; Wales, 3.2 million; if it is over all, it's terrifying)? Or is it just that there are several clinics in England and only one in Wales?

Is it just that Welsh medics are more likely to pass the buck upwards if someone wants to be treated as the sex they aren't?

Lalgarh · 29/08/2026 16:47

I'm not the only transgender in the village

little britain GIF
Igmum · 29/08/2026 18:37

I suspect the WGS figures are a combination of trans tourism and that it’s probably run by loons who refer everyone for surgery on the first visit. It was supposed to be independently reviewed in 2024 and has been a service of concern for some time but trans exceptionalism means nothing has been done about this. Thank heavens for Nick Wallis who has been doing what investigative journalists should do.

maximc · 30/08/2026 09:42

Igmum · 29/08/2026 18:37

I suspect the WGS figures are a combination of trans tourism and that it’s probably run by loons who refer everyone for surgery on the first visit. It was supposed to be independently reviewed in 2024 and has been a service of concern for some time but trans exceptionalism means nothing has been done about this. Thank heavens for Nick Wallis who has been doing what investigative journalists should do.

I watched some, 'what to expect from your first visit' videos from Scottish gender services, which are very affirming, & all made clear that hormones aren't prescribed on the first visit, so I was a bit shocked to see that in Wales they're handed out automatically.

KTheGrey · 30/08/2026 10:47

Igmum · 29/08/2026 18:37

I suspect the WGS figures are a combination of trans tourism and that it’s probably run by loons who refer everyone for surgery on the first visit. It was supposed to be independently reviewed in 2024 and has been a service of concern for some time but trans exceptionalism means nothing has been done about this. Thank heavens for Nick Wallis who has been doing what investigative journalists should do.

What is trans tourism? Is it a thing now?

Igmum · 30/08/2026 13:14

Going out of area for a referral if it’s easier. We know this was happening in Brighton with the (now disgraced) enthusiastic trans man doctor. I would imagine the internet has loads of useful information about how quickly you can get an appointment and how readily a particular doctor prescribes.

Ed for typos (introduced by autocorrect 😑)

KTheGrey · 30/08/2026 15:20

Igmum · 30/08/2026 13:14

Going out of area for a referral if it’s easier. We know this was happening in Brighton with the (now disgraced) enthusiastic trans man doctor. I would imagine the internet has loads of useful information about how quickly you can get an appointment and how readily a particular doctor prescribes.

Ed for typos (introduced by autocorrect 😑)

Stack me what an abuse of a commonly funded health care system it is.

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 30/08/2026 15:37

If it's within an NHS area then it's fine; going out-of-area isn't. For instance, if I live in Oxfordshire I can ask to be referred to any hospital or specialist within Oxfordshire as far as I know (and possibly some units in adjacent counties; not sure about that). What would be dodgy would be to ask for a referral to Aberdeen or Abergale, I expect.

murasaki · 30/08/2026 15:59

And there was me thinking trans tourism was staying at home in Doncaster and using AI to insert yourself into pics of the French Riviera.

ThisFunSheep · 30/08/2026 16:15

I’m not a fan of headlines suggesting this was simply about a higher rate of referrals. The service was already a Service of Concern and under heightened investigation, so there was clearly a wider context.

The report says the issues identified “include” higher referral rates and concerns about referral appropriateness. “Include” matters — it suggests these were not necessarily the only concerns, particularly while the investigation is ongoing edit - there may be concerning information emerging as part of the process or cannot easily be made public like whistleblowers.

And this isn’t the minute of the meeting where surgeries were paused. So it’s misleading to suggest someone simply saw a high referral rate and decided to cancel all surgery. The published evidence points to a much wider set of concerns and an ongoing assurance process.

https://jcc.nhs.wales/the-committee/quality-safety-and-outcomes-sub-committee/quality-safety-and-outcomes-meeting-papers/august-2026/3-4-draft-qsoc-august-26-director-of-mhldvg-report-pdf/?ts=1787087399236

Monstershark · 03/09/2026 00:53

Lalgarh · 02/09/2026 23:41

He's fired up the Bontempi

https://bsky.app/profile/sophiemolly.co.uk/post/3muk2gwbp6k2t

And is on "heavy duty corticosteroids" because a viral infection that has caused a flare up in asthma???

https://bsky.app/profile/sophiemolly.co.uk/post/3mukspndu2c27

I managed two seconds of that. It hasn't helped my insomnia , it's the anti lullaby

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 03/09/2026 11:42

Lalgarh · 02/09/2026 23:41

He's fired up the Bontempi

https://bsky.app/profile/sophiemolly.co.uk/post/3muk2gwbp6k2t

And is on "heavy duty corticosteroids" because a viral infection that has caused a flare up in asthma???

https://bsky.app/profile/sophiemolly.co.uk/post/3mukspndu2c27

The Bontempi element has an interesting dual function. It soundtracks both the listener's extreme tension that the vocal is about to start again as well as the sense of head-spinning euphoria that occurs when the vocal stops.

Lalgarh · 03/09/2026 12:10

Monstershark · 03/09/2026 00:53

I managed two seconds of that. It hasn't helped my insomnia , it's the anti lullaby

He's singing droning that he'd injured his ankle and it was bad but it's better than being a TERF.

WrongKindOfFeminist · 03/09/2026 12:29

Oh my god 😂

WrongKindOfFeminist · 03/09/2026 12:32

Yesterday my friend said I was a loser.
0:54
54 seconds
[laughter]
0:55
55 seconds
I'd known my friend for many, many years.
1:02
1 minute, 2 seconds
The emotional pain was like a knife through the heart.
1:08
1 minute, 8 seconds
But I'd rather the pain than be a turf.

Oh, mate. The nasal voice, the non sequiturs, the superbly clunky anti-scansion. Don't ever change.

Lalgarh · 03/09/2026 12:52

Poppy Hackett claimed pot noodle was so unbearable that he drove him to self harm (including with knives) and OD so pot noodle is reclaiming the narrative here

KittyWilkinson · 03/09/2026 13:51

It's like the noodle version of Eurotrash - but with added woman hatred. Totally batshit.

Seriestwo · 03/09/2026 18:40

Knife to the heart is what that man who filemd himself eating alone in places in the states would say when some server with English as a secnd language would call him sir.

ElenOfTheWays · 03/09/2026 19:33

Seriestwo · 03/09/2026 18:40

Knife to the heart is what that man who filemd himself eating alone in places in the states would say when some server with English as a secnd language would call him sir.

Lily Tino? He always strikes me as a dangerous bloke. Wasn't he banned from Disneyland for filming in the ladies toilets?

Monstershark · 04/09/2026 10:43

Hoardasurass · 04/09/2026 10:34

Well Sophie seems to have made a new friend in first blackman

https://www.scottishdailyexpress.co.uk/news/politics/snp-mp-kirsty-blackman-plans-37624996

That article is amazing , Sophie and heather are correctly sexed through out.

SwirlyGates · 04/09/2026 11:08

Monstershark · 04/09/2026 10:43

That article is amazing , Sophie and heather are correctly sexed through out.

Almost.

"Molly got in touch with her local MP"

and later

"He has posted images of himself using the female toilets"

KnottyAuty · 04/09/2026 12:32

Tallisker · 27/08/2026 10:17

It’s all so grubby, isn’t it? I don’t have a problem with people living whatever grubby life they choose, but the forcing on the rest of the (unsuspecting) public is where it makes the ideology so very wrong, for me.

I watched that unit of a transwoman Tinkerbell at his employment tribunal with his strappy dresses with bows on the (massive) shoulders, and couldn’t help thinking that the fervent constant pro trans narrative in the civil service really hasn’t done him any favours. His behaviour towards his colleagues should not have been tolerated,never mind championed.

Very interesting podcast on Beyond Gender with Stella O’Malley and Roisin Michaeux which includes some comments about the late male transition. How it starts with gateway trans porn and then progresses through dressing indoors to going out, the coming out at work, then getting boobs etc resulting in huge damage to their family and career usually. At which point many of them get to the “end” of their transition where theres no more “magic of new beginnings” and they realise theyve put a bomb under their life and are no longer functioning members of society - now “just a man with tits”. And the regret stage is all a bit sad. Society has seen a lot of the transition stages but soon we will be seeing a lot more of the regret. Which is going to be way worse than a bad tattoo. I wonder if they’ll run TV Shows in the same vein as Tattoo Fixers? [shudder]

ETA to clarify that Tinkerbell was heading towards the unemployment step because it was too difficult to go into the office… i wanted to flag that this all seems to be a well trodden path that doesn’t go well but isnt fully obvious yet