@BonfireLady
Thank you so much 😍! But to be honest, being here is really not that hard at all. I mean, dealing with the facts of a situation is a whole lot easier for me than keeping the faith in something that doesn't make sense to me. And sure, there are things that are complicated to deal with when you're GC and trans, but there were also complicated stuff to manage previously, so basically I've exchanged one set of problems for another 😛And if I can help as well as learn around here, then so much the better!
But yeah, the kids... That's just not right 😡Like, how many people would agree that the NHS should give nose jobs to 11yo kids, under the pretense that if they don't get it officially, they'll get them on the black market anyway? What about boob jobs (up or down) to 14yo under the pretense that they know what they want anyway, and why would we force them to suffer for years with a boob size that distresses them so much? I mean, yes, there are kids who will indeed go on to have this nose or boob job as soon as they can, but nobody argues that because those kids exist, all the other ones who argue for 6 months that, no, really, they need that surgery or they'll die!!! should be given it too.
People have no problem going, "lol no, you're gonna change your mind, and if you don't, you can decide for yourself when you're old enough" for those purely cosmetic surgeries, but when it comes to so-called trans kids, where the dangers are so much higher, all caution and reason go to the wind. Why??