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"Darlington Nurses" vs County Durham and Darlington NHS Trust Tribunal Thread 4

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ThreeWordHarpy · 29/10/2025 16:39

Thread 1, 7-Oct to 23-Oct; pre-hearing discussion, KD (day 1 of evidence) and BH (day 2).
Thread 2, 23-Oct to 28-Oct; BH (day 2), CH, JP, MG (day 3&4), TH, SS, ST, LL (day 4), JS, AT (day 5)
Thread 3, 28-Oct to 29-Oct, AT (day 5&6), TA (day 6)

Five nurses working at Darlington Memorial Hospital have filed a legal case suing their employer, an NHS trust, for sexual harassment and sex discrimination. The nurses object to sharing the women’s changing facilities with a male colleague, Rose, who identifies as female. The hearing started on October 20th, with evidence starting on October 22nd and is scheduled to last 3 weeks. To view the hearing online requests for access had to be made by October 17th. The hearing is being live tweeted by Tribunal Tweets who have background to this case on their substack. An alternative to X is to use Nitter: nitter.net/tribunaltweets or nitter.poast.org/tribunaltweets

The Judge made clear at the start of the public hearing on Day 1 that only TT or press have permission to tweet. If online observers see/hear something in the court that isn’t reported by TT, we don’t mention it until the next time there’s a break. This is a very cautious approach to avoid any accusations of “live reporting” on MN. Commentary on the content of TT tweets is fine as soon as they’re posted on X.

Key people:
C/Ns - Claimants, the Darlington nurses
R/T/Trust - Respondent, County Durham and Darlington NHS Foundation Trust
J/EJ – Judge/Employment Judge Seamus Sweeney
NF - Niazi Fetto KC, barrister for claimants
SC - Simon Cheetham, KC, barrister for respondents
RH - Rose Henderson, trans identifying nurse
CG – Clare Gregory, ward manager
SW - Sue Williams, NHS Trust HR
KD – Karen Danson, first claimant to give evidence.
BH – Bethany Hutchison, claimant
AH – Alistair Hutchison, husband of Bethany
CH – Carly Hoy, claimant
JP – Jane Peveller, claimant
MG – Mary Anne (aka Annice) Grundy, claimant
TH – Tracy Hooper, claimant
SS – Siobhan Sinclair, witness for the claimants, retired from Trust
ST – Sharron Trevarrow, witness for the claimants, retired from Trust, former housekeeper and wellbeing officer
LL – Lisa Lockey, claimant
JP – Professor Jo Phoenix, expert witness
JS – Jane Shields, witness for the claimants
AT - Andrew Thacker, witness for the respondents, NHS trust Head of HR
TA – Tracy Atkinson, witness for the respondents, NHS trust HR.

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NebulousSupportPostcard · 31/10/2025 12:21

She is very "Computer says No" in her manner. I don't thinkshe is trying to deceive, I'm not sure it has even dawned on her yet exactly how wrong she has been, or how obtuse she appears.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 31/10/2025 12:22

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 31/10/2025 12:20

Not to mention often have a large bunch of unhinged friends with no conscience, a lot of time on their hands and a capacity for bombarding with emails, calls, tweets, badnaming and threatening, identifying your family and kids, and the police are as captured as everyone else.

And let’s call a spade a spade: that’s what the Trust is (rightly) terrified of.

Lunde · 31/10/2025 12:23

Signalbox · 31/10/2025 12:18

I have to say I do have a smidge of sympathy for this lady. The EA wasn't clear and we had plenty of debates on here about its exact meaning and how it interacted with the GRA and what it meant for single-sex provision. There was also so much misinformation floating around including from Government, EHRC, Stonewall, NHSE etc. and at the time the toxic nature of things meant that anyone who wanted to keep their job would have pandered to a single male trans person over women.

Yet it doesn't appear to have occurred to anyone in HR to get an actual legal opinion on the situation if they were so "confused"

NebulousSupportPostcard · 31/10/2025 12:23

@SternJoyousBeev2 GIVING THE DENSITY OF MINCE A RUN FOR ITS MONEY would be a great EDI dept strapline. 😂

ThreeWordHarpy · 31/10/2025 12:23

I have to go out shortly so have started the next thread, trusting you will fill up this one first. Grin
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5436397-darlington-nurses-vs-county-durham-and-darlington-nhs-trust-tribunal-thread-5

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SternJoyousBeev2 · 31/10/2025 12:24

Signalbox · 31/10/2025 12:18

I have to say I do have a smidge of sympathy for this lady. The EA wasn't clear and we had plenty of debates on here about its exact meaning and how it interacted with the GRA and what it meant for single-sex provision. There was also so much misinformation floating around including from Government, EHRC, Stonewall, NHSE etc. and at the time the toxic nature of things meant that anyone who wanted to keep their job would have pandered to a single male trans person over women.

Any sympathy I might have had is out there window as I believe she is the embodiment of confirmation bias. She only gives weight to parts of ‘guidance’ that suits her and dismisses or just ignores anything that doesn’t suit.

chilling19 · 31/10/2025 12:24

Just catching up but wanted to make the point that the nurses were making a complaint about being sexually harassed by RH. THAT alone warranted an investigation which doesn't appear to have been done because it's trans innit.

CriticalCondition · 31/10/2025 12:24

Honest but stupid. Very stupid. She simply doesn't have the intellectual capacity to understand the guidance, regulations or statutes that she's reading.

Lunde · 31/10/2025 12:24

Are they still on a 10 minute break?

SternJoyousBeev2 · 31/10/2025 12:25

GOOOOOOTCHAAAAAA!!

nauticant · 31/10/2025 12:27

NebulousSupportPostcard · 31/10/2025 12:21

She is very "Computer says No" in her manner. I don't thinkshe is trying to deceive, I'm not sure it has even dawned on her yet exactly how wrong she has been, or how obtuse she appears.

It's actually a reasonably comfortable place to be. It means she can get through this without it being too much of a nightmare and she demonstrates to a row of her NHS superiors sat in front of her that she didn't betray the Trust.

It makes her look like a stupid robot but in her shoes I'd take it.

MarieDeGournay · 31/10/2025 12:36

NF did you bring to attention to anyone?
JB I told Lesley thought she would take forward
.....
NF - ...Mr Moore drew to your attention. Were you told it should be prioritised
JB I don't recall he knew I was working on it

What a shambles! Nobody knows what anybody else is responsible for, or if they are responsible, are they actually doing anything...

Feminaperfecta · 31/10/2025 12:36

MarieDeGournay · 31/10/2025 12:36

NF did you bring to attention to anyone?
JB I told Lesley thought she would take forward
.....
NF - ...Mr Moore drew to your attention. Were you told it should be prioritised
JB I don't recall he knew I was working on it

What a shambles! Nobody knows what anybody else is responsible for, or if they are responsible, are they actually doing anything...

It is a concern...

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 31/10/2025 12:37

Coatsoff42 · 31/10/2025 12:17

Is she perhaps just not lying or covering things up? Im not watching, but from the tweets it sounds like she’s being very open about what happened.

Reminds me (in a different way) of Kirrin Metcalf in Allison Baillie's case. People who are utterly confident that they are right and have done everything right and make the prosecution's case for them.

MarieDeGournay · 31/10/2025 12:37

NF challenging her about not considering permitted reasons for exclusion from Ss space - looking forward to her explanation!

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 31/10/2025 12:37

Feminaperfecta · 31/10/2025 12:36

It is a concern...

It makes you honestly wonder what this lot do all day beyond busywork.

MarieDeGournay · 31/10/2025 12:39

MarieDeGournay · 31/10/2025 12:37

NF challenging her about not considering permitted reasons for exclusion from Ss space - looking forward to her explanation!

JB I did look at guidance last night it's a big document, but it doesn't go into reason to exclude from single sex space.
NF no but it raises it you didn't wrestle with this?
JB I referenced page 69 for them to look at

Silly me - an explanation?🙄

JamieCannister · 31/10/2025 12:41

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 31/10/2025 12:37

Reminds me (in a different way) of Kirrin Metcalf in Allison Baillie's case. People who are utterly confident that they are right and have done everything right and make the prosecution's case for them.

[Tangential] - if anyone wants a laugh over lunch go to the KirrinMedcalf.wordpress website where she offers "practical training and consultancy on anti-oppressive facilitation, safeguarding and community work." Download the first photo from one of her training sessions, open it and zoom in, then ponder what the three women whose faces are visible are thinking based on their facial expressions and body language.

nauticant · 31/10/2025 12:43

This is the best picture in that vein: https://the-lies-they-tell.org/

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 31/10/2025 12:44

Daft mare.

ILikeDungs · 31/10/2025 12:45

Getting tetchy

SqueakyDinosaur · 31/10/2025 12:46

Her "About" page is wryly entertaining too.

MarieDeGournay · 31/10/2025 12:49

NF were you asked to take into account the complaints that had arisen from female employees sharing with bio males
JB don't recall being asked to

thanks for clarifying that, JB, it's what we were all thinking anyway.

JamieCannister · 31/10/2025 12:50

SqueakyDinosaur · 31/10/2025 12:46

Her "About" page is wryly entertaining too.

Did you notice her email has "kaye" in it? I'm not sure if "Kaye" was her woman-name, but it was definitely her enby name!"

Szygy · 31/10/2025 12:53

nauticant · 31/10/2025 12:43

This is the best picture in that vein: https://the-lies-they-tell.org/

Very much off-topic but blimey, that’s a blast from the past - isn’t that the fragrant Lily Madigan being regarded with varying degrees of ‘WTF?’ there? 😂

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