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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

JKR Didn’t Have an Opinion. She Poisoned the Well

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CSIRCP · 28/08/2025 14:32

This post will likely be a little too long for most, but if you can spare the time and have a cuppa handy let's sit down and have a chat, shall we?

Firstly, let’s stop calling this a debate. It’s not. This isn’t two sets of ideas clashing. This is one woman’s fear and confusion being weaponized against an entire community.

What J.K. Rowling has done is not just share an opinion. She’s poisoned the well. And that poison is spreading through politics, education, the media, and even the courts.

At the beginning, it might have looked like a tweet. Then a blog. But what she wrote in that essay was revealing: “If I’d been born thirty years later, I too might have tried to transition. The allure of escaping womanhood would have been huge.”
That’s not neutral. That’s projection. It was a confession, repackaged as concern. She projected her own dysphoria and personal battles onto the entire trans community and used it as the foundation for a movement built on suspicion and fear.

She said she cared about women’s rights. Then aligned herself with those who believe all trans women are predators.
She liked racist and Islamophobic tweets. She repeated antisemitic tropes. She cast activists as violent men in dresses. She accused anyone who challenged her of misogyny while branding herself the face of feminism.
All the while she built up a devoted audience that now includes some of the most extreme anti-trans voices in Britain and beyond.

This “gender critical” movement is not about safety, and it’s certainly not about truth. It’s about control.
Kellie-Jay Keen-Minshull (Posie Parker), one of Rowling’s ideological allies, has welcomed neo-Nazis to her rallies. Actual Nazis. The kind of people Rowling once wrote villains about.
In one case, people connected to this movement were linked to the satanic terror group 764 — a group that has influenced teen suicides and violent attacks in UK schools. Let that sink in. This is who she’s empowering.

She didn’t just turn away when that started. She doubled down. She gave this movement a gloss of legitimacy. She used her fame to funnel people toward disinformation, fear, and cruelty—and dressed it all up as feminism. But it isn’t feminism when it excludes, vilifies, and harms other women. Especially trans women. Especially intersex people. Especially anyone who doesn’t fit into the narrow fantasy of who is acceptable.

Rowling’s language now echoes in government documents. Her phrases like “gender ideology” have been lifted from far right sources, including the Vatican and authoritarian regimes, and mainstreamed into British law. Her influence helped set the stage for the UK Supreme Court to redefine the word “woman” based on sex assigned at birth, stripping rights from trans and intersex people under the Equality Act. That’s what happens when the well is poisoned. People stop thinking. They start reacting.

Meanwhile, her cult chant her slogans as though they are scientific fact. But science says otherwise. Peer-reviewed studies show that trans people’s brain structures do not align with their sex assigned at birth. They show that gender identity forms in the womb, shaped by hormones and biology not ideology. Large-scale DNA studies have found gene variants linked to gender incongruence. And intersex people exist. That is biological fact. Not one of these truths can be erased by Rowling’s fiction.

What makes this so dangerous is how calm it all sounds. Rowling doesn’t scream. She whispers. She calls it “concern.” She says she’s “just asking questions.”
But it’s never neutral to question someone’s right to exist. It’s not a debate when one side is simply trying to live and the other is trying to strip away their legal recognition and healthcare.

This isn’t just a disagreement. This is a slow campaign of erasure, led by someone with a global platform and millions in the bank.

She’s not some deluded soul from MN; she’s a multi-millionaire author whose words shape global policy. She’s not being silenced. She’s being echoed by judges, by pundits, by politicians trying to climb the ladder by stepping on the backs of trans, non-binary, and intersex people.

And let’s not pretend it stops there. Her influence has allowed people to feel safe expressing open homophobia, biphobia, and hatred toward anyone who challenges gender norms. Some of the same people aligned with her have mocked survivors, denied racism, and claimed slavery was “fine” if it was “kind.”
This is not a group grounded in empathy. It’s a movement that thrives on exclusion and resentment. Some of them now openly identify as neo Nazis. That’s where we are.

So next time someone says “she’s just worried” or “she’s not anti-trans” or “can’t we just disagree,” consider these words. Show them what poison looks like. Not just hateful speech but the deliberate seeding of doubt, division, and cruelty, all wrapped in a soft voice and a smug smile. J.K. Rowling didn’t protect anyone. She infected people. And when she’s gone, her legacy won’t be literature it will be the damage she left behind.

You don’t need to cancel her. You just need to see her clearly.
And if you blindly follow Rowling and her ideas then you need to reflect on what you’re really endorsing.

Because ignorance is not an excuse. Not anymore.

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BackToLurk · 28/08/2025 15:51

Boiledbeetle · 28/08/2025 15:50

Seriously!

Use the bloody quote button.

Plausible deniability?

ArabellaScott · 28/08/2025 15:52

Boiledbeetle · 28/08/2025 15:50

Seriously!

Use the bloody quote button.

In this instance I'm not sure it would help.

Igneococcus · 28/08/2025 15:52

ArabellaScott · 28/08/2025 15:49

And fucking horrible to dolphins tbh

But they are dolphins.

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 28/08/2025 15:52

That poster saying everyone in Norway is really happy that men can’t come into women’s spaces probably isn’t aware of the very large gender critical movement in the country and numerous women’s rights group pushing back against it.

A quick google was very enlightening

childofthe607080s · 28/08/2025 15:52

It isn’t a debate because one side only knows how to threaten and lecture.

yes I am afraid - afraid for the children - those who are like I was - being sterilised , having their lives harmed and shortened by unnecessary treatment.

I am afraid for the lesbians forced to have sex with males because they dare not say no

your feelings are no more important than mine

ArabellaScott · 28/08/2025 15:53

Igneococcus · 28/08/2025 15:52

But they are dolphins.

Trans orcas are dolphins?

childofthe607080s · 28/08/2025 15:53

Well everyone is happy in Norway because OP doesn’t think women are real full human beings so “everyone” excludes all the poor misguided women whose opinions don’t count anyway

Sammybabes16 · 28/08/2025 15:53

thrcddyin of woman depends on who defines it. We all have different definition and that’s just fine surely?

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 28/08/2025 15:54

Sammybabes16 · 28/08/2025 15:39

A small minority were. As we live in a democracy sometimes you have to accept what the majority agree with / not a fringe group of angry people.

The kkk dint agree with black men being in America. You always get small groups who are against others

And BINGO!

Weve been compared to the KKK. Knew that was coming

Whats a woman?

SidewaysOtter · 28/08/2025 15:54

Igneococcus · 28/08/2025 15:44

Boiled has invested all the money in Tunnocks, so the rumour goes.

Yes, except she's hoarding them, to go by her picture above <pouts>

As for the marmite issue, won't it go a bit too gooey when it's warm?

SolitaryWeasel · 28/08/2025 15:54

ArabellaScott · 28/08/2025 15:49

And fucking horrible to dolphins tbh

But dolphins are fucking awful to porpoises.

Charabanc · 28/08/2025 15:54

ArabellaScott · 28/08/2025 15:49

And fucking horrible to dolphins tbh

Orcas are dolphins.

ArabellaScott · 28/08/2025 15:54

Holy fuck, Igneo, you are, as ever, correct!

Orcas are Delphinidae .... mind blown!

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 28/08/2025 15:54

murasaki · 28/08/2025 15:47

Oh I don't know, I was mildly interested in those ski jumpers cheating by altering their ski suits. For about 30 seconds.

Is Norway a salty liquorice sort of place, or is that Finland? Basically if salty liquorice is involved I’m interested, otherwise not so much

murasaki · 28/08/2025 15:55

Sammybabes16 · 28/08/2025 15:53

thrcddyin of woman depends on who defines it. We all have different definition and that’s just fine surely?

What's yours then?

Greyskybluesky · 28/08/2025 15:55

Sammybabes16 · 28/08/2025 15:53

thrcddyin of woman depends on who defines it. We all have different definition and that’s just fine surely?

whut?

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 28/08/2025 15:55

SionnachRuadh · 28/08/2025 15:40

If Norway is anything like Ireland - and I suggest to the court that small countries with high social conformism and a progressive self-image might have some things in common - then you won't hear about problems with self-ID because they simply won't be reported.

I don't particularly want to rely on Gript to find out what's happening in Ireland, but there are a shitload of scandals that people who get all their news from RTE and the Irish Times will simply never know about. Including dangerous male criminals being allowed to self-ID into the women's prison estate.

I don’t know much about Norway but if it has the abysmally poor women’s rights record that Ireland does, it wouldn’t surprise me

NoWordForFluffy · 28/08/2025 15:55

Sammybabes16 · 28/08/2025 15:18

Perfectly fine. I think sometimes mums net is a sounding room for Gender Criticals and Terfs. Those views are not a reflection of thd majority of women. I left this site before because of the vicious behaviour of GCs when I pointed out under a different username that most woken don’t hold their views.

it seems stating facts makes them angry.

How many of the UK's women do you know? There's been polling done on this, and you're very wrong.

SolitaryWeasel · 28/08/2025 15:55

Fucsake OP learn to edit. You may think you are erudite, your Mum may think you are articulate, all we see is a boring, pompous windbag. I don’t need JKR to tell me what is blindingly obvious i.e. human’s can’t change sex.

Boiledbeetle · 28/08/2025 15:55

NoWordForFluffy · 28/08/2025 15:42

If those fuckers would just send me the cash already, I'd be grateful.

#cozzyliving

Honestly I don't know why you haven't got it. I posted cheques to everyone when the far right money for all of us hit my account.

Do you think I should cancel the cheque?

Anyway must go check on the installation of my new gold statue now I'm back from my holiday on the super yacht.

JKR Didn’t Have an Opinion. She Poisoned the Well
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Charabanc · 28/08/2025 15:55

Sammybabes16 · 28/08/2025 15:53

thrcddyin of woman depends on who defines it. We all have different definition and that’s just fine surely?

Give us your definition. As you seem quite invested in telling us who can be women.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 28/08/2025 15:56

Sammybabes16 · 28/08/2025 15:53

thrcddyin of woman depends on who defines it. We all have different definition and that’s just fine surely?

jesus wept

childofthe607080s · 28/08/2025 15:56

defining woman is easy - it’s the ones you try to shut up and ignore

transwomen clearly are not women because their opinions count

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 28/08/2025 15:56

Sammybabes16 · 28/08/2025 15:41

once again - the cognitive dissonance of anyone who disagrees with a small group of Gender Criticals automatically assumes they cannot be real.

I find it crazy thinking

Seeing as you aren’t telling me what a woman is, let’s take a different route.

Do you agree with men (your definition of men) being in women’s prisons? Boxing against women? Living women-only domestic violence shelters? Having access to women only rape support groups?

ArabellaScott · 28/08/2025 15:57

SidewaysOtter · 28/08/2025 15:54

Yes, except she's hoarding them, to go by her picture above <pouts>

As for the marmite issue, won't it go a bit too gooey when it's warm?

Thats why you need a clingfilm backup. Belt and braces, so to speak.

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