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The Bluestocking - where women are women, and small furry animals are gerbils, quokkas, capybaras, or a red panda called Rosy

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MarieDeGournay · 29/03/2025 21:30

Welcome all to the Bluestocking Pub, a haven safe from harsh reality [mostly] full of good company, and excellent food and drink served by the most efficient team of gerbils in the hospitality industry.

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Magpiecomplex · 09/04/2025 13:54

DeanElderberry · 09/04/2025 13:44

It could be worse, you could be called Louise. I think I blew my chance of her letting me help with the cheese.

Cheese mellows you out, I think Louise is ok... The picture is apparently you. Not sure how AI knows what a female Dean Elderberry looks like.

The Bluestocking - where women are women, and small furry animals are gerbils, quokkas,  capybaras, or a red panda called Rosy
DeanElderberry · 09/04/2025 13:56

tsk.

SHORT hair

GLASSES

the wasp-whacking one had me too thin and unable to see anything because no specs, but otherwise not too far off the mark.

Magpiecomplex · 09/04/2025 14:09

Any better, @DeanElderberry?

The Bluestocking - where women are women, and small furry animals are gerbils, quokkas,  capybaras, or a red panda called Rosy
MarieDeGournay · 09/04/2025 14:25

If that's what you look like, Deano, you look like you sprang fully formed from the head of JKR😃

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Magpiecomplex · 09/04/2025 14:28

MarieDeGournay · 09/04/2025 14:25

If that's what you look like, Deano, you look like you sprang fully formed from the head of JKR😃

Definite Harriet Potter vibes!

EdithStourton · 09/04/2025 14:45

Myrtle's deletion at 13:34 is a nice little reminder that we are being watched....

No idea what you said, Myrt. Either it was gone before I tried to read it, or it said something unexceptional.

FuzzyPuffling · 09/04/2025 14:48

Wasn't me that reported Myrtle.
A big rat did it and ran away.

DeanElderberry · 09/04/2025 14:48

Still a bit on the thin side but the cheese should soon put an end to that.

ErrolTheDragon · 09/04/2025 15:24

EdithStourton · 09/04/2025 14:45

Myrtle's deletion at 13:34 is a nice little reminder that we are being watched....

No idea what you said, Myrt. Either it was gone before I tried to read it, or it said something unexceptional.

can you even remember what it was,@MyrtleLion?

inkymoose · 09/04/2025 15:40

DeanElderberry · 09/04/2025 13:56

tsk.

SHORT hair

GLASSES

the wasp-whacking one had me too thin and unable to see anything because no specs, but otherwise not too far off the mark.

Thought I'd do a jolly little picture of you Deano, having a drink with Android at the Bluestocking. Men with beards kept being added to the images and I asked for them to be taken out. I asked for all the customers represented to be women and females. Last time this happened, and copilot kept sticking men with beards in, eventually it managed to show me all women customers, but not today.

Just had a massive argument discussion with copilot about this. Copilot claims that it must be inclusive:
"My guidelines are designed to ensure inclusivity, which is why I can’t create an image that exclusively features women".

I am hopping mad. The sexist and stereotypical images it produces when you ask for women, almost always young white women with norks akimbo, pouty bums, simpering smiles and so forth, are in no way "inclusive".

G r r r

Anyway it did manage to make two passable pictures after a long tussle (I asked it to show a pub where there were no other customers at all and no bar staff except for gerbils).

The Bluestocking - where women are women, and small furry animals are gerbils, quokkas,  capybaras, or a red panda called Rosy
The Bluestocking - where women are women, and small furry animals are gerbils, quokkas,  capybaras, or a red panda called Rosy
DeanElderberry · 09/04/2025 15:44

Lovely dog

lovely whatever that animal is

lovely us

but grrrrrrr to 'inclusivity'

ifIwerenotanandroid · 09/04/2025 16:18

FuzzyPuffling · 09/04/2025 07:24

At my last house we had particularly unpleasant neighbours, and I mean really personally unpleasant. (Major reason for moving).
I confess to planting a Victoria plum tree in the corner of my garden, as close as I could get to their seating area in the hope it would attract wasps. Sorry, not sorry.

Passive-aggressive garden design - love it! You should set up as a consultant. Wind chimes & bamboo next to the fence a speciality.😁

ifIwerenotanandroid · 09/04/2025 16:24

DeanElderberry · 09/04/2025 13:56

tsk.

SHORT hair

GLASSES

the wasp-whacking one had me too thin and unable to see anything because no specs, but otherwise not too far off the mark.

I asked it for short hair & sensible shoes.😂

MyrtleLion · 09/04/2025 16:26

I'm trying to be careful in case it gets removed again.

I mentioned that someone was saying the NHS should no longer be free on a WhatsApp group I'm on for women who believe in biological sex. I said that I didn't want party politics to intrude and we should limit discussion about the NHS to talking about women's rights and treatment for people who think they are not their biological sex. But I also mentioned the poster in my group wanted people to exercise their democratic rights in favour of a party that has a charismatic leader and wants to be mainstream.

I didn't think what I said was controversial and I was just after support after a horrible conversation on WhatsApp.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 09/04/2025 16:26

FuzzyPuffling · 09/04/2025 14:48

Wasn't me that reported Myrtle.
A big rat did it and ran away.

I reckon it was a picture of Myrtle's next job after piano tuner. She's had an interesting life, so I hear.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 09/04/2025 16:28

Oops, cross-posted.

Magpiecomplex · 09/04/2025 16:29

ifIwerenotanandroid · 09/04/2025 16:18

Passive-aggressive garden design - love it! You should set up as a consultant. Wind chimes & bamboo next to the fence a speciality.😁

My neighbour is VERY keen on bonfires. My passive aggressive garden design plans include a whole percussion section of wind chimes out there. Can't do bamboo as there's an alleyway between us.

MyrtleLion · 09/04/2025 16:31

How do I ask MN site people what I said wrong?

ifIwerenotanandroid · 09/04/2025 16:33

MyrtleLion · 09/04/2025 16:31

How do I ask MN site people what I said wrong?

Best not to query or argue, from what I've read. But I might be wrong.

They may have emailed you?

MyrtleLion · 09/04/2025 16:33

ifIwerenotanandroid · 09/04/2025 16:33

Best not to query or argue, from what I've read. But I might be wrong.

They may have emailed you?

No, nothing.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 09/04/2025 16:35
let it go GIF

I'd take the path of least resistance.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 09/04/2025 16:39

Myrtle, you know we're all here for you, sweetheart. Relaaax. Everything's fine.

The Bluestocking - where women are women, and small furry animals are gerbils, quokkas,  capybaras, or a red panda called Rosy
ifIwerenotanandroid · 09/04/2025 16:42

Now, which one of us has been moonlighting as a chocolate designer for Waitrose? These are so Bluestocking...

The Bluestocking - where women are women, and small furry animals are gerbils, quokkas,  capybaras, or a red panda called Rosy
The Bluestocking - where women are women, and small furry animals are gerbils, quokkas,  capybaras, or a red panda called Rosy
MyrtleLion · 09/04/2025 16:42

ifIwerenotanandroid · 09/04/2025 16:39

Myrtle, you know we're all here for you, sweetheart. Relaaax. Everything's fine.

Aww thank you!

My presentation is too wordy so I'm trying to find images so I can show headlines and pretty pictures to the panel. Fussing a lot about lining bits up. And then thinking I should probably turn the text version into a pdf to print out and give them, because they might not catch everything and should I write an implementation timeline of my ideas - and AI has invented a lot of crap on the timeline when I asked it for help.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 09/04/2025 16:47
High School GIF

OMG, you're gonna need someone smarter & more experienced than me to help you with that!

I can give you a slightly metallic shoulder massage, but that's my limit.

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