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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

NHS Fife tries to silence nurse - Sandie Peggie vs NHS Fife Health Board and Dr Beth Upton - thread #19

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nauticant · 14/02/2025 18:06

Sandie Peggie, a nurse at Victoria Hospital in Kirkcaldy (VH), has brought claims in the employment tribunal against her employer; Fife Health Board (the Board) and another employee, Dr B Upton. Ms Peggie’s claims are of sexual harassment, harassment related to a protected belief, indirect discrimination and victimisation. Dr Upton claims to be a transwoman, that is observed as male at birth but asserting a female gender identity.

The Employment Tribunal hearing started on Monday 3 February 2025 and was expected to continue for 2 weeks. However, after 2 weeks it was not complete and it adjourned part-heard. It seems that it will resume on 16 July and the last day of evidence will be 28 July but it wasn't completely clear whether it might end a day or two later.

The hearing commenced with Sandie Peggie giving evidence. Dr Beth Upton gave evidence from Thursday 6 February to Wednesday 12 February.

Access to view the hearing remotely was obtainable by sending an email request to [email protected] headed Public Access Request (Peggie v Fife Health Board) 4104864/2024 and requesting access.

However, as a result of problems with the livestreaming, apparently caused by a very large number of observers, remote public access to the hearing was suspended on Tuesday 11 February. It was suggested that it might be reinstated at some point but don't count on it.

The hearing is being live tweeted by https://x.com/tribunaltweets and there's additional information here: https://tribunaltweets.substack.com/p/peggie-vs-fife-health-board-and-dr. This also has threadreaderapp archives of live-tweeting of the sessions of the hearing for those who can't follow on Twitter, for example: archive.is/xkSxy.

An alternative to Twitter is to use Nitter: https://nitter.poast.org/tribunaltweets

Thread 1: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5186317-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse
Thread 2: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5267591-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-thread-2
Thread 3: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5268347-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-3
Thread 4: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5268942-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-4
Thread 5: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5269149-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-5
Thread 6: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5269635-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-6
Thread 7: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5270365-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-7
Thread 8: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5271511-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-8
Thread 9: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5271596-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-9
Thread 10: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5271723-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-10
Thread 11: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5272046-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-11
Thread 12: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5272276-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-12
Thread 13: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5272398-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-13
Thread 14: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5272939-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-14
Thread 15: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5273119-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-15
Thread 16: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5273636-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-16
Thread 17: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5273827-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-17
Thread 18: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5274332-nhs-fife-tries-to-silence-nurse-sandie-peggie-vs-nhs-fife-health-board-and-dr-beth-upton-thread-18

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CheekySnake · 16/02/2025 09:53

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 16/02/2025 08:31

Also I think - though I’m not sure if that’s in the Forstater submission or not - that the subgroup of trans-identified men who are trans because they get sexually aroused by larping as women present slightly more of a risk than non-trans-identified men.

Are they a subgroup, though? How do we know? I'm personally very uncomfortable with the idea that we can remove that motive from some men who pretend to be women. Some of them openly admit the motive is sexual. Some of them say it isn't but then display behaviours that suggest otherwise. And no-one is a sex offender until they commit a sexual offence and get caught.

MustBeThursday · 16/02/2025 09:53

It strikes me that so much of this "deadnaming" and right to privacy about trans status etc relies very much on the assumption that the person is completely unrecognisable as their actual sex so it can be a complete secret and anyone who disagrees with them being fully accepted does so only out of transphobia and not because their actual sex is obvious. Which just isn't the case most of the time. Certainly not where the person has not undergone any medical transition.

It's one of the things I found bizarre in the ERCC case - did the "non-binary" staff member think no one could see they were female?

BonfireLady · 16/02/2025 09:54

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 15/02/2025 10:01

Brilliant 👏👏👏👏👏

RedToothBrush · 16/02/2025 09:56

KnottyAuty · 16/02/2025 09:45

My theory is that soon gender dysphoria will be linked to autism - just as is happening for eating disorders now.

It will change public perception and a possibly reduce willingness to comply with the desires of those with a psychiatric disorder

DU shows a lot of traits of autism- I feel a traitor to my people for saying that. Not All Autists!

It's a hard conversation to have, especially if you are autistic. But just because it's difficult and is going to raise some uncomfortable points we shouldn't avoid it. Otherwise we let down and fail autistic people. Everyone deserves better than avoidance of problems because it only leads to more problems further down the line.

borntobequiet · 16/02/2025 09:57

I’m quite willing to (hypothetically) believe that there’s some “biological” or developmental cause for a certain type of gender dysphoria, that seen in very young boys and is persistent through later life. This seems to be the condition that originally interested doctors, and follows a well defined pattern.
Whether affirmation, hormonal treatments and surgery is an appropriate treatment for this is another matter. And whether it follows that men can become women, males become females, and that this should be enshrined in law, is a monstrous overreach, significantly detrimental to females in general and undermining of scientific fact and common sense.

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 16/02/2025 09:57

Brainworm · 16/02/2025 09:51

The Cass Report was clear in stating that there are many 'ways in' to having a trans identity.....highlighting why there needs to be a range of different treatments to address gender related distress.

Yes, definitely.

My brothers partner is a TiF, who has had a lot of sexual related trauma. Trauma that wouldn't have happened if they were male.

She frequently questions her gender identity as irrespective of what she chooses to dress like or call herself or use pronouns the truth is that transitioning hasn't cured her disdain for her own body being female. That said she also has a dissonance that the trauma she has had may contribute to the way that she feels, and after socially transitioning at university among her peers, is finding it hard to resolve herself now she's created a circle of captured friends which act as a very persuasive echo chamber.

It's really quite sad to see from an outside perspective because no external support surrounding sexual trauma is permitted to be accepted or tried and the only acceptable method is transitioning.

prh47bridge · 16/02/2025 09:57

fanOfBen · 16/02/2025 09:39

This is not complicated by the GRA in this particular case though, is it? The GRA says someone's sex changes if they have a GRC, but we know Upton cannot possible have had one.

Absolutely. If Upton had a GRC it would complicate this case. As he doesn't, he had no right to be in a women's changing room and the hospital should not have supported his (non-existent) right to be there.

Shortshriftandlethal · 16/02/2025 09:58

MustBeThursday · 16/02/2025 09:53

It strikes me that so much of this "deadnaming" and right to privacy about trans status etc relies very much on the assumption that the person is completely unrecognisable as their actual sex so it can be a complete secret and anyone who disagrees with them being fully accepted does so only out of transphobia and not because their actual sex is obvious. Which just isn't the case most of the time. Certainly not where the person has not undergone any medical transition.

It's one of the things I found bizarre in the ERCC case - did the "non-binary" staff member think no one could see they were female?

When the 'truth' is based entirely on your own personal feelings then it doesn't matter. Everyone is supposed to be, or willing to be, subservient to an individual's own self definition. It is a nebulous, imaginary world in which you have to be forever anxious of transgression, thought crime or 'micro-aggression'.

smallchange · 16/02/2025 09:58

MustBeThursday · 16/02/2025 09:53

It strikes me that so much of this "deadnaming" and right to privacy about trans status etc relies very much on the assumption that the person is completely unrecognisable as their actual sex so it can be a complete secret and anyone who disagrees with them being fully accepted does so only out of transphobia and not because their actual sex is obvious. Which just isn't the case most of the time. Certainly not where the person has not undergone any medical transition.

It's one of the things I found bizarre in the ERCC case - did the "non-binary" staff member think no one could see they were female?

Yes. It's another lie we're expected to tell ourselves.

I absolutely get that one set of rules for people who "pass" and another for those who don't is unworkable in any sort of legislation but all the more reasons not to make laws based on something that's as completely unquantifiable and unverifiable as gender.

KnottyAuty · 16/02/2025 09:59

Brainworm · 16/02/2025 09:19

My job involves supporting people (patients) who are struggling with life, most of whom present themselves to me with a narrative as to why this is the case. Some arrive feeling bereft of any explanation. The work I do with patients involves packing and re-writing elements of their narratives so they facilitate, not hinder, their quality of life and that of those around them.

DU's narrative is dysfunctional. It might be helpful for him in relation to some aspects of his life and preferred way of life, but it is creating considerable obstacles in other aspects. He can keep on wanting/expecting/demanding his external environment changes to suit his narrative, but this won't deliver a good quality of life for him or those whose lives intersect with his.

Gosh you’ve just made me think of the social model of disability - we are not disabled by the inherent condition but by the poor fit with our environment. Eg if most people were in wheelchairs then all furniture were designed for a lower height - which would be disabling for the able bodied etc.

This concept has led to lots of improvements in accessibility but change has been very slow. But maybe it’s taken hold in the public consciousness more than I thought - and that’s why trans issues may seem like a “logical” extension of that thinking? Also another reason for me to be annoyed about these ideas being hijacked for the benefit of advantaged able bodied males. 😠

SqueakyDinosaur · 16/02/2025 10:00

AIUI, KS's email to colleagues was not initially disclosed as part of the discovery process. Given that it's clearly very relevant to the case, this argues either deliberate suppression of evidence or stratospheric levels of incompetence. It's been described as "intemperate" which I assume means NC has now seen it and considers it serious and material enough to propose adding KS as R3.

Brainworm · 16/02/2025 10:03

borntobequiet · 16/02/2025 09:57

I’m quite willing to (hypothetically) believe that there’s some “biological” or developmental cause for a certain type of gender dysphoria, that seen in very young boys and is persistent through later life. This seems to be the condition that originally interested doctors, and follows a well defined pattern.
Whether affirmation, hormonal treatments and surgery is an appropriate treatment for this is another matter. And whether it follows that men can become women, males become females, and that this should be enshrined in law, is a monstrous overreach, significantly detrimental to females in general and undermining of scientific fact and common sense.

I agree. The factors that underpin trans identities, and gender distress where it co-exists with a trans identity, should not be conflated with decisions about how to include people with trans identities in SSS.

I think lots of people bring the concept of 'deservingness' into the mix. I feel it shouldn't factor at all.

Shortshriftandlethal · 16/02/2025 10:04

borntobequiet · 16/02/2025 09:57

I’m quite willing to (hypothetically) believe that there’s some “biological” or developmental cause for a certain type of gender dysphoria, that seen in very young boys and is persistent through later life. This seems to be the condition that originally interested doctors, and follows a well defined pattern.
Whether affirmation, hormonal treatments and surgery is an appropriate treatment for this is another matter. And whether it follows that men can become women, males become females, and that this should be enshrined in law, is a monstrous overreach, significantly detrimental to females in general and undermining of scientific fact and common sense.

It is well established that lots of young, nascently gay children develop dysphoria and significant anxiety around sex based roles and expectations. We may as well ask if being sex sex attracted is biological..

My own personal theory is that personal identification/orientation is psychological and formed very early on within the matrix of the maternal/familial/social psyche.Mothers who long for a child that is opposite to the actual sex of the child, for example.

JasmineAllen · 16/02/2025 10:05

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 16/02/2025 09:09

Coming back to say there is a tiny bit of evidence that people with genuine gender dysphoria have similar brain activation patterns in a certain part of the brain (I forget which) as people with eating disorders; the proposed theory is that there is some element of a proprioception or internal body-image issue in both cases, maybe.

This is a theory I've heard and I support the idea. IMO body dysmorphia and anorexia have some stark similarities:
*A refusal to accept your own body as 'correct'.
*A need to change that body, even to its own severe detriment.
*Denial of reality.
*A need to control the narrative.
*An obsession. Food with anorexia, being validated for Gen. Dys.

Unfortunately I have personal family experience of anorexia and it's insidious cousin, OCD and I have seen what an all consuming, horrible mental illness it is. I honestly think Gen Dys. is similar and should be treated as such and these people helped and supported, not encouraged to continue with their delusion.

I also believe people like Katy price who have excessive cosmetic surgery have some kind of similar mental illness.

I have sympathy for anyone who has gender dysphoria because it must be horrible to have such a debilitating mental illness but the solution shouldn't be to let them crack on with chopping off healthy body parts anymore that encouraging someone with anorexia yo starve themselves.

Of course I also believe only a very small percentage of trans women have gen. dysphoria and that's a whole different issue in itself.

RedToothBrush · 16/02/2025 10:06

Brainworm · 16/02/2025 10:03

I agree. The factors that underpin trans identities, and gender distress where it co-exists with a trans identity, should not be conflated with decisions about how to include people with trans identities in SSS.

I think lots of people bring the concept of 'deservingness' into the mix. I feel it shouldn't factor at all.

The idea of deserving is particularly British culture even when we have historically progressive on social issues.

Victorian ideals which were propagated by the middle classes very much had these ideas of mortality tied to them.

We haven't really moved much on from them.

Brainworm · 16/02/2025 10:08

@KnottyAuty - yes, the social model of disability is often at play. The medical model is widely denounced as a tool of oppression. Currently, a biopsychosocial model is widely accepted - suggesting multiple factors interrelate with each other.

I think causation is important in relation to treatment/addressing distress, but I don't think it has relevance to how society should navigate the issues arising.

Brainworm · 16/02/2025 10:12

@RedToothBrush, I agree about the issue of deservingness.

What I find interesting about the Fife case is that the NHS operates on principles of equal treatment. Access to treatment is not determined by whether you are a saint or a sinner in anyone's eyes. However, Fife seem to think that access to SS CRs can be determined in this way.

JasmineAllen · 16/02/2025 10:14

CarefulN0w · 16/02/2025 09:17

I've met people at various stages of transition who were looking for the next procedure. Just one more thing to make them a real woman. Except of course it's never enough. Leading to another "just one more thing". The end of the pathway is usually a miserable one, either from extreme treatment leading to physical problems or the harsh landing of reality.

A recurring theme on these threads is that Dr U hasn't heard the word no enough. And it has really done him a disservice. His choices are to dig in and go further or to admit to himself it's all a lie. He is not yet able to do the latter, so is forced to cling to the former.

As HCP we can show respect for peoples dignity and preferences, but we should never lie to them and must never affirm their delusions.

This sounds similar to what an ex nursing colleague once told me years ago. She had worked with gender reassignment patients and when I mentioned I thought they just had surgery, recovered and then merrily lived their new life she assured me that no. The surgery is never ending because it's not enough/often results in complications and apart from that the lifelong mental health problems were huge.

borntobequiet · 16/02/2025 10:15

It is well established that lots of young, nascently gay children develop dysphoria and significant anxiety around sex based roles and expectations. We may as well ask if being sex sex attracted is biological

I’m sure that’s true, a much more likely explanation, and we can ask anything we like.

But we shouldn’t rule things out because alternative explanations exist. It may be that different things are true for different people. In the same way, I can hypothetically accept that a sense of “gender” exists that is innate. I also suspect that some “gendered” behaviours are biologically (for want of a better term) based, rather than being entirely socially constructed.

But even if I believe these things, it doesn’t follow that men can become women or that affirmation etc. is the logical, moral or practical consequence of my (hypothetical) belief.

MorrisZapp · 16/02/2025 10:16

Oh dear god the performative lovelies on the Sali Hughes facebook are at it again. 'My son has said he's trans and I feel terrible that I didn't realise he was actually a girl earlier. How can I make it up to her?' Cue rainbow and kindness meltdown and praise for being the best mum ever. One polite comment recommending looking at the Cass review regarding transition was immediately locked by admins.

Women are capable of the most depressing groupthink if it earns them likes and lovehearts.

Be kind is fucking poison.

KnottyAuty · 16/02/2025 10:16

RedToothBrush · 16/02/2025 09:56

It's a hard conversation to have, especially if you are autistic. But just because it's difficult and is going to raise some uncomfortable points we shouldn't avoid it. Otherwise we let down and fail autistic people. Everyone deserves better than avoidance of problems because it only leads to more problems further down the line.

100%
The sooner this convo is mainstream the better.

I hate the idea of the disorder part of the diagnosis Autism Spectrum Disorder. I prefer Condition.

But it’s cases like this where I think yup, maybe I need to get over that. Some presentations really need to be called for what they are.

Arran2024 · 16/02/2025 10:16

DeanElderberry · 16/02/2025 07:26

@ConstructionTime . Yesterday 20:27
It was in the TT from day 1:
^ https://archive.is/xkSxy^
They might come back to this relevant point again:
"NC - we have an additional document we want to insert into the bundle, DU previous GMC registration under the
name of Theodore Upton.
JR - that is opposed. I'm disappointed that MLC has deadnamed DU. Making that order might an act of direct discrimination and harassment against DU. Citing a case, deadnaming is an act of harassment.
Is the panel aware of deadnaming
J & panel indicate yes.
JR - deadnaming is a rejection of the person's identity and make them very stressed and it might affect the evidence they can give in this tribunal. Particularly egregious in a public hearing, anyone can harass DU
on the basis of previous name. Not relevant to the case. Do not need to refer to DU's deadname to deal with the case. Simply not relevant. To allow the document in is to harass the witness.

The whole 'deadnaming' concept is so bloody male. Until recently every woman who married changed her name - and when she met people who she'd know since childhood who used the name they'd been familiar with, she didn't feel 'rejected', or get 'very stressed' or describe it as 'harassment'.

Or the case of a relative of mine - names used slightly different, underlying principle the same.

Named Elizabeth Kelly

Called Betty Kelly by family

But Elizabeth Kelly in schools

Became a nun named Sister Joseph Kelly in religion

Left the convent, married, decided to use the Irish form of her name and her husband's surname, now called Eilis Murphy.

In later life, if she met someone who greeted her as Elizabeth, or a cousin who called her Betty, or a development worker who introduced her as the Joseph Kelly who ran an educational programme in Peru and published the process, Eilis did not cease to exist. The names were not 'deadnames' they were the names of her life, part of her story, to be remembered with affection and pride, even if they were not what she chose to use in later life.

The 'deadname' concept is a tell, that this thing is a performance and an attempt to coerce and control.

You could argue though that a new trans name is more akin to the adoption process, where deadnaming someone is definitely an issue.

MorrisZapp · 16/02/2025 10:17

Sorry that was a derail. Just venting.

CarefulN0w · 16/02/2025 10:20

Can I ask a question of @prh47bridge and any other legal people about KS's way forward ?

It seems to me that an option for her would be to back away from her email saying that Dr U lied/exaggerated and that she sent the email in haste.

Presumably, this isn't an option if she is a co-respondent with Fife, but could she appoint her own representatives and say she was misled by Fife's policies and Dr U??

KnottyAuty · 16/02/2025 10:22

Shortshriftandlethal · 16/02/2025 10:04

It is well established that lots of young, nascently gay children develop dysphoria and significant anxiety around sex based roles and expectations. We may as well ask if being sex sex attracted is biological..

My own personal theory is that personal identification/orientation is psychological and formed very early on within the matrix of the maternal/familial/social psyche.Mothers who long for a child that is opposite to the actual sex of the child, for example.

Edited

Oh careful - let’s not go down the refrigerator mother route… I hear what you’re saying tho

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