Just caught up! Thank you everyone. Just to demonstrate how far behind I was, when he said it would be up to the woman, who had asked for a female Doctor, to object if he walked in, I had to have an exam with an ultrasound. My knickers were off and I was in the stirrups before I even saw the Doctor. Not the best position to be in to raise objections.
Also regarding his tardiness in doing anything about the patient safety, I had to deal with enforcement of laws (many years ago so memory is fuzzy), it was 'acts or omissions' meaning if we were aware of a breach and did not follow procedure we became liable, as liable as the person who was actually responsible for the breach. I wonder if patient safety is covered similarly. If it is and DU did nothing for weeks, he'd be in as much trouble as Sandie except it seems to have been, at best, exaggerated to get her in trouble and beef up his nothing sandwich. Arguably the hospital might also be liable when they became aware he'd witnessed something, he did sweet fa for an unreasonable period of time.