@TheCountessofFitzdotterel it is indeed. In fact I can't help feeling sorry for a person whose life has ended up in this kind of state. Whilst firmly standing against everything they embody, I actually feel sorry for them. Do they not have any ambition to do better for themselves and contribute something worthwhile, however small, to the sum total of human happiness and well-being? They've really chosen to make their life about this stuff? It's astonishing really.