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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Please update your email signature to include your pronouns

194 replies

Rosecottage888 · 22/10/2022 00:34

The email states (at the bottom) that this is optional.

I knew it was coming, saw other threads from people who's organisations asked the same. I won't do it, just wanted a moan here.

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ErrolTheDragon · 22/10/2022 00:39

I'm sure you won't be alone in ignoring this request. And the upside, I guess, is that it gives some indication of who thinks specifying pronouns is daft or wrong.

AnOldCynic · 22/10/2022 00:42

It/Them

Ask them to respect this.

Wombat100 · 22/10/2022 00:42

I wouldn’t do it either. It’s a hill I’m fully prepared to die on.

Anydaynowonewouldhope · 22/10/2022 00:44

C/EO

Rosecottage888 · 22/10/2022 00:45

How long is it optional for though before they single out those who don't have pronouns on their signature? This worries me.

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ninetynineAu · 22/10/2022 00:47

I'd be very tempted to write: Joan/Armatrading

RJnomore1 · 22/10/2022 00:49

If this ever hits me I will put mew/purr

GlassDeli · 22/10/2022 00:49

Not/Applicable

Adult/Human/Female

Up/Yours

Rosecottage888 · 22/10/2022 00:51

@GlassDeli I would love to have the balls to do this

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SimpleName83 · 22/10/2022 00:51

Hey man, are you Stone Age or summat, Daddyo??!!! Pronouns, Granddad???!! Wot 😂

HopRockers · 22/10/2022 00:52

It's a test to see who actually reads the emails/who is brainless The email states (at the bottom) that this is optional.

It's going to be very revealing!

Rosecottage888 · 22/10/2022 00:55

HopRockers · 22/10/2022 00:52

It's a test to see who actually reads the emails/who is brainless The email states (at the bottom) that this is optional.

It's going to be very revealing!

I'm dreading seeing the emails come in over the next few weeks, seeing who has added them to their signatures. I don't want to see my colleagues in a new light but know I will judge them if they fall for this crap.

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HopRockers · 22/10/2022 00:59

Rosecottage888 · 22/10/2022 00:55

I'm dreading seeing the emails come in over the next few weeks, seeing who has added them to their signatures. I don't want to see my colleagues in a new light but know I will judge them if they fall for this crap.

Hopefully it will help you easily identify the sane ones - there is strength in numbers 💐

SimpleName83 · 22/10/2022 01:00

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redglobox · 22/10/2022 01:02

Optional where I work, made available fairly recently. Such a disappointment every time I see a colleague I previously respected add pronouns! It's such a bad move for the company to bring politics / ideologies into the workplace in this way. Those who have added them are still very much in the minority. Interestingly they are almost all women with a handful of gay blokes. Not yet seen a single pronoun that doesn't match the individual's sex.

Rosecottage888 · 22/10/2022 01:07

redglobox · 22/10/2022 01:02

Optional where I work, made available fairly recently. Such a disappointment every time I see a colleague I previously respected add pronouns! It's such a bad move for the company to bring politics / ideologies into the workplace in this way. Those who have added them are still very much in the minority. Interestingly they are almost all women with a handful of gay blokes. Not yet seen a single pronoun that doesn't match the individual's sex.

This is exactly what worries me! My opinions are kept to myself and I have a great deal of respect for my colleagues. I don't want to see their pronouns suddenly appear based on this request.

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SimpleName83 · 22/10/2022 01:08

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SeemsABitHarsh · 22/10/2022 01:13

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This doesn't relate to the nursery, that's a different thread

SeemsABitHarsh · 22/10/2022 01:15

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My real name can be used by either sex. I'm absolutely fed up with people assuming I'm a man because male is the default

Rosecottage888 · 22/10/2022 01:15

@SeemsABitHarsh thank you!

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Rosecottage888 · 22/10/2022 00:45

How long is it optional for though before they single out those who don't have pronouns on their signature? This worries me.

Why would they do that if it's optional?

GrumpyPanda · 22/10/2022 01:16

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Wrong pronoun thread!

FlirtsWithRhinos · 22/10/2022 01:17

I'm leaning towards OD/FOD

SkiingIsHeaven · 22/10/2022 01:18

She/we. It literally takes the piss.

Rosecottage888 · 22/10/2022 01:18

@SeemsABitHarsh like I said, optional now but for how long

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